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flirting
15/f
I like this guy in my class and he liked me over the summer but i'm not sure if he likes me now or not. He has a lot of girls that are his friends and he hugs them and massages their shoulders and stuff but he dosen't do it to me or ny friends. My friends think he likes me but i'm not sure. Also, my friend texts him a lot and talks to him in class all the time and play fully hits him and i thought she liked him but when i confronted her about it she was like "oh i'm not flirting with him, he's all your, do you want me to tell him that you like him?" Even though she says that she still talks to him a lot and he talks to her a lot but he also has a lot of other girls that are friends so i don't know. Also, i want to flirt with him because he sometimes flirts with me and i think i come off as not flirting back so how do i flirt back without being all over him? Also, how can i play hard to get but also let him know that i like him at the same time? I'm very sorry this is so long but i am very confused so please help me with my whole problem. Thanks!
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If he did like you, the reason for not massaging your shoulders would be he's nervous you wont like it. your friend who talks to him alot, i would say she likes him, she just doesnt want you to know and covers it by saying he likes you (its happened to me time and time again) maybe he doesnt make a move because you seem hostile. many girls when they like a guy try to avoid him or try so hard not to make a mistake around him(for fear he will dissaprove and they will shrivel up and die) i can tell you, that that is not the case. flirting is almost an art, and you have to practice it to be good. one thing i would do, is talk to him more, try to get to know him. or you be the one to hug him in the hall! because sooner or later he will return that favor. personally i would say dont play hard to get, just dont be free every living second. a casual flirt is pretty fun, and if it seems you're coming on too strong, then flirt with guys around him. that way he sees that you aren't zeroing in on him, and that you're a comfortable person to be around.
Also, if you really and truly want to be in the 'know how' then become friends with one of his best friends (usually its the person standing next to them ALOT) and ask them to ask. or you do secret agent work, and ask several people to ask and report back. if the answers are the same, most likely its true.
hope this helps!
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