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ok. i dont get anymore. im in love with this guy, and he said he was in love with me. so i thought everything was going to turn out happily ever after. but i was wrong. we havent been getting along lately. and yet i dont know i keep remembering how we use to be soo in love. soo everytime i think of the old times, no matter how mad i am at him, i think of it and i begin to get over it and think he is still in love with me. so its ok..for like..10 minutes then we just get in a argument and everythign turns horrible. no matter how many times he says he loves me, i cant believe it anymore, but yet i tell him i love him back cause i really do. i just dont know what to do about the arguements without having to like..break up anything between us. i still want us to work out. i just need some advice to keep it working out. help please =(

You'll need to talk. Tell each other how you'll feel.

Me and my girlfriend have had so many times like that, but we stuck through them all and we have been together for a little over a year now.

Its only normal to have hard times in a relationship. But if you'll truely love each other you'll can get through them.

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I have this talking problem
I talk way too fast and my words stumble over each other
It is just a habit
How can I stop this?

Stop talking fast...

Take your time when you talk.

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alright so i have liked this boy for a while and he knows and he has been giving me mixed signals lately. and i dont know if he likes me or not..so maybe you can help. so a couple of days ago we were all hanging out and me and my friend sam were sitting across from eachother and he comes over and is like move over to me. and everytime i sat down he would sit next to me.Like once we were sitting on a bench and i was between my friend sam and mark . And he was like mark move over when he could have sat next to mark. Than he told his friend that we were going out . But we werent? it was wierd. So yeah we were hanging out but towards the end of the night he kinda ditched me almost and hung out with 2 other girls . and thats when i got confused. So does he like me, is he leading me on, or what?! and what do i do? ILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS! thanks for reading this

He probably does like you. But don't get to worked up on the fact that he ditched you for some other girls(long as it doesn't happen to many times). He's just flirting with them.

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So lately I've been hanging out with my boyfriend alot. We've been going out for about a year now and he's starting to get pretty confortible with me. I mean I love him to death. We're both 14 by the way. But-- sometimes he tells me things I don't need to know and I mean, it's nice that he can be himself around me, but he goes too far. And sometimes its just downright embarassing being with him, but I stick with him because I love him. All the guys think it's cool the things he does but most girls think it's just odd. I don't know what to do ... help!

Most guys want a girlfriend who they can be themselves around. Most guys want a girlfriend they can do and say things to that only most guys do and say.

It sounds like he thinks that you are that type of girlfriend. When you obviously aren't. But if you can't deal with it then just tell him that you don't want to hear some of the stuff that he tells you. Try to be specific when telling him this.

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okay. this is complicated. so i liked this kid. lets say his name is brian. so i liked brian and he had a girlfriend and then he dumped her and he was like immediately flirting with me. like we were at the school basketball game and he was like so can i use your phone and i passed it to him and it had all service bars and then he said oh i think i need to use it outside will you come with me and so i did and we madeout before his mom came and i felt bad for his ex since it as like a day after and im kinda friends with her. but now i reallly like him and its now like a week since the basketball game happened and we wanted to hang out but he always has like lacrosse and hockey so its almost like we can never hang out and we were supposed to hang out friday but he was talking to my friend because we were going to hang out with her and her boyfriend too and he said he didn't wanna hang out anymore. and now he like doesnt even talk to me and i know he doesnt really even like me anymore. basically what im asking is like what can i say to him to make him see that i like him a lot and just want a chance but not make myself seem so desperate. i really like him!

He doesn't like you, he just wanted the benefits.

Sorry but its the truth, trust me i'm a guy.

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is it wrong to date your ex's friend?

YEAH that would really put their friendship to a test that shouldn't have to be tested.

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How can you tell if your boyfriend has lost interest in your relationship or is falling out of love with you?
We've been together 9 months & I know that's a long time.. but it seems like we're falling apart. Thanks!

When you start asking question like this one.

-he doesn't call you like he use to
-he doesn't want to hang out with you like he use to, etc.
-acts different around you


When things aren't as good as they use to be.

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Ok I've liked this kid for a while..and he used to hit on me all the time..but i didnt liek him at the time..now that i liek him he stopped hitting on me...atleast not as often. Well the problem is..today I wasn't at school and in the morning he stood next to my "group"..but just my luck I wasnt there..we also had an assembly..nd if I had been at school I would have been sitting right next to him!! There's been other times where I have somehting to do before school..and he stands next to my group and I'm not there...it seems like I'm always in the wrongn place when he tries to get near me...i dont understand..is it a sign that I should just give up on him or what??? I'll rate 5's...im just so confused!!

Those situations are just coincidences.

If he liked you when you didn't like him and you like him when he doesn't like you, then those are signs that shows its not meant to be or the timing just isn't right.

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okay, im 13. my boyfriends 13 almost 14. any ideas for a good valentines day gift? i dont want to seem corny with gifts. and i swear, im the worst gift picker in the world.. help, please.

Give him something simple like
-t shirt
-cd
-dvd
-candy
-card
Whatever you do don't get him a stuff animal or a poem like "100 reasons why I love you."even a mixtape with love songs on it.
If you want to know why none of these ideas (which most girl thinks are so cute) then just write me back.

edit: Most guys don't like stuff like that.
I know if my girlfriend gave me one of those things I would be grateful but I wouldn't like it.

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Hey, i really need some advice. me and my boyfriend and really serious and have been for a long time. we love eachother so much and plan on getting married someday. the only problem is we fight alot, and its becoming a problem. whenever i try to talk to him about it we just end up fighting more. we know he has depression but he wont talk to anyone about it which is also a problem. any advice on what to do? thank you

Whether he wants it or not, he needs counseling.

If he doesn't open up to anyone then your relationship is going to have a lot of hardhips.

Communication is a very important element in a relationship, which is something you'll are lacking.

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ok well theres this guy that goes to my school and i talk to him online sometimes but at school we never talk, only wen we say "hi" and thats it (im in 8th grade b.t.w) and yesterday i was flirtin with him and everything and everytime we talk we say were actually gonna talk at school but we never do, but the thing is, that i like him and i want to know if he likes me too. i have the same lunch as he does every day, if that helps, but i dont know if i should tell him that i like him. my friend says that he probably lyks me, but just because he flirts dont mean its true...so PLEASE help me with this.

Get to know him more IN PERSON. Then see if you still like him. If you do, then tell him.

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My boyfriend is I think kinda annoyed with me.. I mean I talked to his best friend and he said that every time I call my b.f says "Here we go again" and well I am not sure if I want to be with someone who does want to talk to me or even wants to be with me unless we are alone.. and well I truly like him and i don't want to end it but I sometimes think that is the only way... the past few days he's told me he didn't want to come over.. it kinda ticked me off at first and now I am more like miserable. I don't want nothing to happen but I mean htings have just changed... and he lied to me.. which kinda ticked me off but I cannot tell him I know he lied to me because it would make him mad at his best friend.. soo IdK HELP ME!

It sounds like he is losing interest in you. Give it some time. If he still acts the same way towards you then end the relationship.

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hey y'all i'm having a party next weekend and i need some good slow songs. i need some good makeout songs too.

thanks. 5s for all

Danse songs

Loose Control-Missy Elliot feat. Ciara
Danse, Danse-Fall Out Boy
Check On It- Beyonce feat Slim Thug Bun B
Run It- Chris Brown
Love-Ashlee Simpson

Make Out/Slow songs

We Belong Together-Mariah Carey
One Wish-Ray J
Yo- Chris Brown
Be Without You- Mary J Blige
Don't Forget About- Mariah Carey

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ok im 13/f 8th grade. im one of the only girls who dosen't/has never had a boyfriend. in 7th grade and down i used to be sortof a tomboy. i still am kindof, but i dont dress like i used to. im starting to dress...like regular girls. i was just wondering what it is about me that guys dont like? i like video games and fighting stuff, and stuff that guys like. a few girls think if i dressed a little different i would be really pretty and stuff. is there anything i should change/traits i should have? i wont completly change my personality, but any tips? and guys, what do yo ulike in a girl?
thanks

I like girls who are themselves. Girls who could care less what others think of them. Girls who aren't vain or stuck up. I think its good that you play video games and stuff. That shows you are cool to hang out with. Sometimes my girlfriend gets mad because I spend more time playing video games then hanging with her. But with you on the other hand you could play video games with your guy. Continue to be yourself.

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Well u answered a question of mine. I've known this guys for about 5 years now. We went out for 2 years. Yeah i think i know him by now.

Well I think you've known him long enough to say whether you are in love or not. I apologize, but to avoid this next time I think you should provide this information in your question.

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I think Well I know I love this one guy from school. I don't know what to do. I've been writing him notes(but i don't tell him it's me)and like he's only writen back once and he thought it was my friend. I want him to know that I like him. I've liked him since like EVER! I mean the day I saw him in 4th grade I like fell inlove!
Help me Please!
Signed,
Luv Struck.

What a cliche once you saw him you were in love...

First get to know him better then see if you still love him.

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what is a pegan or wiggan?

PIEGAN
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=Piegan

WIGAN
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=Wigan

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Is there a proper name for fake nails?

Do you know that this question was asked FIVE TIMES? Why ask the same question so many times?

My sister said artificail nails.
My gf said acrylic nails.
But i'm not sure which is right... probably both

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ok i have a friend thats been through a lot & i dont wanna be friends with him anymore. hes always threatening to kill himself & pushes things on me & if i juss ignore him he'll do something really stupid & i'd feel guilty. i don't know what to do. please give me some ideas.

thanks

A true friend stays through the good and bad. He obviously needs help so this is a time where you are suppose to have his back, his shoulder to lean on, the person he can talk to for comforting.

Stay strong he sounds like he needs a true friend right now.

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14/f. valentine's day is coming up and i want to get this boy taylor something. i don't know what to get him because we generally don't exchange gifts, just decorated notes. but he's been really great to me this year. and i think he is the most amazing person in the world. i don't have any feelings for him. he's almost like a brother to me, he's a best friend.

so i need to know what to get him. something that's not cliche, so that he doesn't think that i have feelings for him.

any ideas? please & thanks;

I think you should get him a gag gift. He definitely won't think you like him, they aren't that expensive, and he will probably find humor in it.

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