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Q: i am REALLY constipated. i know i have to poop because i can feel it but it just wont come out! yesterday was saturday and i sat on the toilet for 3 hours pushing and pushing and pushing and i still cant get anything out, i really want to poop and i cant!! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!

p.s. i drink TONS of water

take a laxitive. it might take up to an hour to take effect.. but trust me it helps. if this keeps happening, you should go see a doctor.
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Q: Any girls out there with really thick,corse and/or frizzie hair wut do you do to calm it down because mine is all three and it takes me an hour to straighten it when it is dry.

Any suggestions

i have a good straighnter-ceriamic

dont tell me to use freeze stuff on my hair it works but u cant tell.

i feel your pain. sucks don`t it? well this is what i do.. use garnier fructis shampoo. also use some kind of anti-friz gel (not too much or your hair will be greasy). straighten your hair by layers. like put most of it in a clip and do the bottom layer. then let some down and do some more.. and so on. spend most time on the top layer. for every layer put some mousse in it. also next time you get a haircut ask the stylist to thin it, especially in the back. trust me it helps.
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Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now and i love him so much and im almost positive he likes me, but he's always flirting with everyone but me, just the other day he was fliritng with 3 girls right in front of me. And this was pretty obivious flirting the were playfully hitting eachother and chasing each other and one of them was like touching his face and holding his chin and then the other girl like kissed his hand. I was so pissed, and when one of my friends tried talking to him about it he denied everything and said he wasnt. Also I wish he 'd show it more that he likes me, he dosent not like me, its just not the normal boyfirend girlfriend relationship. What do you think i should say to him to make him realize what he's doing without him getting offensive? Also can someone please explain why he's acting so shy and unaware around me and no one else.

ok my boyfriend and i are the exact same way.. and we`ve been together for a year. the thing is.. he really likes you. when you really truly like/love someone you don`t flirt with them. it`s weird i know, but it happens to the best of us. don`t get upset with him. he really does like/love you.. but it`s just hard for him to show it because of the way he feels about you. trust me, my boyfriend and i are just like that.. both of us. if it really bothers you though, tell him. he`ll probably try harder not to flirt with other girls.
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Q: Are you able to use any sort of phone on a cruise? (e.i. cell phones & regualr phones)..or even the internet on a cruise?

you can`t use your own phone on a cruise ship. but they have phones you can use.. but it costs more than you would want to spend. if you have a wireless connection laptop you can use it. they also have internet cafe`s and you can buy a certain amount of time on their computers. that costs a bit too. just save up some extra money. i`ve been on 2 cruises, so i know what i`m talkin about.
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Q: hey! okay, today i went tanning for the frist time. i went in a medium ed for 10 minutes, and used the special lotion they give you. i came home tonight, more than 6 hours later, and took a shower. just one certain spot on me is red, actually 2. it's normally where i get sunburn. could i have possibly gotten sunburn , or is it like an allergic reaction to the lotion? i don't think it's the lotion, since wouldn't i have gotten taht all over my body? just wondering if it is sunburn how can i prevent it next time and put anything on it to make it go away? thanks!

well since it`s your first time, you have to expect crazy reactions. my stomach and 2 places on my back turned PINK and itched like crazy. different bodies react different ways. i wouldn`t be too worried about it. there really isn`t a way to prevent it unless you put block on those certain spots. but you really just need to deal with the pain because your body will get used to it after a while and it will stop happening. *sigh* the pains of being beautiful.
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Q: What are some good country songs?

I am making a binder with a TUN of awesome lyrics! its sorta got a good start, but I Love country and i dont ever remember the names of songs or who sings them!

So if you know of any good country songs, and you know the title and(but its okay if you dont) the artist or group! thanks so much!

and if you have any other awesomely amazing songs that you think are just great, leave me those too, and i'll look them up and add them as well!

thanks so much in advance!

:) *KeLs*

save a horse ride a cowboy -big `n rich
redneck woman -gretchen wilson
bless the broken road -rascal flatts
i believe -diamond rio
monday mornin church -alan jackson
baby girl -sugarland
live like you were dyin -tim mcgraw
whiskey lullaby -brad paisley
concrete angel -martina mcbride
mr mom -lonestar
there goes my life -kenny chesney
i`m already there -lonestar
suds in the bucket -sara evans
*i have tons more, just ask*
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Q: okay so I'm 14 f. I haven't had a boy firend yet, is that weird. See I'm in french immersion, and theres only lik 3 guys in it and there nerds. so all of my friends are nerds. I moved here last year so I don't really no many other people, but still. I mean, I've been asked out a lot, but that was at my old school and I was in grade 5-6-7 so "going out" with someone was just holding their hand in school, so I don't count that. Is it sad that I've never been on a REAL date? How can I change?

it`s not sad that you`ve never been on a date. i know you`ve probably heard this a million times but.. you have plenty of time. i`m 14 too and i honestly don`t want a boyfriend. but i`m in love and i`ve been with the same guy for a year. that`s very rare though. trust me. it`s not easy being with someone at our age. in fact, it`s really tough sometimes. just get to know some guys and be friends with them. you never know, maybe one of them is the person you`re supposed to be with. be patient. you`ll find the right guy. or he`ll find you. don`t change yourself for any guy, the right one will love you for you.
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Q: can u get kicked off advicenators w/o notice b/c of a perverted question you asked/

i don`t think so. when i was bad i posted some disgusting questions on here and advicenators deleted it and it didn`t show up on the question page. no one said anything to me about it though. so no i don`t think you can get kicked off.. unless they warn you and you do it again.
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Q: i am making a my space and for the header i need a quote.does anyone have any inspirational quotes they would like to share? thanks

-the bad times last forever... and the good times don`t ever seem to last.
-i`m not the girl who runs up to you when i see you.. and i`m not the girl who talks to you any chance i get.. but i am the girl who keeps it all inside and regrets it later.
-I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. `Philippians 4:13
-through all the drama you still gotta smile because life will get better.. it might be stormy but it can`t rain forever.
-i may not be perfect but inperfections make you beautiful.
-you may be the only Bible someone reads today.
-life is like a pen.. you can cross out mistakes.. but you can`t erase them.
-anyone can pick up a knife... but it takes a strong person to put one down..(written by me)
-i`d rather be on fire for God than on fire later.
**just some personal favorites. i have more.**
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Q: pleas help me i get so mad over the dumbest things like the way my mom talks or when some one chews gum or a sound i dont like i get so mad some people say i need anger manegement or they say i have OCD another thing is i cant stay focused when my teacher says something i just star off in to space or when some one is talking rite to my face i just star off and then i just say really fast what?or huh? and have to ask them to tell me agan because i wasint paying attition my mom nos because i have ben getting low grades im sorry if its so long but i need help!pleas!!!!!!

i have the same problem. like when someone is talking on a cell phone i get annoyed like crazy. and when someone`s eating i`ll just stare at them and pick out the imperfections like when they smack or talk with food in their mouth. anyway.. back to you.. i don`t think you have mental issues or anything. i just think you have a hard time with some things. just don`t get too stressed out about it cuz that will make it worse. make sure you get plenty of sleep because that really does help with stress. just try to focus more on your schoolwork and if it`s too bad, get a tutor.
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Q: I need a new tennis racket but I'm not sure what kind to get. Any suggestions from tennis players?

head rackets are really good. they`re really light so it won`t hurt your arm and it decreases the chance for tennis elbow. i would say prince are second. they`re top heavy so they`re good for ground strokes. i wouldn`t suggest a wilson.. mine`s kinda warped.
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Q: i need a website to make a jornal or a cool subprofile if you can help me ill give u a 5!!!!

www.livejournal.com www.buddy4u.com www.xanga.com www.subprofile.com www.buddyprofile.com i have profiles on all of those.
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Q: T'm 14 and I'm a girl. I've never had a boyfriend I don't enen talk to guys. I'm really shy. I really want to have a boyfriend, but I know that no guy likes me anyways. What should I do?

don`t worry about it. when you`re 14 you don`t really need a boyfriend. it`s too hard to keep a sarious relationship when you`re this young. trust me i know. being shy isn`t always so bad. some guys like mysterious girls. if you really want to be more outgoing, just start hanging out with someone who isn`t shy. you are who your friends are. just don`t get too uptight about this situation. you`re young, you`ll grow out of it. i know a lot of people around your age, and older, that have never had boyfriends or girlfriends, and they`re perfectly fine. don`t down on yourself by saying no guy likes you. how do you know? just save yourself for the right guy.
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Q: Hey I just bought a cute new purse. What kinds of things should I put in there? Thanks =)

hmm.. a mini hairbrush, wallet, mints/gum, a little make`up for touch`ups, cell phone if you have one, lip gloss, pen and/or pencil, keys.. i would say those are the necessities.
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Q: i have a friend i am obsessed with him and he doesn't understand how much i luv him he is my whole world. should i tell him about it?

well you need to get over your obsession first of all. and honestly.. you appear to be too young to have a boyfriend or be in a serious relationship. but if you really do feel strongly about him, i think you should sit down with him and tell him how you feel. please don`t do it online or in a note. sit him down and talk to him one on one. don`t come on too strong. definitely don`t be like "i love you, you`re my world." that will just freak him out and he`ll probably back off. be honest but don`t be too crazy about it.
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Q: Ok, im fat and i need to lose alot of weight im in 7th grade and i weigh 205 lbs. how do i

well the first step is realizing you have a problem. so on to step two. grade doesn`t matter when it comes to weight, you could be maturing differently than everyone else. plus remember that muscle weighs more than fat. so anyway some tips on losing weight.. start running everyday. start out running for a few minutes straight, then walk some, then run some more. gradually start stepping up to running more and walking less. do about 50-100 crunches every morning and every night. also do 20 push`ups every morning and every night. also you could ride a bike to tone up your thighs. also, try to get involved in sports (church, rec, etc.). also, you need to eat less. eat 3 healthy balanced meals a day. if you need a snack, eat fruit (grapes, apples, bananas, oranges, etc.) or crackers.
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Q: i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically

i don`t think you should do anything physically past masing out. you really can`t plan things though, you just have to let them happen. if you start feeling it, go with it. but don`t rush anything, just let it happen on it`s own.
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Q: Hey! I straighten my hair alot, but my straightner takes at least an hour for me to straighten my hair (and it still does barely anything) does anyone know of a certain brand or type of straightner that will straighten my hair quickly, and make give it that straight glossy look? without frying my hair? tHANKS A BUNCH!

a CHI. it`s about 200 bucks but it`s awesome. i have a helen of troy and it takes me about an hour. but with the CHI it only takes about 10 minutes. in my opinion the CHI is worth it.
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Q: Okay well last night I had my bf over and we got sexual.. Well to get to the point we wern't gonna have sex so we just fooled around.. Well he came(spelling error lol) and he was down there when he did it.. He made me go in the bathroom to check if ne got in but I dont know.. I dont know what to do. and I dont want to tell him I am scared. I am a 14/f

tell him you`re scared. don`t let him pressure you into something you don`t wanna do. if he really likes you, he should understand.
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Q: I want to make a pie for my friends on pi day, because it's funny and dorky and this monday (3/14!) but I've never made a pie before. What's the easiest pie to make?

there are some recipes on here. http://www.worldsfare.com/gourmet-food/chocolate-easy-pie-recipe.html if ya don`t have any luck there, go to google and type in "easy pie recipes".
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bio

I'm Katelyn. Not Katie Lynn.

PERSONALITY:
-God comes first.
-I am Pro-Life.
-I put others before myself.
-I'm usually nice.
-I don't cuss and I don't gossip.
-I'm not perfect, but I know God is.

APPEARANCE:
-I'm short.
-I have a mullet.
-I have freckles.
-I change my hair often.
-I have green eyes, not blue.
-I'm usually considered cute.