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Hey, I am 16f and I have an advicenators account on here (obviously ;) ...) Anyhow, my question is 'when I am reading the comments/answers that people have left me on advicenators theres this pop-up thingy that comes up, it just started happening lately and it looks like this: http://www.google.com/hws/gateway/afe?hl=en&s=http://mystabcounter.info/cgi-bin/in.cgi?p&rdr=afe
I have no idea why it does and I have never used Google for this thingy that it says cannot be found. If you read the web page you'll see what I mean. Does anyone know how to get rid of it? As soon as I go to read a comment someone wrote me its like it automatically loads and then after a few seconds it just pops up
Please Help :) (link)
probably adware.

http://www.safer-networking.org/en/mirrors/index.html

is the best program for getting rid of it


I'm just one of those crazy anime girls. I've watched a lot of Japanese anime in my time. I have a few favorites (like Midori no Hibi, Naruto, Bleach, and even Dragon Ball Z) but am still looking for new anime to check out. I know I can buy anime on ebay (and watch some animes on YouTube) and other various sites but I need some good anime suggestions.

What is your favorite Japanese Anime? Could you tell me a little about the anime to see if it catches my interest?

Even if it's a very popular anime it's alright to suggest it. Like I said, I'm one of those crazy anime girls so I even like to hear other people just say which animes they prefer and why. I could talk about anime all day long! (link)
azumanga daioh is really good and funny, though it doesnt have any of the fantastical elements of the ones you mentioned, its more an anime just about high school life.


I have no clue, but it's possible. Here's a list of things people think I have.
-type 1 diabetes
-A.D.D
-sleep apnea

And now here are some symptoms others and myself have noticed I have.
-stress
-bad mood
-urinating frequently
-increased thirst (drinking lots of water lately)
-I'm always tired now
-I have bad memory during the day
-I sometimes wake up with sore throats
-every once in a while I get this like sour/sweet breath
-Some days I get really hungry, some days I barely eat anything
-I've been getting a lot of headaches lately ( I rarely got them before and no it's not because theres been more noise)
-I have pretty bad anxiety
-I can rarely focus for a long time
-I always give up on things if I don't them right the first time even though I know I should give up
-I get really frustrated when I try to do home work/school work or a lot of things
-I'm almost always worrying or nervous about something

Shall I go on?
I don't know I think i'm just being a hypochondriac. What do you think?
In case this helps I just turned 15.

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a good chunk of those seem like they could be symptoms of the things you have, but you should still go to a doctor just in case.


i have had sex i am 18 female and i would like to know how can you take a std/hiv test. i want it to be confidental and id like it if it was free actually. so if you can give me any ideas thatd be wonderful thank you! (link)
only search advicenators.com
it might not be free, but they usually try to accomadate your financial situation.


theres this guy i hung out with alot during the summer. we had ssex a couple times but not every time we hugn out. he told me he like me, but he also liked someone els, and that was at the begininng of the summer. Now he alwasy IM's me, and we talk on the phone and he asks me to hangout without other people. i cant tell if he actually likes me or is just trying to keep me around for sex. I knwo hes a nice guy but its hard to tell sometimes if he only wanst sex. (link)
theres really a very simple way to see if a guy is just using you for sex. stop having sex. if he leaves, he was using you. if he stays, its something deeper.


Well, I'm starting a new diet on monday, here's a link to it:

http://www.everydiet.org/diet/3-day-diet

And it seems like a pretty well-planned out diet, you know. And very balanced out, too.

And I was reading about it (from other sources) that I should do the diet for three days, and then eat normal for 4 days. BUT, I'm scared that if i start to eat normal, I will go on a binge. And you can easily screw up a week's worth of diet with one binge, because 3500 calories = one pound. Scary, huh?


ANYWAYS, i was thinking, can i just follow this diet? Day after day? Whenever the three days are over, I start over again from the top. Would it be healthy? (link)
its not even healthy to do for three days, but it says right there on the page

This diet is not recommended and should never be used for more than 3 days. This kind of diet is often used by those who experience “yo-yo” weight - it is not a good habit to get into.

so obviously you shouldnt do it. its not healthy to lose so much weight so quickly. in order to be safe, you should try to lose a pound or two a week.

look here: http://www.thedietchannel.com/weightloss.htm and pay especial attention to #8


Hi, okay so like 19 days ago I started my birth control.. Its called ortho tri-cyclen lo if that helps any.
Anyways so my last period was on July 19th so as you can see im late.
But I havent had unprotected sex or anything and the thingie says I will be protected the first day I take it if its a day one and 7 days if its a sunday start.
So theres like no possible way im pregnant. I know im not. [hopefully] but why am I so late? Is it because of my birth control?
&& I feel like im getting my period soon but ive also felt like this for a few days..
Any answers?
Please and thank you. (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=977&userboard_id=4026


This coming fall I am applying to numerous universities. My overall gpa is a 3.5-3.7 but my SAT and SAT 2 scores are not good. Apparently I am part native american. (very little but about a sixteenth i think) what I am asking is how do I get this proven for college. I heard of genetic testing to find the gene and I have a paper from my great grandmother writing down her family history. I asked my mom (a year back) to get this proven, but she has only found papers since then (I am apparently part cherokee by the way). What more do I need to do to get it proven.
ps I have heard of ancestry.com, but it costs 30 bucks
and if anyone knows more about this gene testing let me know
thank you so much (link)
you dont really need to prove it for any college ive heard of... most colleges will take a handful of applications and look into them, but thats a hundred or so out of tens of thousands for a large school. and if you do get chosen, then shell out the 30 bucks for ancestry.com or show them the letter from your great grandmother and see if thats enough.


I am a 18 y.o female and I just wanted to know if every women or lady when they lose their virginity do there hymens always break or does some people never get their hymens broken.....I am wondering a lot about this cuz mine never has broken and I just wanted to know if more people like me have that too... (link)
its rare but not unheard of.


guys please answer
do you like tan lines? like when you are in bed with someone do you mind them? i mean they look kinda funny. this is such a random question haha

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im pretty into tanlines, i dont know about other guys, the few times ive mentioned it, ive gotten weird looks though.


I have time warner cable, and i'm trying to program my remote to turn my tv on and off. I've had my tv for about 6 years now, and all it says on the front is KLH Digital so i'm assuming that's the brand. this is the remote i got from the cable company with my cable box: http://www.timewarnercable.com/MediaLibrary/4/50/Content%20Management/Products%20And%20Services/largeimages/DTVremote_list.jpg

i went to the channel for programming the remote control, and selected tv and it gave me a list of tv brands to choose the brand of my tv from.
the thing is, my tv brand wasn't listed. how am i supposed to program my remote to turn my tv on and off? it can control the volume and turn the cable box on and off but i don't remember how i programmed that or if i even had to.

any suggestions besides calling my cable company?
thanks.
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almost all universal remotes have a code scan function. cehck the remote instructions, and it should have something where you keep pushing channel up until your tv turns off.


is there a way to block people from sending you messages on facebook??

and

is there a way of blocking people from sending you text messages/calling you if you have t-mobile?

thanks (link)
settings > privacy settings


im not sure about tmobile blocking, but you can probably do it by calling in and asking.


I like this guy and i'm not sure if he likes me, we have "talked" before but i was wondering if i should start flirting with him first or wait till he does it. I mean today he hugged me but he does that to a lot of girls and not just me so i don't think it would be considered flirting. What should i do? Thanks! (link)
make the first move, so he knows you like him.


hey ok im sure yall get this alot but i had this girl take the morning after pill cuz i might have pre cummed but not for sure anyways she didnt take it right after cuz we didnt know about it she took it two days later does taking it that much later effect the strenght of the pill? and what are the percentages of her actually getting prego after the pill? (link)
its most efficient with 3 days, works up to 5. i dont know the exact chances, but they are really low.


We're getting at&t high speed internet on one of our computers, how would we get it on another computer? Do you have to get it hooked up to the other computer separatly and pay extra or do you use a router or something?? And if you do use a router, can you be on the internet on both computers at once?? Thanks (link)
you just use a router, and you can be on the internet with both computers at once, however theyll be using the same bandwidth so it will be a little slower. if one of the computers has wifi, just get the wifi modem from att, its like $20 more, and youll be able to use it wirelesly, or you can buy one seperately. most modems will have at least two out ports on them, but it would probably be a hassle to run the second wire if the computer is in another room.


OK went to this girls house we had unprotected sex like 6 days ago i think i precummed ok i was really drunk and had ejaculated earlier that day but peed alot after this ejaculation because i was drunk..sorry:( but anyways do u think she is pregnant? do you think the peeing got all of the leftover sperm out and it was just for like 1 minute anyways. (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=961&userboard_id=4026


I really want a purity ring (I've always had the beliefs to abstain from all sexual activity until marriage, I just think that a ring would be a cool reminder) but I don't want to ask my parents to get me one because they'd make a big deal about it ("You're 15 and thinking about having sex?!?" Yeah, they're pretty retarded).

I have plain rings at home, if I attach a significance to it and wear it constantly, can I consider it a purity ring? And/or where can I get purity rings for a good price (not online)?

Thanks so much (link)
yeah you can just use any ring you want. im guessing your local church would probably sell them... but actual branded purity rings tend to be overpriced.


hey ok im really scared Becvause i think i might have gotten this girl pregnant i went to her house at night and i was really drunk we had unprotected sex for seriously like 1 minute and i pulled out because i wanted a condom i wasnt even close to cumming cuz i t wasnt that great..i dont know if i pre cummed and thats what im scared about but i was drunk and u ejaculated earlier that day but like i said i was drunk and was peeing ALOT did this clean out the leftover sperm? and could she pregnant? and she DID take the morning after poill (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=961&userboard_id=4026


Ok. I Had a pregnacy scare a few weeks ago. and a week after i had a penis unprtected in me for like 2 sec. he didnt cum or anything in me. But i had a light period after that. and a could days before my light period i had bad Cramps and my breasts were hurting ** but spotting when ur pregnant may be mistaken for a light period. my breasts dont hurt and i havent felt weired. But im still scared. idk why but i am.. any advice

HELP (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=961&userboard_id=4026


15/f
I like this guy in my class and he liked me over the summer but i'm not sure if he likes me now or not. He has a lot of girls that are his friends and he hugs them and massages their shoulders and stuff but he dosen't do it to me or ny friends. My friends think he likes me but i'm not sure. Also, my friend texts him a lot and talks to him in class all the time and play fully hits him and i thought she liked him but when i confronted her about it she was like "oh i'm not flirting with him, he's all your, do you want me to tell him that you like him?" Even though she says that she still talks to him a lot and he talks to her a lot but he also has a lot of other girls that are friends so i don't know. Also, i want to flirt with him because he sometimes flirts with me and i think i come off as not flirting back so how do i flirt back without being all over him? Also, how can i play hard to get but also let him know that i like him at the same time? I'm very sorry this is so long but i am very confused so please help me with my whole problem. Thanks! (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=962&userboard_id=4026




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