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STALKER!
there is this kid in my grade that likes me, the only problem is that he is a total geek and i don't even like him as a friend (not because he is a geek though, because he is annoying)
Now he told everyone that he IS stalking me and that he likes me!
what should i do without hurting his feelings?
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you just need to talk to him and tell him that you don't like him like that nicely and ask him to stop following you. if that doesn't work and you are really freaked out tell an adult about it and tell them that you don't want to hurt his feelings.
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tell him how you feel about it...tell him that you dont like him but tell him in a nice wayy..and tell him in a nice way to stop following you around! *please rate*
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tell him nicely please stop stalking me ((I had the same problem but i told him to stop!!)) hope i helped!
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what u should do is tell him nicely i dont like u so stop stalking me and telling everyone you like me that will never get my attention if you want it to
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GuMBuM
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If he likes you and cares about you go up to him and tell him that he's hurting you and that it's scaring you what he's doing. I'm sure when you tell him that he'll think he's hurt his "Queen" and stop. But then he'll try to be buddy, buddy with you. Just be as nice as you can because remember everyone likes a girl with a good heart. Hope i helped!!
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Okay, I can't guarantee that anything you tell him to get him to stop 'stalking' you won't hurt his feelings. He obviously likes you, he even admitted to it. I think you should just go up to him and in a polite voice say " I'm sorry, but I don't like you, I like someone else *even if you don't* .. and don't take this offensively, but if you want someone to like you back, don't stalk them! " .. something like that. Make sure you're serious when you say it, and if he continues you should be able to make your own decision about whether to be rude or not. hope i helped
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If he is stalking you then who cares if you hurt his feelings. Thats so annoying tho! Just tell him to fuck off! He will eventually get the point that you dont like him and he will stop or just tel him. x0
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ask him why he would say something like that and just try to be friends thats best for it it gives him false hope sometimes its mean but there no right way to end any kind of problem
Solemnstar
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Fuck hurting his feelings. Stalking is a messed up activity. Why should you care for the feelings of a crazy ass mofo? Tell him to stop, tell your parents that he admitted stalking you. If he doesn't stop, get your parents to ask a judge for a restraining order. If he gets anywhere near you, the restraining order can get him arrested. But I'm guessing he's not 18 yet so even if he does get arrested, he'll only go to juvie or 'baby jail' as I like to call it. At the very least, getting arrested for stalking should make him think twice about stalking again.
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I have the same problem...only the person who stalks me won't flat out say it. You can use that against him. Try being forward, but not mean to him...maybe say "I know you like me, but I don't like you so can you please leave me alone." and if that doesn't work take it up a notch like "Back off...i don't like you" and if you're still having problems you can tell him you'll tell a teacher or parent that hes stalking you (you don't actually have to do that unless you want to) ... another good idea would be to avoid him as much as possible in the halls and if he does corner you just try to ignore him.. hope i helped
<3Jules
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Tell him stalking is against the law.
The thing is that some annoying boy's can grow up to be very nice!
Just tell him you don't want a boyfriend right at the moment and that he needs to stop bugging you or you will never ever like him. Hopefully he will lay off. :)
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Just, tell him that your not interested in a relationship right now and that hes not your type. If hes stalking you then why shouldnt you hurt his feelings! That would scare me to death.
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