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where do guys like girls to put their hands when making out? i usually just hold the back of his neck or run my fingers through his hair but are there any other creative ones? lol (link)
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Every guy is different, there is no general answer to this really. Talk to your guy and ask him what he likes or his preference, if you like. However, what you're doing now sounds good and I doubt he's complaining, haha. =)
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I am a HUGE fan of Miley Cyrus/Hannah Montana. I think she's an awesome person and I'd really like to meet her and get her autograph. I was thinking that maybe I could get a chance when I went to a concert of hers but I'm not sure if that's possible or how I could even do that. I figured someone here on Advicenators would know though! Is there a way I can actually meet Miley Cyrus? THNX!!!! (link)
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Check her concert dates and see if she is doing an autograph signing or check her schedule for autograph signings for her new book, those are two great ways to meet her. =)
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m we've almost been together a year and for our anniversary i want to get matching necklaces. Like half a heart for him and the other half for me and it have a saying on it. Or any other his and her necklaces. i've been trying to look around on the internet but most of it is all girly. Does anybody know any good websites to go to for that?
Thanks a bunch! (link)
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Try this, it's *uber* cute!
http://www.remist.com/his-her-couple-necklace.php
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Who do you think should have been cast for bella swan in twilight? Not that i don't love kristen stewart, i just don't think shes 100% accurate for the part. I want to know who you think should have played her. Just don't say emily browning, or the panabaker sisters please. (link)
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Though I personally do love Kristen Stewart as Bella, if I could choose another person to play Bella Swan, it would most definitely be Sara Paxton.
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I heard that Lady GaGa (sings Pokerface, Just Dance, Love Game, Paparazzi) was a hermaphrodite or a man. I don't know if any of that is true but when I looked at her in her videos she doesn't look very womanly. Is Lady GaGa really a man? (link)
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No, she is really a woman. There have been pictures of her in her younger years and I can tell you that she's definitely a girl. She just comes off manly sometimes, I think, so people take that and run with it.
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My hair is about 4 inches past my shoulders and i have long side bangs that go to my lip. i am always either putting my hair in a headband or pulling my bangs back in a clip but its just getting boring doing the same hair style. And oh yea my hair is straight.
And also if you guyz know any ways to curl my hair, tht would be great. i just want it to look natural. i have a curling iron but idk what i should do to make the curls look natural.
So i just need advice for my regular hair and how to curl it. so yea. thanks so much :) (link)
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Hi! I think this will help you out -- skip until you get to number three. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359
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so a lot nights, i just can't fall asleep. any suggestions how to make this happen faster? (link)
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Here you go, my friend. =)
http://ezinearticles.com/?Alternative-Ways-to-Fall-Asleep&id=805534
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Fall-Asleep-Sooner-With-No-Problems&id=2298483
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Is there a website where I can customize volleyball spandex? thanks! (link)
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Here is a website that is supposed to do customizable volleyball spandex. =)
http://www.valscustomized.com/volleyballcrazyshorts.html
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17/f
high school senior
i cut my hair about 4 months ago, and its only grown to about my shoulders now.. I've gotten impatient w/ letting it grow out, so i purchased hair Extentions. they're just the clip in kind so that i don't have to wear them every day if i don't feel like it. i really like them because they blend perfectly with my hair and if you didn't know me you'd think it was my hair. anyways, my question is do guys find it weird for a girl to have fake hair in hers? its not really weird to me... but do guys find it a turn off? is it weird to have shorter hair one day.. then the next have long hair? is that weird and will guys be grossed out by it? please answer ASAP! thanks SO much to anyone who answers this:) lots of answers/opinions are appriciated:) (link)
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EVery girl thinks differently, however, I think that most guys like natural hair. However, I bet that if you get good hair extensions and ones that look natural -- bhe'll never even notice and it'll look so pretty. =)
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In two days I will be 14 weeks pregnant. I get headaches/ migranes like a bus just hit me. tylenol doesnt help what so ever. My doctor gave me some kind of medicine that has helped i dont like taking any tylenol unless I have to. but its to the point i cant cook clean nothing. any advice on trying to prevent them or get rid of them in away that i dont have to use medication. (link)
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When you get a headache or migrane, hurry and get a damp wash cloth (warm or cold is your preference) and place it over your forehead, and sometimes it helps to place one around your neck as well. I know you do not like taking medication, but just to add, Midol works wondefully for headaches and migranes and I think it could really help you, however, the wash cloths will help you without taking the medication to. Your choice. =)
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Every time I travel, I buy a souvenir pin. I used to put them on a small canvas tote bag, but the bag got so weighed down by them that it got all droopy. Any ideas as to where I can showcase my pins? Preferably on something useful/wearable, not like a bulletin board.
The pins are, on average, as big as a quarter. I don't want them somewhere where they could easily ge scratched or otherwise damaged.. any ideas? I know I'm being picky. Thanks! (link)
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I think a cute idea would be to get some cool, vintage pieces (shirts, scarfs, any kind you like!) and place your pins are there -- I think it could look really great. =)
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I've recently saw these sneakers and I love them. I"m wondering, what brand is it?
http://files6.lookbook.nu/files/looks/original/299532_2133459245a7901617360l.jpg?1251254170 (link)
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You may be able to find the answer here. Hope this helps, friend. =)
http://www.korean-fashion-online.com/korean_fashion_shoes_bags.htm
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24/f. I really would like a new job... but a new job most likely means moving back to the city and about 2:30hrs away from my boyfriend. We've been living together for just over a year, and its pretty great. I love my apartment, and I am very comfortable here. He really would rather not move to a city, nor leave his family. I am not sure what to do! At 24, it feels like such a juvenile question. Do I stay here at a job I don't like and hope something better comes along? Or do I keep applying to jobs far away and hope things work out with him? Either thought upsets me in one way or another... suggestions? (link)
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Well, it really comes down to which one is more important. Does he have a job? Does he make enough money to support you? If so, then a job may not be as important at this time IF you are planning on spending your life with him. However, if you think there is going to be a big chance of you two breaking up in the near future, you may not have anything when he leaves, so you may want to try to get a better job, or try to find one where you live now, there may be one you passed up.
Best of luck, my friend!
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Hey,I am 15/f and my homecoming is september 19th. I need my mom to sign something so I have to wait til saturday ( 3 weeks before homecoming ) to start tanning. I am farely white, not pale, but it's hard for me to get tan sometimes. I wanted to know how long I should go in the tanning booth for if I go almost everyday for 3 weeks? I have an orange homecoming dress so I really need to get a shade or 2 darker at the least, but I dont want to get burnt. I am not using sun tan lotion because it's super expensive at the salon. Thanks! (link)
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First time, just 5-10 minutes. You may want to up it to 15, but since you're going to be going almost everyday, 5-10 minutes should really do you good. =)
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i got a perm a few days ago and i love it its more like a body wave.. so its loser and not poodle like lol.
i have a few questions about it:
1. How do i sleep with it.. im like afriad to put it up i dont want it to get frizzy? or how should i put it up?
2. I usually do my hair in the morning everyday like i use Garnier Fructis Style Curl Shaping Gel or Treseme gel. And i ususally air dry it and i use a wide pick comb..i sometimes put a little bit of aussie hair spray in it my curls look fine when there damp but when they get dry they get frizzy.. what should i do? am i doing it right?
3. should i take another shower before i go to bed to get the gel and stuff out? that leads me back to my first question what to do with it before bed? like have the stuff in my hair still or put it up without anything in it? i just dont want to mess up the perm help! (link)
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I think this should help you, friend. =)
http://www.happynews.com/living/haircare/care-hair-after.htm
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Okay, so the deffinition of physcopath is someone who doesn't have a conciouns (this is what my mom told me). So I think I am, because I don't feel bad about anything I do, period. I know right from wrong and all that, and I know what I should feel bad about and what not, I just don't. I'm in tharapy, but it's never very regular, I've been 2 times in like 3 months. Next time I go should I like mention this or something ? (link)
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Absolutely, I think it is a great idea to discuss this with your therapist. He/she can help you find the reason why.
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I'm a pretty huge music freak, and I was wondering if anyone could list me off some good, decent, old school rappers? Today's rap, honestly, isn't very good at all (in my opinion, at least). I'm curious to hear some actual decent rap with meaning.
Thanks. =) (link)
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Run DMC and Will Smith. =)
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i want to know who on here actually uses condoms when giving a bj. i'm positive my guy doesn't have any stds because hes been checked...so does it really matter if we use a condom or not? (link)
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I personally have not done this, however, I believe I can still answer your question. If you know for a fact he's been checked and he's ok, then I see nothing wrong with it. But with any guy who you are not sure about, I would always use a condom just incase to be safe.
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So when a guy is done fingering a girl, does he usually wash his hands?? is this normal??? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Yes, it's good hygiene. It's not that your bad, assuming that is why you are asking, it is always good hygiene to clean up after anything sexual.
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Hey everyone, if you go to google and look up "William Suh arrest". Im the victum in that change. I dont know what to do, i still love that man and the people dont even have the facts stright about any of it! they are making himout to be a horrible person and he is NOT. I love him and belive he did nothing wrong, i really want to talk to him, but i cant sit here and listen to the horrible things people are saying about him. They dont know him, I DO!
what do i do T_T (link)
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Though I do understand that you feel as though you love him, and maybe you truly do, however, what he did was wrong. Maybe not in your eyes at this time, but in everyone else's -- it most definitely is. You see, society sees that as him just taking advantage of a very young girl, whom is not old enough to really be sure of what is right and wrong and he can manipulate you and/or brainwash you into thinking it's ok. My friend, please understand that what he did was wrong and he has to pay for the crime he committed. When you get older, I think you will understand -- or hope you will.
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