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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.


I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

advice

I have a friend who recently started taking the antidepressant drug Prozac. The doctor told her she had post dramatic stress disorder and should take this. She didn't want to take it at all but her mom forces her 2 and watches her every move when she takes it. Since she's been taking this medicine(which has been about 3 weeks) she's been having severe chest pains, migraines, constant vomiting, loss of weight (20 pounds), and muscle spasms 2. I think she's going to become addicted to the drug soon if they don't take her off of it and become to the point where her body won't be able to live without it. I don't know what to tell her to do because she's just out of options. Any advice at all would go along way. Thanks

does her mom know about these things? she should be told about them if she doesnt andtell the doctor about this to she if she can get a new anti-depressent drug-thingy. i hope she gets better too. let her know your worried and that you think its not a good thing for her to take prozac

Solemnstar
ps.it might also be a sideffect thats my take on this

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if space wasnt there then what would be?

i dunno maybe the universe would have a dimensional spazum creating a new reality and then the earth would be made of CHEESE WOOOOOIOO!!!! and then the disovery of color tv would not be made NOOOOOOOOOOOO.

or the universe could end i dunno

Solemnstar

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So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie?

say "I don't love you" there difficult and harsh but the best way.

Solemnstar

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i realize what problems i have but i dont know how to deal with them. What should i do?

TELL US WHAT THEY ARE YOU ::BEEP:: now that ive finished um..... spazzing ill tell you what go get one of those self help books and maybe book a therapist i dunno cant help without more info

Solemnstar

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Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~

well its a really bad idea to cheat on him because that will get you in deeper confusion and its though not wrong its not right to like another boy whill your going steady with one.I think telling your boyfriend that hes not very um... exiting

Solemnstar

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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?

dump him babe hes not serious about this and only uses you till he can get somebody "better" by that i mean hes shallow and dont careabout your feeling if somebody he thinks is cuter comes along
dont feel bad though

Solemnstar
you can get much better

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now guys be totally honest.. if a girl was decent looking.. not ugly but not that pretty but had a real good personality would you be ineterested in her and go out with her? if she was sooo hot but ditsy and fake would you go out with her? would you make an effort to get to know an ok decent looking girl? thanks.. and ill rate 5's!

no

Solemnstar

...ok maybe

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there is this kid who sits next to me he is really annoying and ugly and has a staring problem...hes lookin at me right now while im typing this and he wont leave me alone what should i do?

(from random consultant) punch him in the face
terrible idea

my decision tell him to leave you alone and youre not interested

Solemnstar

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Dear, Hard 2 spell

i think i might like like this girl. we have been friends for a long time although i don't know if its love or hormones thats making me like her.

S-o-l-e-m-n-s-t-a-r
whatever it is( i think its justa chemical reaction so our jeans get passed on)
its almost all that keeps me from beating up a certin person(not you) theres also the law and teachers lol


Solemnstar

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there is this real dumb kid in my class who sits there making stupid noises and i know that he has no diseses and i tried being his friend didnt work out

why do you care?
and this is not a question
Solemnstar

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Solifar

everyone in my family does drugs. should i do drugs too?i want to but the news keeps ellin me otherwise.

p.s why are you called Solifar?

its acctully Solemnstar and you family should not do drugs and you shouldnt want to its bad and can seriously harm your body like one of my previously awnsers to a question about majiwanna(spp)

let you brain it in what your doing
Solemnstar

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

nadda im wiccan and even though your right in that sense but its still wrong to hate people for it
Solemnstar

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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

the world will end in a nucular war started by Bush or a firery explosion neather will happen for atleast another 10 months

Solemnstar

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My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah.

it will take time for it to pass but fate needs time to build never give up hope"even when all hope is lost there is still hope"

Solemnstar

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wow this is really embaressing but is it normal for a gurl to well masterbate and like is masterbation different like does it feel different
when your having sex you know like does sex and 4 play feel the same or different

diffenrent you cant really control it theres the chance of disease and pregancy

Solemnstar

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my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do?

smack your self in the head because that dude is bad news you will get hurt or if your sure make a banner to put in front of the school to say your sorry then talk to him and say that its just not time for "that" yet its kinda complecated to do this but dont be afriad to be embarassed just try to stay public if he does this you know movies resturants things like that.

hope it works out for the best
Solemnstar

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How do i know if my boyfriend is really interested in me? Also how do i know if he is cheating on me? Please help

not that hard to figure out just ask him
and hope hes honest

Solemnstar

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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think?

extremly normal like missing a family member thats dead even though you never knew them kinda the same thing

Solemnstar

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there is this kid in my grade that likes me, the only problem is that he is a total geek and i don't even like him as a friend (not because he is a geek though, because he is annoying)
Now he told everyone that he IS stalking me and that he likes me!
what should i do without hurting his feelings?

ask him why he would say something like that and just try to be friends thats best for it it gives him false hope sometimes its mean but there no right way to end any kind of problem

Solemnstar

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I'm not going through this but it's out of curiousity.
Some girl told me that she was cutting but that she was only leaving marks in her skin and wasn't getting right down to where it would start bleeding BUT where she marked her self after became swollen for a couple of days and was a red bump.
I asked someone about it and they said it was perfectly safe and should be happy she's doing that rather than actually cutting and someone else told me it's not AS dangerous but she could still do some harm to her self.
I didn't really understand how she could really hurt her self by making marks in her skin that later turned in to bumps so can anyone explain it a bit and/or tell me which person is correct.
thanks :)

thats internal bleeding i thing those bumps are filled with blood

Solemnstar

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