I'm a girl, freshman in highschool- my group of friends at school do all sorts of things almost every weekend- and I've never been invited once. I'm tired of wondering every Friday if thier making plans, and hoping I get invited. I'm sick of everytime it's one of their birthdays having to sneak around to find out wether or not their having a party, because I KNOW I'm not going to get invited.
Here's the thing, though- I go to a very small school, less than 50 students in my intire grade and so it's not like I can just ditch them and find new friends.
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday April 30 2005, 11:06 pm: well i have a friend in my group that i guess isnt as adventurous as the rest and shes not always noticed so we kinda skipped her when we made plans. confide in one of your closest friends and tell her how you feel. if you want to be included, why not start making plans? just make sure you invite everyone to whatever your doing then they will really notice that you want to be with them more. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
LiSaxOBaBii answered Saturday April 30 2005, 10:12 pm: Try asking them if you can come.Maybe they aren't aware that you're getting left out.Try to be more fun because they might not be inviting you because you don't seem like you will enjoy it.Act really hyper and tell jokes!!!It works for me!!!
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pinkygrl336 answered Saturday April 30 2005, 8:27 pm: if suggesting other things to do doesnt work out, then you can try to make friends with people from other schools. also, get involved w/ other types of people.join clubs or maybe try a new sport.good luck! - Jess [ pinkygrl336's advice column | Ask pinkygrl336 A Question ]
xo_Meg_ox answered Saturday April 30 2005, 7:58 pm: be the one to suggest an idea of something fun to do or make your own plans with other people - they might become jealous and want to be included...or they may not even be leaving u out on purpose -- ask them about it upfront (and i doubt they'll say no to ur face even if it was intentional) good luck! [ xo_Meg_ox's advice column | Ask xo_Meg_ox A Question ]
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