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okay. this is complicated. so i liked this kid. lets say his name is brian. so i liked brian and he had a girlfriend and then he dumped her and he was like immediately flirting with me. like we were at the school basketball game and he was like so can i use your phone and i passed it to him and it had all service bars and then he said oh i think i need to use it outside will you come with me and so i did and we madeout before his mom came and i felt bad for his ex since it as like a day after and im kinda friends with her. but now i reallly like him and its now like a week since the basketball game happened and we wanted to hang out but he always has like lacrosse and hockey so its almost like we can never hang out and we were supposed to hang out friday but he was talking to my friend because we were going to hang out with her and her boyfriend too and he said he didn't wanna hang out anymore. and now he like doesnt even talk to me and i know he doesnt really even like me anymore. basically what im asking is like what can i say to him to make him see that i like him a lot and just want a chance but not make myself seem so desperate. i really like him!
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He doesn't like you, he just wanted the benefits.
Sorry but its the truth, trust me i'm a guy.
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Hello out there! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your AG (advice-giver) for the morning. Ok, now down to buisness. It seems like this guy, Brian, is not a very friendly puppy. He probably was only infatuated with you, not in love with you. Or he could've just been trying to get back at his ex, or make you feel bad. Guys are like that sometimes. Some could love you to death, and some would spit on you as they watched your heart shatter. It hurts, I know the feeling. It's the reality of life that makes it hurt so bad, really. Guys will love you, use you, or ignore you. Us, as girls, just have to accept it. Now, as for your question, I dont think this guy is worth even your energy. Obviously, he's trying to give you the cold shoulder. Then again, this is my opinion, so I'll give you a few suggestions. 1) You could straight out tell him that you like him and that you want him to take you back; 2) You can ask him questions about homework and what-not and view his responses. If he seems annoyed, dont even try anymore, but if he's tolerant, than keep going until you can hint to him that you still like him; and 3) Keep hanging out with him. As before, if he's annoyed then there's not much more you can do, but if he allows you to hang out with him, stay friends until you're confident enough to talk to him and tell him right out how you feel. Still, I dont think this guy is even worth your time. But! As I have said before, it is my opinion.
I really hope I helped. If not, there are plenty of other AG who would be more than happy to help you out. It'll work in the end. Good luck, girl. Stay strong, and if the match up doesnt work, move on, find another guy; one who'll love you until the end of time. Take care! Have a good Saturday!
Luvs,
~PPP~
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