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okay so i have pretty white teeth and i brush them 2 times a day and like my left top front tooth has become extremely sensitive to like cold things i may drink to the point were it kinda hurts.. but my teeth are like not gross or anything so does anyone no what might be the problem?

There is nothing wrong with it, its just your teeth are sensitive. They make a special kind of toothpaste for it called sensodine i think, and others too. My mom and i have sensitive teeth too. Except it is all of our front teeth.
-hayley

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Ok so me and this guy met last summer and we bacame extremly good friends. We even dated for about a month and half but we had to end things because we never saw eachother. The thing is though I fell head over heels for this guy. Just looking at him leaves me breathless I have never felt so strongly about a person before. He has told me he loved me to but he was sorta drinking at the time he said that so I dont really beleive him.. Well now im moving down the street from him and I know we will be hanging out more and all that... Im just not sure if I should tell him how I feel but im really nervous because he is one of those who feels "too macho" to express feelings and stuff lol. SO im not sure if I should say anything or just see what happens... SO yea im confused. What do you think?

I think you could try. I mean there is a chance like the person below me said, that you could break up and then it would be awkward. But like at my school, if you date someone then break up you still go to football games together. Ha ha. I say go for it. I mean seriously what have you got to lose. Maybe if you pull him away from his friends and its just you two then he would open up to you.
-hayley

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hey so i really liek this guy and he is two grades above me and very well liked so it is pretty much impossible that i could ever get with him but does anyone have any advice whatsoever. i'm a freshman while he is a junior in high school. I know this is pretty much impossible but does anyone have anything i can do or say around him to make him think of me in a different way? we arent good friends at all but we have talked before and he knows me. i dont want to like write on his facebook wall or do anything like that cause i dont know him well enough.. anything else?

ah thanks!

Okay well, if you like the guy enough, then you should try. I mean if you keep saying he is out of your league, then you will pretty much bomb your self confidence. And we dont want that! :) All you really need to do is just be yourself. And some guys think that a girl should change herself (i know i have one as a best friend and i get on to him about it all the time) but those guys arent worth it. I cant tell you how many times i have pretty much slapped jt upside the head for him talking about a girl like that. I have him trained a little bit, but not completely. But ANYWAYS! ha ha just be yourself and if the guy dont like you for who you are then you should just forget about him. I know its cliche' but its true. Nothing is out of reach if you want it bad enough.
-hayley

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My boyfriend's friend kept poking fun at my boyfriend. It's really complicated, but to make it simple. Boyfriend didn't believe me about something, friend kept making fun of something that I did over a year ago even when I corrected him not so long after it had happened, then he made fun of me because I kept avoiding telling him off. I just didn't want to be a bitch about it.

But then I got tired of my boyfriend lecturing me about not defending him when I did. He just didn't believe me.

So I sent his friend an email. I insulted him, told him to knock it off, and made fun of his own disorder!

It just really hurt me to find out his friend kept making fun of him AND he was doing it on purpose to make me pissed off.

Ever since the email, apparently my boyfriend says the kid is weirded out by me. Boyfriend doesn't want me to hate him and such. I don't think I do. I'm just still angry. I just don't know if I should forgive him. He caused us so much distress.

Send him another email or tell it to his face:
Just tell him that while he thinks it is fun, you guys dont. And that it really makes you mad that he does that to you. Just tell him how you feel..And that he can continue to be weirded out by you but the bit is getting old.
-hayley

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how do you get rid of KILLER cramps? like so bad you can't even function? and my boyfrend always asks what he can do to help. any suggestions i can tell him?

heating pads and midol or pamprin....then just kind of chill out a while with them...
-hayley

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i found this website about cloverfield. it's just a bunch of pictures. and i read about it, and people say that you can flip the pictures over, and read stuff on the back. i know that you can move them around, and ive tried flipping them over to see whats on the back, but i cant figure out how too. does anyone know how i can?

heres the link for the site:

http://www.1-18-08.com/

the first picture might gross you out a little. haha.

thanks for all your help!!

I figured it out....all you do is click on it and hold it down, then just move the mouse quickly as you let go but make sure you move it back and forth...it took a minute but it was fun learning! ha ha
-hayley

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on tonights [friday] new episonde of degrassi the next generation how does Marco get the 300$$ from that dude? like what does he do to him. i would have found out but after i saw that i had to leave to go somehwere so i didnt get to catch the end of it.
thanks

It was originally prostitution, but he didnt go through with it. It was against his values. So he started to talk to that one dude that worked with Ellie, but decided he wasnt his type...then the episode pretty much ended.
-hayley

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Okay I've been obsessing over this guy. Not in a stalker way, but in a "I can't stop thinking about you" way. The other day I was driving and happened to look at the license plate of the car in front of me. It had his name and the date he was coming back on. Am I just over analyzing this or is it a sign?

well love works that way...You cant see what its trying to tell you and when you see it its too late...i think it could mean something, maybe you still have a chance!
-hayley

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sadly to say, i have no ass. i'm about to be 16, and i still fit in those little kid pants that are size 14. how do i make my butt bigger?? what can i eat or do to make my butt grow. thanks!!!!!!!

eat lots of patatoes and peanut butter...
-hayley

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ok, im 16 years old and i have this girlfriend who two nights ago (the 28th) i had sex with without a condom... it didnt last very long and i pulled out before anything happend and made sure to do my best to not let anything get in, but im still nervous. her last period was sometime this month that ended around the 8th. can somebody please help me out here and give me some advice on what to do??

Okay use protection always, because here is the way i see it (not to offend anyone here) but if you are grown up enough to have unprotected sex, then you are grown up enough to accept the reality....

But She wont know until her next period. And even if you were to get inside of her just the tinest little bit then it could happen. If she skips her next period then she should take a pregnancy test. And I dont know you or your beliefs, but if she is pregnant, dont do abortion. That is murder.

All you can do right now is wait... And pray.
-hayley

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yeah so most of you know they block myspace at most school anybody know a good proxy or just a fun website that wont make me bored when i have nothing to do in class???????? :D

in our classes when we get bored we go to this site called ....mathisfun.com.... and i know it dont sound all that good but they have games that are fun...ha ha
-hayley

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how do leap year birthdays work?

my friend cjs moms birthday is a leap year day...ha ha....what happens is they celebrate the birthday on the 28 on the odd years and then the 29 on the leap year. They are still older just they dont have a birthday normally..
-hayley

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we're getting a new victorian bulldog puppy. any cute names?!

for a boy i personally like:
chester
blitz
charlie

and for a girl i like:
maggie
abby
aj

Have Fun!! I looked them up and they look cute!!
-hayley

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okayy.
soo .
today is the first day i have ever used a tampon.
and it hurts REALLY BADLY. i think i did somethingg wrongg.
i dont know thoughh .

HELPPPP!!!

thanks for inboxing!!

okay honey just calm down...okay at first it will hurt very badly, but also you must stay calm and not be tense! :) i know it is difficult but the calmer you are the easier it will go in! ha ha and also when you do wear one, here is how you put it in: make sure that you do not push in the tampon itself (not the applicator) but the tampon until you can feel your fingers touch your vagina..Note you should have your fingers on the grip....it will hurt the first few times. But you will get used to it...
-hayley

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hey i was just wondering when you put a tampon in which hole do you put it in

Thanks for inboxing!!

Well honey there is really just 3 holes, starting from front to back you have the urination hole (what you pee from) next you have the slightly larger hole (the one which you insert a tampon) and the third (the anus)...When you put it in aim towards your but, the canal isnt straight up and down its at an angle...and be sure you push it in until your fingers are touching your genitals...also if you want to make sure you get the right hole, (its going to sound weird) but feel around, under the clitoris you will feel some skin and then you should feel a hole...that is the hole my friend...
-hayley

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what is a sexy way to turn on my bf and getting him real aroused without giong past 2nd and i dont even think im going to 2nd possibly in the future. Not now haha anyway so no rubbing 'down there' or anything haha. but some sexy things i can do. also no licking. so ways to turn him on and get him really aroused before 2nd and then if we go to 2nd.
thanks so, so much! i will rate! :]
ps. he knows we wont go farther and doesnt want us to either so im not teasing him in a mean way. just a hott, sexy, playful way. but i want to make him want to go further even tho he knows he cant! ;] thanks again!!!

Oh a really good one is to kiss his neck, like right behind his ear, but do it gently though. He would like that. It would send chills up and down his spine.
-hayley

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I KNOW ITS LONG, BUT PLEASE PLEASE ITS VERY IMPORTANT PLEASE READ ALL AND PLEASE TRY TO HELP ME!
i dont have school for the next 2 weeks and today i went to see my mom at work when i got there she was talking on the phone in a veryy flirtatious way. if you knew my mom u knew she has a very strong voice and is often being mean to people. but on the other hand she was actually laughing at what the person on the other line said and was being verrry flirty and talking in a low voice. i listened more and i KNew it was a guy. i also knew it wasn't someone that i knew because that was not the way she usually talks to people. her and my dad have been married for about 19 years now. they always say that they dont belive in gettin divorce and that they love eachother very much. also this might sounds very discusting but i have heard them have sex a lot recently because i cant sleep so i can hear evrything in my house. so then i walked into her room and she went to the bathroom as i got my chance i checked her phonee and this number had called her and she had been takling for about 1/2 n hr. i also checked her messages and in her inbox this number had sent to messages, on saying "what else lady" and the second "can i call you" the only perosn that calls my mom lady is my dad in a cute way sort of saying babe but i knew it wasnt my dad because that is not his cell number nd it would be stupid for him to secretly have another one. the messages in her outbox to him where "uhmm lemme think about it" and "okay call me for like 2 secs" those '2 secs' turned into 1.2 n hr. later when we got home i went to check her mesages and her calls again and she had deleted all of it! meaning she didn't want anyyone seeing that! i wrote down the number before when she was in the bathroom on my leg so she wouldnt see it. i later called it a man that i have neverr heard his voice before picked up. i go everywhere with my parents a lot so i know of all their friends and people around them. i really think she's cheating, WHAT SHOULD I DO? my mom is very religious and i KNOW my dad is crazy and completely in LOVE with her, i dont want to hurt him, but i feel as though im hurtin ghim more by keeping it from him, please HELP.

Well first off be absolutely sure that she is cheating...
Second you should tell him, but only if you are 120% sure...it would hurt him more if he knew that you knew all along and didnt say anything, trust me..
So if you are 120% sure then tell him that you think she is cheating on him and tell him the whole thing you told us...its nice you care about your dad so much!! :)
-hayley

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Everyday my crush flirts with one of my friends.Everytime I see them flirting I get so hurt because this boy used to flirt with me before she got here and now Im so mad.I thought this boy liked me but I guess I was wrong.And also he bothers me all the time.But I dont know if he bothers me because he likes me or because he doesnt like me.IM SO CONFUSED!

well maybe he is either
a) a player or
b) trying to make you jealous

just ask him about it...
-hayley

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ok im sorry and this is embarrassing but i think i have a hemorrhoid but i dont know what to do about it. will it just go away? its been there a while and hurts and itches a bit but nothing too bad. i dont want to tell my mom tho because that would be mortifying. so im hoping it just goes away soon? please tell me what to do and what they do. thanks so much-i will rate! :]

its okay it is a natural thing. But i would reccomend using Preporation H to shrink the hemorrhoidal tissue..

also when you need to use the bathroom just go dont wait and try to go once a day
-hayley

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when your having your period (or for a short time after) how do you get the "fishy smell" away??
It really bugs me, and makes me insecure...
Thanks:)

honestly there shouldnt be a fishy smell honey. It could be a yeast infection or like the person below me said it could be a hormonal problem. You should call your doctor or get one of those vaginal screening kits by i think its vagisil..
-hayley

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