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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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Ok. I know 2 ppl who when they are around me act like they like me but they really hate me. They don't want to be mean to me and tell me to my face they just like to talk to me behind my back. Should i try and talk about them or just tell them off or ignore them?? Plz help me!!

u can ignore them and mayb they will get the point. or u can just tell it to them straight. either one is ok. if u tell it to them straight they might get the point. i hope i helped...please rate me

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Okay im like 12 and i have this boyfriend that we'll call danny, i wanna kiss him so bad but i don't wanna make the move. I want him to. What should i do? I really love him!
-wanna kiss
p.s.
i rate real good!

ok so wait until he makes the move. cuz if u make the move and he doesnt wanna go that far than u might feel weird. but its totally up to u...so good luck w/ ur decision....please rate me....:)

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okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!!

i would give it a shot. b.c through her u can figure out wut ur dad is like. and just b/c shes with your dad doesnt mean that she agreed with wut happend. but do wut u want. i mean its not like u would lose anything?

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hey well i think you should all read this..just think before you act.

....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily ...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting ..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs of Self Injury... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it ..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.

wow thanx for sharing that. it explains alot. and im sure that now ppl know now why ppl cut. thanx for sharing it once again.

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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!

nope, cuz its just curling them

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hey im the one who wrote the poem about the girl who ran away, heres another one:

Your eyes are the color of the sky,after days of rain, hollow and empty, just to cover up the pain.

I want to scream and I want to know, what terrible thing has made you so.....

You hide inside as you let your body take the blame, youre to weak to handle all the shame.

Maybe all could be better , all of this could be through, if youd take the time to listen when I say that I love you.

how was it?

wow thats a really good poem.

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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...

Bush?
or
Kerry?

moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!

kerry. and its a good question.

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Sharpie marker- her favorite color black
Placing it on her wrist
She drew a dotted line
And a heart for good measure

The empty heart that stained her skin
Looked vacant next to the scattered stripe
She didn’t have a knife..
So the razor blade would suffice
And on the dotted line she sliced

it was really sad but really good at the same time. u really do have a tru talen.

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does anybody have any idea what 'You can't fight fire with ruby lipstick' means?

sry ive never heard that saying before.

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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring..

i had the same problem. i saw my doctor about it and he prescribed me a formula or something. and it worked. i still use it to. i hope i helped. please rate me

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ok...me and my friends have been doin pot since we were like 11 and now im 14 and i cant stop. i was sick for three months, then i went to rehad for 7months and it sucked. now its been about 5 months since i was in rehab and i think im addicted to it again. i dont wanna go back to rehab bcuz that place sucks. ive tried everything i can and i just cant stop. i know that this seems like a serious problem to be puttin on a random site but my girlfriend said that i gotta do sumthin. my names gordon and my s/n for aim is a2020zipdrive. so if u got ne suggestions, let em loose baby. thanx!!

i would say go to rehab only if it helped. but if it didnt mayb u should give it another try but idk. try not hanging out with ppl who do pot. and mayb not taking as much. like keep lowering the amount.i hoped i helped.

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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight?

wow it depends on how old u are. cuz im 14 something like 5 foot 4 and im a 100. it also depends on how ur built and im built small. hope i helped. please rate me

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okay so my friend alex(we'll say) she knew this guy we'll say his name is tyler. okay so alex met tyler at her old school and when i asked her if she knew ne hotties she gave me his sn. so i i.med him one day and we've been talkin online for the past 9 months or so. and i really have grown to love him! i think that i might even be falling for him. and i really wanna meet him face to face one day. but i have no clue how i would explain him to my parents! bcuz when i first got aim i wasn't suppsoed to talk to n e one i didn't knoe! and now i might even go meet him?? idk so please help me asap!

just say that ur friend introduced u to. but u cant say that u dont know hhim ne more.

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is there any way to delete your answered questions from the "your questions" page?

sry but there isnt. i wish there was to.

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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself

yea i think that would be good. wait until he makes the first move and then u go along with it. and then he'll know exactly how u feel. i hope i helped. rate me please..:)

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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything

ok well look well look at the holes to make the numbers and then look at wut is going for the hole? i hoped i helped if u need more info on that inbox me lol....rate me if u have time thanx

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My guy's away this summer and is supposed to call me every other day or something and it's been like ten days. Today's our 8-month mark. Just opinionwise - should I call him? I called him last time we spoke on the phone.
My mom suggested I make him wait - "let him miss you and call you." She put it this way: "If you don't call him and he doesn't call you, you'll be upset that he didn't call. If you DO call him, you'll still be upset that he didn't call."
Lol
So what do you guys think I should do? Thanks!

i personally think u shoudl go with wut ur mom sed. if he doesnt call then id think he doesnt care. but its all up to u....i hope i helped....rate me please

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There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...

I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.

I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks

lol i know wut ur going through and its tough to be so close to somebody and then fall for them. i told him once like a couple of months ago and he understood cuz he always tries to get who i like out of me so i told him. he sed ok. so since u guys r such good friends i bet he'll understand. but if u tell him afterwards tell him that u dont want things to change. it worked with me. idk exactly wut signals for u to look for but i already know that the my guy(lol) already thinks im hott but we r still friends. ask him questions if u want. i mean u sed u already know everything about him. but dont do anything stupid cuz a friendship like that isnt easy to find....belive me......i hope i helped...please rate me.....:)

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today is one of those days where i feel like crying
Baby i know ur not trying
but the sadness really hurts
when i guess ur somewhere else
*Baby come back home*


i will rate

its really good. it has alot of feelings in it which is awesome. this one also one that i can relate to.

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i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ??

all ppl are all different sizes. but dont wry about it. god gave u them for i reason i gess...i hope i helped...rate me please

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