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Question Posted Friday July 8 2005, 11:36 pm

ok i met this guy on the internet im 13 he is 17 and i like him and i think maybe he likes me too much. we made plans to meet in the future but i was just havin fun i was kidding about it. i didnt kno he really wanted to do it and now im scared something might happend can someone help?

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xdinGyxbaBex answered Sunday July 10 2005, 3:14 am:
You got youe self in deep he's a little old and he might not be telling the truth about him being 17 years old but dont meet him and block him online so that he cant talk to you i really dont kno what else to tell you to do except not meet him anywhere he says .. sry i couldnt help more
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lyDia_LoU answered Saturday July 9 2005, 10:48 pm:
Maybe just try telling him that you don't want to meet. And if he keeps asking then stop talking to him. If you need anyother suggestions about it just ask!

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BabyGirl2o8x answered Saturday July 9 2005, 8:07 pm:
bad idea, definately do NOT go and meet him. It's hard to really like someone just online. You have no idea if he's lieing, he may have made up that he's 17, he could be a desperate 47 year old man, or even worse.. a woman? i would say stop talking to him imediately .. even if he is telling the truth, isn't he a little bit old for you?

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fairfax answered Saturday July 9 2005, 10:40 am:
As much as you don't want to hear this, you should talk to your parents or guardians about this before you commit to anything with this person. You should also, before you meet ANYONE from the internet, get his phone number (even a mobile number), and call him from a PAYPHONE or mobile so that he can't have your home number. Then you need to call him. If you do not feel comfortable with the phone call or suspect he is not really who he has been saying he is, then cut off all contact and don't speak to him again. However, if you feel comfortable you should start talking to him on the phone on a regular basis until you fully trust him. Then you can think about meeting him in person, but if you do you should always meet in a place that neither of you know very well (don't invite him to your home and do NOT go to his) and it's best to take someone like a friend or relative with you for safety. Often people meet over the internet and make great friendships out of it, so I hope it works out for you too. But please be careful because it's so easy to take precautions and it could potentially save your life. Good luck! :)

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XxonlyindreamsxX answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:16 am:
ha ur gettin raped biatch!

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xD0UBL3xTrUBL3 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 2:20 am:
The first thing is you never meet someone online alone. Two if your 13 and if he is "17" thats a pretty big age difference. And if he is serious about it JUST DONT GIVE HIM ANY REAL INFO. Make up a place to meet far away from were u really live. And if your really desprate to meet him just pick a place pretty far from your town and take a parent or someone to meet you with him. You never know who he could really be

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Teza answered Saturday July 9 2005, 2:04 am:
W0AH.. DONT MEET HIM. SERIOUSLY YOU SHOULD WATCH SOME LIFETIME MOVIES. THOSE THINGS ACUALLY HAPPEN. JUST PROTECT YOURSELF AND DONT MEET HIM, DONT GIVE HIM ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION AT ALL AND JUST TELL HIM YOU DONT WANT TO MEET HIM. [[ ♥ ]]

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Xxprettyeyes187xX answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:58 am:
didnt you watch any lifetime movies haha..seriously dont meet him ..he may be a murder for all you know..dont waste your time on internet guys..there all fake...wait till some you meet in real life and get to know him..people on the internet can be anyone they want..dont trust him

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beachhun101 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:57 am:
hey yeah idk about the whole relationship...i mean your 4 years younger than him. i mean maybe 4 years when your older but only 13? hes wayyy more experienced than you and you shouldnt be doin the things that hes doing. yeah try to stay friends,and if you do go out-be careful and dont do anything you would regret. leave a message in my inbox for a followup! good luck!
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truadvice answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:44 am:
just dont talk to him block him ... dont meet him for all you know hes a 45 year old perv who will kidnap you ... just stay away and dont give out personal info.

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MHScutie87 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:40 am:
hey the whole 'internet' thing can be pretty scary if your ignorant. it doesnt sound like you are so thats really good! NEVER give him any personal information (like phone number or adress)! it doesn't hurt to continue just talking to him but explain to him that your not looking for anything serious.

please don't meet him! you never really know who this guy could be. just be smart and trust your instincts and keep ya'll relationship as just 'internet friends' ok? =D

hope this helps- :)

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poa answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:35 am:
Happened is past tense (even though you spelt it happend - there is an `e` between the `n` and the `d`), did he already abduct you and rape you then? If so why are you asking this question?

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