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how do u get rid or razor burn?? i get it between my legs on on my thighs when i shave thats it...and i hate them bc they look like pimples!! help me!! i've even tried sensitive skin shaving gel idk wut else to do PLZ HELP

try to wait longer between shaving and use warm water to open pores

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Hi i'm 14 years old. I'm going to be straight foward about this lol. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom there is a white liquid that appears in my underwear. What is it? And what does it mean? Thanks for your advice.

it's perfectly normal...and if you haven't gotten your period yet i think i read somewhere that it means you'll get your period in a couple of months

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umm this is kinda embarrassing. so im just gonna let it out...i always get a boner for like no reason..(im a guy)...ill just be sittin there and all of a sudden..ITS THERE! i dont like it. sometimes it can show. is this a problem? is it normal? im cinfused! >>ILL RATE

i don't know how helpful my answer will be bcuz i'm a girl, but if i met you and this happened to you i wouldn't think you were a pervert or anything - you can't help it! my advice is to just try to hide it and laugh it off (and if you have the channel noggin, there's an episode of degrassi just like this and it's hysterical - you should watch it! haha)

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Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

(I will rate you!)

i wouldn't break it off if you plan on meeting him on vacation because then that might be a vacation from hell! lol if you still feel the same way at afterwards, then i think it would be unfair to both of you to pretend, but i do think that if/when you do break up with him that you should tell him why so that you can get his reaction to it

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im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are?

you have to keep in mind that these people are coming from all different situations and even different states ~ maybe the people who haven't had sex aren't writing posts because they don't need to worry......anyway, i'm 17 and i've never had sex and i definitely don't think it's anything to be embarrassed about - having sex is a personal decision that you have to decide for yourself

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What does it mean to have muscle tone in ur cheeks and is it a good or bad thing? I work out this summer so would that help and how can I improve it if it's a bad thing? I don't care what ppl think of me it jus would make my self-confidence higher. Thanks!

maybe they mean your butt cheeks hehe

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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help

if you're too scared to make a physical move then maybe try to make a move of it socially by bringing up the topic of kissing

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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?

no offense, but most 10 year olds haven't even gone through puberty yet

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ok..see, i put in sub posts about being through puberty and being called names and stuff and theres another thing bothering me! i dont really have guy friends..like i have friends that are guys that i say hi to like every 2 weeks. i really only have about 3-5 guy friends that i can actually talk to. all the rest are girls! i dont know why i dont have guy friends. maybe its because they all think im gay (im not though). (IM A GUY BY THE WAY)

maybe you just aren't into the things most guys are into (sports, video games, etc...) and if you aren't then you shouldn't feel pressure to change, but if you do have similar interests with guys you know then try to become involved or hang out with them and hopefully that will help you bond!

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does n e on have n e GOOD qoute sites? PLEASE help me!! thanx a bunch PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS MODERATOR PLEASE =(

boardofwisdom.com

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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana

i totally understand where you're coming from, but here's something that might help your nerves: by giving and looking at advice on this site, i've realized how many people ask similar questions - you're not alone!! almost everybody gets nervous about this kind of thing, but yet the world is still full of kisses...so it can't be that hard lol and i think you'll be fine when the right moment comes!!

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In school, i've always been called names like "gay" and "fag". i think its because
#1) i have a high voice and...
#2) i act goofy alot cause i like to have fun

most of the time people are joking but sometimes people really think im gay. it doesnt make me feel that great:(. i wish there was a way to stop it. please help.

do you have any guy friends? i'm assuming that the people calling you these names are probably male (sorry if that's sexist of me) but if you became friends with a few guys and they got to know you then i think it would stop...overall though, as long as your true friends know who you are then screw those other people!

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recentally ive been hearing that there are a lot of people who like me, but i only see all of them as friends. i dont want to hurt them but at the same time i dont want to lead them on, ive tried to tell them that i dont like them that way but they never seemed to listen, and when i hang out with them they areaalways flirting with me, how should i fix this?

i TOTALLY know where you're coming from...my advice is to avoid letting them feel comfortable with you physically - if i know a guy likes me and i don't like him, then i don't give him the wrong impression by hugging him or sitting real close next to him or anything like that and hopefully that gives them the hint = body language! (but those dang boys CAN be pretty persistent haha) good luck

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Hello I was just wondering what qualities a gurl around 16-17 looks for in a guy. Anyone who can help me i'll rate ya good.

funny guys are the best!!...personally, i like when guys are sort of adorable - like momma's boys lol but basically just being honest with who you are and up to having a good time is the best...also, speaking from experience, if a girl doesn't like you then don't pressure her or become stalkerish because then you won't even have the chance of being friends with her ! good luck

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Hi she I met this gurl at a place called Teen Camp , but see we became really good friends practilly best friends, but she lives in TN. My other friend who used to be my best friend is made at me bc all I talk about is my other Best friend..... What doI do???
PLZ HELP

i kno how your friend feels because i remember when my one friend came back from camp with new friends i was totally jealous and i really wish i had been able to go...my advice is that even if you still talk about your friend from camp, make sure that your old friend still feels important ~ say things like, "i really wish you could've met her because i think you would've really liked her too" or "camp would've been more fun if you were there" ..... (unless of course you don't feel this way because i don't want you to lie or come off sounding insincere!) hope i helped

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does anyone know a good way to get your jumps better in cheerleading? i practice everyday and nothing seems to be working. help!

leg and hip strength!!!, work on a trampoline, work with weights on your ankles, make sure you are jumping the correct way (off of your toes) and keeping your chest up, work on your flexibility in both splits and pikes, even stretch out your ankles ~ by doing hip strength (such as lying on your back in a straddle and bringing your legs together repeatedly) you will be able to do snap your legs together faster in order to finish the jump before you land, and of course leg strength will give you more power in general (lunges, calf raises, roll backs (start standing, roll back, and jump up -- repeat), etc.....) hope i helped!

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i love running! but i hear its bad on your joints in your knees...what else can i do isntead of running?

running on tred mills or tracks is better for you (by the way, i've had two knee surgeries and the doctor encourages me to run - but it has to be on tred mills or tracks)

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What are some good truth or dares? plz hell cause im having a Sleepover.

oooone time in 7th grade my friend dared my other friend to lick someone's bare butt...and she did it!!! haha - classic! we never forgot that one ;)

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okay, I just wanna know for all you people who are in gymnastics or dance...can you give me tips on how to do a better switch leap? i've can almost do both of my splits and i dont know if you can help me but i just need to know how to do a better switch leap. thanks.

try to put all your effort into going up instead of out (you don't want to travel a lot), make it fast, don't lean forward, try not to bring your first leg up too high...drills include working on a trampoline and leg swings and any exercises for leg and hip strength - and of course you have to have your splits! lol hope i helped

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any creative costume ideas? i want it to be funny and cheap

i am the queen of costumes! let's see...3rd grade i was a bean bag(mom made it), 4th i was a phone(bought that one), 5th i was a homemade m & m, 6th i was a joker (bought again), 7th i was a tree (green sweatshirt and gloves, brown pants, pinned fake leaves all over the sweatshirt and even glued fake roots to felt and attached them to my shoes and hung a stuffed animal monkey on my arm), 8th grade i was Quail Man from Doug (undies over tan shorts, red shoes, Q on green shirt, and belt on head), 9th grade i was my dad (hahaha), 10th i was a geek, and 11th i was a "bench warmer"(i wore a jersey and sweatpants with flames ironed on the butt)

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