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I don't know if I should forgive him.
My boyfriend's friend kept poking fun at my boyfriend. It's really complicated, but to make it simple. Boyfriend didn't believe me about something, friend kept making fun of something that I did over a year ago even when I corrected him not so long after it had happened, then he made fun of me because I kept avoiding telling him off. I just didn't want to be a bitch about it.
But then I got tired of my boyfriend lecturing me about not defending him when I did. He just didn't believe me.
So I sent his friend an email. I insulted him, told him to knock it off, and made fun of his own disorder!
It just really hurt me to find out his friend kept making fun of him AND he was doing it on purpose to make me pissed off.
Ever since the email, apparently my boyfriend says the kid is weirded out by me. Boyfriend doesn't want me to hate him and such. I don't think I do. I'm just still angry. I just don't know if I should forgive him. He caused us so much distress.
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You should tell him directly as to what you think. Sending e-mails is good and all but there isn't a seriousness behind them and people take them ligthly (I've had some experiance in this). But telling them directly shows that you're serious about this and that you really want him to stop.
Yell at him, scream at him. Do whatever you think is nessesary to get him to understand. If he's that immature, then he needs to understand that he's ruining a realtionship which seems to be going pretty well.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Send him another email or tell it to his face:
Just tell him that while he thinks it is fun, you guys dont. And that it really makes you mad that he does that to you. Just tell him how you feel..And that he can continue to be weirded out by you but the bit is getting old.
-hayley
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