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Hi There! I'm Nicole, and I'm 23 years old. People tell me I give good advice, I would like to hope so. I can try to help you with anything, so please leave some question in my inbox and I will answer them A.S.A.P. but I must let you know that I don't sugar coat my answers, and I give you my 100% honest opinion. ♥
E-mail: nicolex696x@yahoo.com
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am i suppose to shave them i did liek 2 times but my sister said i wasent suupose to and im liek how the hell would you know?>..... and then she said she has a mangina but the point is am i suppose to shave im 13 male (link)
first, i dont think its much of her business.
second, shave if you want you too. a lot of guys do.
you dont have to shave if you dont want to either.


hey i just got a myspace and i was wondering how to get a background or some color. its so boring! please help. and where can i find the layouts? thanks. bbye. i rate, too! (link)
http://www.chasebadkids.net/

http://myspace.com/myspacelayouts


This is the first question I've asked on here. I've answered a few questions, but this is the first I've asked. Here it is: It seems to me like people wanting advice should accept what's offered and "take it or leave it." I've read so many questions that end with, "and don't tell me to ______ because of _______." Not a problem. If people don't want certain types of advice (i.e. silly, stupid, sarcastic, etc.) then that would be fine. But what it seems to be most of the time is a legitimate answer. If someone is having a problem with something, doesn't it make sense to explore all options? It seems to me that some people (not the majority by any means) have something they want to hear and won't accept anything but that. Am I alone in this thought? (link)
agreed.


Hey Everyone! I was just wondering if someone could (pllleaase!) tell me how to make my xanga entries more colorful. I've tried writing them on Word and pasting, but it always turns out weird. Help! Thanks in advance! (link)
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on xanga, go to "edit in html"
type your entry, then go back to what you want colored
right before the word type WITHOUT SPACES < font color="color"> text la la lala
or ..again no spaces.. < font color=# six digit number > text la la la
you can get color codes from
http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/


Im editing my bio and im terying to do things like this

-i like pink

-my name is jamie

-myspace is awesome

and blah blah but everytime i do that it goes together like this:
-i like pink-my name is jamie-myspace is awesome it wont let me do a list thing you know?? Is there an html code i can do for this?? please someoen help me!!!! (link)
-i like pink < br>


just no spaces between the tags.


I know a lot of people ask questions about how to do stuff, and I usually use those to help me with it. I'm getting tired of this, and can anybody just give me a website that has all the stuff I need to know? (link)
http://www.chasebadkids.net/

pretty good site, has a bunch of things on there


Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?

Thanks-
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i agree 100%
haha


Hey i have a picture that i want to use on vampirefreaks.com but it can only be in .jpg , .jpeg , and .gif files. How can i get my icon to become one of thoses files? is it even possible?
~melissa (link)
open the picture you want to save with your internet, or paint...dont use paint if its a moving image though,
right click
save as.
where it say the file type, change it to ALL FILES or .jpg / .jpeg / .gif
then name it and after type .jpg / .jpeg / .gif
example
mushroom.jpg
mushroom.jpeg
mushroom.gif

hope i helped.


does anybody know what song it is where it says i'd give up the world for you.. a guy sings it (link)
the only song i can think of is "just a man" by right as rain.

sorry if thats not the one


I was wondering if there was a website that any of you knew of where I can change the look of my "add to friends''send mail''instant message''block''rank.." etc. I will rate 5s for good answers that are helpful. (link)
http://www.chasebadkids.net/
that website has a lot of codes that edit your myspace.


But one of my really good guy friends birthday is coming up on the 31st. I was just wondering what I could get him. Any Ideas? I'm totally clueless. Ill rate!!

* (link)
If he has a favorite sport team, get him a shirt, or a hat that represents it.
Maybe a chain necklace
CDs
Heck, im sure he'd even apperciate a card with some money. ;]


I just moved here from a different state & I'm starting school on Monday next week. I'm extremely nervous, I've never moved schools before & I'm 15. Pretty much, my question is: At lunch, I'll probably be sitting by myself. Does anyone have any suggestions on some things I could do to interest me, while sitting at lunch by myself. I don't want to look stupid and just sit there and stare around at people. I want to be able to do something. I'm not going up to people and asking them to sit with them because, I'm not that type of person. Thanks for your help. (link)
What you should do, before your lunch, is talk to the people in your classes around were you will be sitting, and see if any of them have the same lunch as you, and see if you could maybe sit with them. If you still end up sitting by yourself, look over your schedual, or write in a notebook, to make it look like you are busy and don't really notice what is going on around you.

best of luck at your new school.


well i have a problem... every one at school makes fun of me cuz i have like absoulutely no!!! boobs. i cant do anything about it but everyone makes fun of me like its my fault. i have no clue what to do. and the main reason why i have no boobs is because i havent had my period and its not like i can control that either! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!! (link)
pft. just ignore them. they only keep doing it because you let it get to you and they see that.
or if it really bothers you, just laugh it off and say "i know, but its not my fault" and brush it away like its nothing, if they see its not bothering you (or seems to not be bothering you anyways) then they'll back off.
and dont worry, that will all happen soon enough.


Alright, so I work in this fast food place, and it's pretty horrible there. It's a shady company to say the least. Anyways, I've been working there as long as the manager, and that's longer than anyone else becasue they're always hiring new people since everyone's always quitting.

Anyways, I gave my two weeks notice on Sunday, and on Sunday night the assistant manager told the manager that he had had enough because something else had happened. So I had to go in yesterday because my boss wanted to talk to me, in other words, she begged me to reconsider.

Everyone loves the assistant manager, just because he's nice and fair, so I know two guys who are going to quit because he quit. So basically, this place is screwed. Now I feel really pressured to 'reconsider' even though I really don't want to work there anymore. It's just a bad place to be, but I feel bad for my manager. What should I do? (link)
if you dont like it there, you shouldnt work there.
if you are going to feel bad, wait for a few more people to get hired, then quit. but if you really dont like it there, quit. and hopefully your manager will realize the place is crappy and make a few good changes.


Should girls shave their vaginas? (link)
there is not right or wrong answer to this.
some girls want to, some girls dont.
some guys like it shaved, some guys dont.
either way is totally fine and up to the girl


do guys only go for skinny girls or do they go for average girls too? (link)
a **real** guy doesnt care about how someone looks.
but sadly, most guys only like skinny/fit girls, but a lot of other guys like bigger girls, and then theres the other guys who like a girl for who she is, and not what she looks like.
if your thinking about changing yourself for a guy, you shouldnt. a guy will fall for you just the way you are.


How do you put a picture on myspace as a comment thingy to someone else? Do you know what I mean? I can't really explain it... (link)
get an imagehosting site...like www.tinypic.com
up load the picture, copy the link and type
~>*WITH NO SPACES*



ok my boyfriend is 1 year younger than me..is that bad? (link)
of course not. thats totally fine


Well, my boyfriend and I are (I think) going to go to second base quite soon. The problem is, I am really self consious about my breasts. The nipples are really flat and small. Do you think this would bother my boyfriend? (link)
dont worry about it
if he really cares about you, he wont care.
and if he does care, you deserve better.


This might seem like im depressed but i really have nothing to be depressed about. At night I cry for no reason i just feel the need to cry. I start to realize that after the tears comes a rainbow but thats not exactly right becasue after i feel like i need to regret crying over nothing.Sometimes i stay up past 12 am and find reasons to cry and other times i try so hard not to cry. This doesnt give much detail and it might be hard to help me.. it can seem akward if you im me on my sn but it would be really great and nice to take sometime out and help me..my sn is xxloveablebabexx0 if im away then please leave me a message and ill im you when i get back. Thank you!! ill rate high! (link)
hey
i think its just a girl thing, sometimes a girl just needs to cry.
i used to cry a lot for no reason too. sometimes i still do. and i honestly have no idea why. but i'll just try and list a few other things you can do to try and not cry.
dont try and find reasons to cry, just go to bed at a regual time, and try not to think about anything, listening to music or the tv while you go to sleep, and just leave it on if it will take your mind off things.
if you feel like you want to cry, try writing or drawing instead, but if you write, dont write anything that would make you upset or anything.

if you want to tell me more, it might be easier to help you. my screenname is AHH Nicole Is On




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