Question Posted Wednesday February 27 2008, 6:26 pm
Everyday my crush flirts with one of my friends.Everytime I see them flirting I get so hurt because this boy used to flirt with me before she got here and now Im so mad.I thought this boy liked me but I guess I was wrong.And also he bothers me all the time.But I dont know if he bothers me because he likes me or because he doesnt like me.IM SO CONFUSED!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BitsandPieces answered Thursday February 28 2008, 7:41 pm: Your title can be read with two meanings. I thought you were a dude exclaiming your love of flirting at first..how funny. Anyway, whether or not someone is flirty is not an indication of their loyalty as you may think. A lot of cheaters are sneaky and do not openly flirt. On the other hand some people just love attention and flirt with anyone that will play the game. He may like you and like to flirt, and that is okay for him to be who he is. If it really bugs you then the two of you won't work, because we cannot change for anyone. You could try being more flirty yourself and see what happens...you may enjoy it. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
christina answered Thursday February 28 2008, 10:15 am: Honestly, boys are going to flirt whether they like you or not. You can't really get upset over it, even if he is your boyfriend. Boys have the tendency to be flirting and not know it, and since he technically isn't yours, you can't be upset.
He's probably not doing it to piss you off. He probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. Just don't let it bother you. It's not a huge deal and it's way out of your control. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
teardrops7 answered Wednesday February 27 2008, 8:29 pm: well maybe he is either
a) a player or
b) trying to make you jealous
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