If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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How do you tell your parents that you are bisexual? Please help me!!! (link)
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Mom, Dad I think I'm a switch hitter. It's not a one way on my street,two heads are better than one, etc etc etc.
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simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys? (link)
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What kind of question is that? FUCK IF I KNOW
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Well Okay... first of all let me say thanks in advance for answering this.. i would really like opinions on this and sorry if this is long.. but i will rate fives for anyone who gives serious advice... (15/f)
Okay.. so first of all theres this kid who im really good friends with.. and ive known him since second grade. He is my best guy friend actually. And i like him too. I see him every day in school like he will come over to me in the morning and talk to me and once i had put my books in his locker. and he brought them to me knowing that i needed them. and he always pokes me and stuff. once he linked arms with me and just stood there for a while. and then he put his arm around my waist once too and just stood there. And well my school sells carnations for thanksgiving.. and well i sent him one.. and he sent me one.. and like im the only person he sent one too. and sometimes when im standing with him in the morning he looks at me when he thinks im not looking and this is not just like once.. so ya.. im wondering if he likes me or just likes me as a friend and what i should do about it if he does.. THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME
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Well you could always do the really unconventional thing and ask him.
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I am a 27 year female and I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me. Well for one thing I"ve only been with one guy my whole life. I dated him for a year when I was 21 and it was a horrible experience. He just used me and treated me like a sex object. I never dated all through highschool, guys just were not interested in me. SO when I met my ex even though he was a loser, I went for him because he showed me attention. Well that was 6 years ago since I've been with him. I havent been with any other guys since. I've had lots of guys ask me out but I turn them all down. I get really lonely sometimes, and it seems like all my friends are getting married and I feel left out. I'm not a lesbian, and I do like guys, so what the hell is wrong with me? (link)
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What's wrong with the guys you turn down? Accept a date with a guy, even if you think it wouldn't work out. You never know. But it's not like you're just gunna see THE guy standing on a corner. If you do, he's either between movies or long since married.
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Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do? (link)
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Tell your boss, who is undoubtedly male,that you have female problems and need to use the restroom. If he doesn't let you, then say "But I'm having my period." really loudly. Like so that everybody else, including the customers can hear.
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15/f & 16/m (both are 16)
***THIS IS LONG!!***
I was dating this one guy named *Dustin* for about 1 year and a half. We both had sex and we were each other's first.
Well that was about 2 years ago. After we broke up, we decided to stay really good friends. But now i've been dating this one guy named *Brandon* for about 8 months. Everything is perfect, but it seems like *Dustin* is jealous. But he hasn't exactly told me. You can just tell though. And he still is ever since I started dating.
*Brandon* invited me to a family trip hes taking. And we were planning on having sex there. Somehow the word got out & *Dustin* found out and was crushed. He got soo mad at me and soo jealous! He was practically calling me a slut and a whore. I was soo sad that he said that. And of course Brandon knew what Dustin said that so he came over the same day and he was just there for me saying how it was okay and how he loved me and stuff. Brandon of course knew about me and Dustin's relationship. And I can just tell that he thought we should belong together(me and Dustin). But i made sure that Brandon knew i loved being with him.
The next day Dustin CAME OVER my house IN THE RAIN riding his retarded little bike and knocked on my door. He was saying how he was soo sorry for saying that and it just made me cry seeing him so hurt! Then *Dustin* grabbed me and started kissing me. Now remember, i was still with *Brandon*. I NEVER TOLD ANYONE WHAT HAPPENED! I didn't want anyone to find out and having it eventually getting to Brandon. So we are still going on the family trip. =\. And still planning on having sex. Dustin thought it was going to change something(the kiss), but it really hasn't. I mean, i just couldn't tell Brandon what happened because i knew it would crush him! They both are really great guys. But when i was dating Dustin, he cheated on me & that really hurted me since i put soo much trust in him. Brandon NEVER did anything to question our relationship. But Dustin just made me feel really better about myself & stuff. He always did cute little things for me.
*Problem*- The family trip is tomorrow & i just need to decide. Should i stay here with Dustin & break it off with Brandon? Or should i go with Brandon to the family trip and end up having sex?...Ah its totally freaking me out! I have the choice if we want to have sex at the trip.Brandon will totally understand since hes caring/nice like that.
I have no idea what to do! Brandon's family really likes me too and it would crush them if i broke up with Brandon. Nobody really accepted Dustin, but he's just so perfect for me. But so is Brandon. What do you guys think? Please help me. I feel soo stuck and confused! =( Thank you so much. (link)
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Flip a coin, but I think that if it's heads Brandon wins, tails Dustin loses.
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ok im with this guy and weve been together for 1 month and i am so ready to have sex with him and i really do trust him and weve spoken about sex so many times but after how many months do u think i should actually have sex i dont want to have it too early..
please answer thanx
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A month? Shit. You gotta give it at least 6 weeks before you're officially ready.
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what do you think it the hottest thing a girl can do while she's kissing you? (link)
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Whisper in my ear that she wants to wrap her lips around my cock. I think that one works for most guys.
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Okay.. I have kissed guys before, but not made out before. How do you make out with someone? I know a lot of people will say "it comes naturally", but that doesn't really help me out.. lol.. like what do you do with your tounge?? It confuses me..
Any help is appreciated. Thanks!! (link)
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You kiss, he feels up on your tits, slides his hands up your shirt, under your bra, etc etc etc.
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is it a sin to kiss before marriage if your a christian? (link)
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Wow I hope not.
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The first time you make out, is it 'scary'? I know that sounds weird, but I would imagine it would be that way. How do you know when someone's about to kiss you? Can they usually tell if you've never made out before? Help! :) (link)
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I was a lot of things. I wasn't scared.
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18/f. I have a very close guy-friend. Occasionally when he comes over to mine (or I go to his), and he (or I) can't get home (e.g. he comes to my place on his bike, I don't like him to ride home at 3am, it's not too safe around here) then he stays over. He'll sleep in my (single) bed, and we usually end up snuggled up to close each other (e.g. both lying on our sides facing the same way with his arm around me).
My question is - is this ok for our relationship? - I don't want to date him, I don't want our friendship to turn into something further. We are both single. Is it ok to sleep together like this, or will it damage our friendship in the long run? (link)
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If you both are on the same page, then no it's fine. Where it gets fucked up is if one of you starts thinking something is there when it's not.
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13/f
is making out for your first kiss wrong? i got my first kiss from my ex when i was 12 yrs. old, but i still know how perfect it felt. i was just wondering if it's wrong to make out as your first kiss. is it? (link)
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No.
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What does a girl need to do to get a guys attention to like her and stuff? are there anythings special? just a few pointers would be great. im a freshman in highschool and i like this guy but i cant seem to get his attention or at least he doesnt look very interested... (link)
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Talk to him, act interested, wear less clothes,compliment him, etc.
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ok i'm 13 yrs old and a little bit emberessed to sayt this but here i go...my boy feind wants to finger me and i'm kinda scared and i just don't kno what to do..i mena i want to but i'm just askin muh self questions leik will it hurt wll i cry ..what should i do please help ..thnxx (link)
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Well, I've never been fingered, I really don't know if it hurts or not, but if your cherry(hymen) hasn't been busted, you're gunna bleed. It's gunna be like when you lose your virginity, it hurts at first, but you feel better the more you do it. As for what to do, just let him do all the work. Kinda make sure he clips his fingernails too. You're gunna bleed, but you dont want Freddy Krueger fingering you.
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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.
Question is: how should I go about handling this?
Should I bring it up to HIM first?
Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?
Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?
I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
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Leave. Leave now. He is a low life. His wife can fend for herself,you get the fuck out of there. Don't see this guy anymore, don't talk to him, nothing. Tell him what you're doing and don't see him again. Try and forget this happened to you. And next time be careful talking to a much older guy.
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Is it true that lifting weights stunts your growth? (link)
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No, it's not true.
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Hey guys..i am 15 and i am about to get my permit..so my first car is going to be a 2005 Chevrolet Colorado Z71 with leather, big tires, and a system..is that bad like for a first car? (link)
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No I got an 87 brown cutlass sierra oldsmobile. Count your blessings.
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Lol hey whats up, i guess this is mainly for the girls to answer. Whats the chances of a girl getting pregnant, while having unprotected sex.. but pulling out? not on the pill. (link)
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Depends when you pull man. You leave it in there for two seconds, practically zero. Unless you got some precum on there, then yeah theres more of a chance. Also how many bullets you got. If you unloaded half an hour ago, yeah you can leave it in there awhile. But I wouldn't advise this method, unless you wanna be called daddy.
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Hi Guys my girlfriend is a couple of years younger than me (23) but she acts like a little kid! When we're out with her friends that are her same age group she's acts completely normal and I am so attracted to her as a person when she's like this. BUT whenever she's out with my friends (their my age) she acts like a little brat, i'm a pretty patient person so have put up with it for a while now, but its starting to be a problem as i feel a little nervous whenever I take her out.
she's acts like this constantly when we're with her family too (she's the youngest child), and i guess her family has treated her like she's the youngest child like forever...
What should I do? I really love this girl, but its just in circumstances where its starting to stress me out. If its a psychological thing i wanna help her through this, just wondering what you guys thought. (link)
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Wow I really don't know. Girls are usually more mature than us anyway, right? She may think you enjoy it when she acts like that and not the other way, but in reality its vice versa. Let her know you think the way she acts kinda turns you off. Give examples. Tell her you still care about her...etc, but you just dunno why she acts like a 12 year old when you're hanging out with your friends.
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