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Q: Does anyone know of a web site like match.com or eharmony that is free.

http://www.matchfreetrial.com
http://www.americansingles.com
http://www.modernsingles.com
http://www.budypic.com
http://www.espinthebottle.com

hope this helps- :)

Q: ok i met this guy on the internet im 13 he is 17 and i like him and i think maybe he likes me too much. we made plans to meet in the future but i was just havin fun i was kidding about it. i didnt kno he really wanted to do it and now im scared something might happend can someone help?

hey the whole 'internet' thing can be pretty scary if your ignorant. it doesnt sound like you are so thats really good! NEVER give him any personal information (like phone number or adress)! it doesn't hurt to continue just talking to him but explain to him that your not looking for anything serious.

please don't meet him! you never really know who this guy could be. just be smart and trust your instincts and keep ya'll relationship as just 'internet friends' ok? =D

hope this helps- :)

Q: i just found out that my love is diabetic. i have no idea what it means. can anyone please tell me what it means? does drinking alcohol make it worst?

http://my.webmd.com/content/article/101/106221.htm

hey they have TONS of information on all sorts of disease. so go ^ there for all your questions!! they usually have just about everything!

hope this helps- :)

Q: Does anyone know of a GOOD online calorie counter, that lets you choose all of the food you have eaten, and then adds it up? I have searched for this before, found a good site, & forgot it. Now that I am searching again, somtime later, I cannot seem to find one that will let you choose all your food you had in one day & then add it up. If you know any good site, let me know please! (a free site)
Thanks!

http://www.calorielab.com/
http://www.craftmax.com/calories/
http://www.calorie-count.com/
http://www.fitday.com/
http://www.nutrawatch.com/

^hey sorry i hope one of those is what you were talking about? if not i can search some more if you want me to!

hope this helps- :)

Q: Dove è il traduttore a cosí posso usarlo per convertire a inglesi?

its like the coolest website ever! go to-

http://www.freetranslation.com

hope this helps- :)

Q: OK I'm probably overreacting, but I've got my grade 7 piano exam tomorrow and I'm sooooo nervous! I don't know why, I mean I've done 6 before and I've done OK, but I really don't feel ready for this one! Can anyone suggest anything to calm me down before the exam, or anything that will make sure my fingers don't shake during the exam?? I need answers fast because it's TOMORROW!! ARGH!

hey what you need to do is practice for incriments of about 30 minutes and then take about a 10 minute break because you don't want to work yourself too hard! also get a good night sleep of at least 8 hours! it will be really good for you. in addition, you should eat a good breakfast so you feel awake and ready.

good luck! & im sure you'll do fine- :)

Q: what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

I would say that in high school is where you really start to develop friends that are more meaningful to you. So, I guess that would be about 14 years old. Everyone starts to see who they really are so you'll be able to have friends who really like you for you.

hope this helps- :)

Q: Nessuno parla qui l'italiano?

Non parlo Itailian, ma ho usato un traduttore. :)

:)-

Q: does anyone remeber that cd it was like slow jams i saw the comercial on mtv anyways it was on last i saw like last week and its now on anymore there was a song on there and i loved it evertime i heard it but i dont remeber how it goes or whats it called or anything. doesnt anyone no a website that its on or a list of the songs or anything?

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-form/102-1732864-4003363

^hey go there and see if you can find the cd you were looking for. if you cant, you can do another search! then once you find the cd, they have a list of all the songs on the cd that you can preview for free so that you can find the song you want!

hope this helps- :)

Q: Where is a good place to buy spermicide?

hey buy condoms with spermicide! you can get them at any convenience store like CVS! there are tons of brands to choose from so you can get the right kind for you.

hope this helps- :)

Q: I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

rate high

well i would say it all depends on the seriousness of the secret. if it was something that could've hurt you, then i think it was ok for your friend to tell someone. also, it it was something silly like your crush or whatever, i think you should forgive her too.

however, if it was a true secret about yourself or your family, then i would question how good of a friendship ya'll have.

hope this helps- :)

Q: I have had this really good firend for like seven years and we are like sisters. Ive noticed that she never really took a liking to guys and always wondered if she was lesbian or something. She told me just a few weeks ago that she was and that she was sexually attracted to me. I was really confused and disguisted. I dont wanna throw away a seven year friendship...but i dont want my best friend hitting on me.

hey ive read about these situations in magazines a lot. first of all, shes just sexually attracted to you right? arent you sexually attracted to lots of guys? just because shes attracted to you doesn't mean she wants to hook up with you or anything.

usually, friends are a little weirded out that there bi/gay/lesbian friend might like them but thats usually nothing to worry about (but it is completely understandable).

i wouldnt straight out ask her if shes bi/lesbian because that could be awkward. wait for her to come out to you (if she even is that way anyway). really all you can do is be supportive in that situation and dont turn away from them.

hope this helps- :)

Q: I wrecked my dad's car this morning, and he's out of town until tomorrow morning. I haven't got the guts to call him and tell him about it, cause there's a huge dent in it and the garage door is messed up. I also pulled the bike racks off the walls. I know that I'll be in big trouble if I wait til he finds out, but I really don't know what to tell him on the phone. I feel so bad. HELP ME!

~stupid driver

i would really suggest telling his because the sooner the better. if you call him, you won't have to tell him in person! also, he'll have time to relax when you do actually see him!

good luck man- :)

Q: about the white stuff that comes out after your period is it normal for it to come out after your period for the whole month then when you get your period it goes away and so on and so on?
signed high rater and NEED HELP

yes yes TOTALLY normal! don't worry about it at ALL! and if its uncomfortable you can wear a panty-liner to keep your underwear clean. you will probably experience different amounts of discharge though (usually the amount gets less) as you get older

hope this helps- :)

Q: ok, well, im a christian. and i look at the horoscopes ALL of the time and im starting to think that there true. but my mom says its bad and i dont know how they r bad. how r they bad and is it really gonna affect my relationship with god?

hey i guess i see what you mean by like thinking that the stars and planets are controlling you and not god? sorry if thats not right. but just dont take them too seriously and explain that you dont to your mom. usually people MAKE the horoscope true by being like 'yeah i guess he was like my real love' or whatever if your horoscope said your real love said hi.

i really wouldnt worry about it and i think that you can always have a good relationship with god no matter what you have done right?

hope this helps- :)

Q: How do you get icons for you xanga site?

hey just go to some of these sights, find the ones you like, copy em, then paste them in your entry!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=iconz_forever_2007

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xDoLLed_up_iConSx

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=caitlin_finds_icons

hope this helps- :)

Q: Where can i find a web site to help me look for an old doll i found. It is a Mattel doll made in 1964. has strawbreey blonde type of hair & is on red roller skates!!!! She takes batterys. Please give me a web site to see how much she is worth!& Please dont give me ebay!!!!!!! that site didnt work ! i tryed!!! thank for all the help !!!

I rate High!!!!!!!

http://www.dolls4play.com/BARBID.HTM

http://www.barbiecollector.com/

^hopefully those wil help you! the second one looked a little bit better

good luck- :)

Q: im 14 years old. My mom isnt working right now so we dont have alot of money. The clothes i wear are american eagle, aeropostale, hollister, and abercrombie mostly. Well for school my mom said i cant get alot of clothes unless i buy them with my own money. i was wondering if anyone knew a way i could make money for some clothes. The place that i live at there arent that many kids, so i cant baby sit around here. Does anyone have any ideas?

mow lawns, bake sale, work as a camp counselor, work as a bagger in a grocery store, supposedly dairy queen hires at 14, or you could have your own little 'errand service' for your neighbors especially if you have a bike. you could make fliers that say what you are available to do (ex. pick up a few items at the grocery store, drop off stuff at the post office, etc)

good luck!- :)

Q: heyy i have mild acne and im allergic to alot of antiobitiotics so my doctor gave me this whole pamphlet on a pill called ACCUTANE, it supposed tot stop your oil glands or something, does anybody take it? how well does it work clearing up your acne? what side effects do you experience, because it is supposed to be very dangerous! any indo would be great - im undecided if i should take it or not! thanks =]

hey yes you should definitely think about taking it! ive know a few people who are through with the 6*edit* -month process (because you only take it for 6 months) and their skin looks AMAZING!! but it will get worse for the first couple of months but you gotta stick with it becuase when your done, it will be totally worth it. for girls, it can be more dangerous and you definitely SHOULD NOT take it if your even possibly pregnant!

some side effects that i was told about were very dry skin and lips so use you'll need lots of lotion and chapstick!

hope this helps!- :)

Q: how do i get my advice column known and have people ask me questions?

hey you just have to answer as many questions as you can. also, you can't be mean because you want people to like your advice so you have to always be supportive no matter what the situation. it will also help alot if you get a really good rating so you can become a 'feature columnist' because then people will begin to know who you are!

hope this helps- :)