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my boyfirend the flirt
I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now and i love him so much and im almost positive he likes me, but he's always flirting with everyone but me, just the other day he was fliritng with 3 girls right in front of me. And this was pretty obivious flirting the were playfully hitting eachother and chasing each other and one of them was like touching his face and holding his chin and then the other girl like kissed his hand. I was so pissed, and when one of my friends tried talking to him about it he denied everything and said he wasnt. Also I wish he 'd show it more that he likes me, he dosent not like me, its just not the normal boyfirend girlfriend relationship. What do you think i should say to him to make him realize what he's doing without him getting offensive? Also can someone please explain why he's acting so shy and unaware around me and no one else.
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Ok... YOU talk to him... not your friend!! If he really wants to stay together, he will understand and stop!
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MaNdY!
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No way, hes not acting shy, hes being a jerk to you. Its one thing to know that hes doing it, and its another to deny it, no way, drop him, I'm sorry, you need to. This guy has no respect for you. You need a guy that will respect you and not lie to you, so please get rid of him, to be honest, I see no future with a guy like this, it makes you mad and upset, no guy is worth going through anger like that.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ohkay, well,
a)You probably could find a better guy like that. Guys who are non appreciative need to curl up and die.
b)If he's denying it, he obviously doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. So, you need to tell him face to face what he's doing and what's angering you. If he gets offended, He's not worth your time.
C)Approach him with confidence, something like "Are you appreciative of this relationship?" That'll make ya' sound uber smart!
Yeah...
-Mistress Maddy
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I don't know why he would treat you diffrently.Sometimes guy's have weird ideas.
You need to gently explain to him that all this attention he is giving these other girls is hurting your feelings.Tell him to give some of that attention to your relationship.Just try not to sound jealous but let him know how you feel.Tell friends not to get involved because that might make him mad!:}
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Sounds like you two need to talk. Flirting is something that some people do; it's just in their personality; however, in your case, it sounds like he is overly flirtacious. He either needs to chill out, or you need to find someone who will give you more attention. In a relationship, it's all about affection. He doesn't seem to show much affection towards you, almost like he'd rather be trying to impress other girls instead of you, his girlfriend. This is something that needs to be set straight. I hope that you find the words to firmly let him know that this is bothering you, but try to make the best of the relationship. If this continues, I recommend finding yourself a new boyfriend who cares about and is not afraid to show it. Good luck.
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ok my boyfriend and i are the exact same way.. and we`ve been together for a year. the thing is.. he really likes you. when you really truly like/love someone you don`t flirt with them. it`s weird i know, but it happens to the best of us. don`t get upset with him. he really does like/love you.. but it`s just hard for him to show it because of the way he feels about you. trust me, my boyfriend and i are just like that.. both of us. if it really bothers you though, tell him. he`ll probably try harder not to flirt with other girls.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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