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To call or not to call...
My guy's away this summer and is supposed to call me every other day or something and it's been like ten days. Today's our 8-month mark. Just opinionwise - should I call him? I called him last time we spoke on the phone.
My mom suggested I make him wait - "let him miss you and call you." She put it this way: "If you don't call him and he doesn't call you, you'll be upset that he didn't call. If you DO call him, you'll still be upset that he didn't call."
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So what do you guys think I should do? Thanks!
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A person is most attractive to others when they are busy and active and living out their dreams. It sounds to me as if you miss him and would like him to be missing you as much. But you must carry on and do your thing anyway. When you do, and if he cares, he will call you. Don't sit by the phone. Get out and enjoy the summertime!
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Hey! :) if you guys have gone out for 8 months yall must know each other really well! so i would just call him! guys really like it when someone they like calls them:)!!
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i personally think u shoudl go with wut ur mom sed. if he doesnt call then id think he doesnt care. but its all up to u....i hope i helped....rate me please
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hmm..i think you should call cuz maybe hes just waiting for you to call him? just call and ask what hes doing and if he seems like he isnt interested dont call again, wait for him to call you..hope everything works out for the best!
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well just recently my sisters friend broke up with his girlfriend, or she broke up with him.. he called his girlfriend a few times a week and he couldn`t get through or she wasn`t home and then he had his friend talk to her and she said he was too clingy.. i think if you stay too attatched to your guy he won`t like that you aren`t giving him space but it might be nice to call him since you haven`t talked in a while and it is your 8th month anniversary
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What would you rather do? You're mom has a very good point. But if you do end up callin him, tell him about the situation.
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He is away on vacation, so he might be busy doing other things and getting distracted. But, today would be the day to call him since it is the 8 month. And just be like "Hey, I just wanted to see what was up. You haven't called me in like 10 days." And then be like "I just wanted to say its our 8 month anniversary and I didn't know if I would be able to talk to you or not, so thats why I was calling" Just say something like that and find out why he hasn't called you, but be positive about things, it may have been because he's been so busy! But good luck hun!!! And happy 8 month!! =P
xoxo Kourtney
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I think your mom is wrong. He;s away, maybe he's a little busy sometimes. Or maybe he gets distracted easily and forgets to call. Either way it no big deal. I think that you shoudl call him. Aniversary or not, why does he have to be the one ot call you?
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Lol you're mom's right just wait and see if he calls you
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I think you should call him, it's your anniversary. Wouldn't you feel bad if your aniversary passed without talking to him? Don't play mind games with guys-oh I think I'll wait for him to call me-it won't work, and he might not call. If you call, what's the worst that can happen? Then next time, let him call first.
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