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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

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does anybody know any sites where i can download the third season of greys anatomy for free on??

thanks

you can watch them on
abc.com for free
but you can't dowload them.

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Okay im 14/F. Ive only gotton my period one time. that was 5 months ago in December. I know that when you first get it that it takes a while to become regular but this long? is this normal?

your period starts out really screwy.
the time between the first and second one is soemtimes really long.
so you have nothing to worry about.
also,
are you really thin?
do you not eat a lot?
those can attribute to it, too.
but just because your body is conserving energy :]

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my bf had sex with me and he didnt wear a condom and it was so good

could i be pregnant?

uhm yeah.

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f/14 4'11/98 lbs


so, i was wondering, are there diet pills that a fourteen year old would be able to buy without a parent/doctor?
if so, what kinds, and how much would they cost?


thanks

I have 2 things to say to you.

A. DIET PILLS DON'T WORK.
they make you gain weight so you'll continue to buy them. they're garbage. they don't work.

B. you're skinny enough. 4' 11" & 98 pounds is a fine weight. you don't need diet pills or anything.

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14/F

So I'm going on vacation for two weeks and I'm trying to pack light...I was wondering, do I really need to bring shaving cream for my legs/under my arms?
Any opinions are helpful.

just use soap at the hotel :]

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Tomorrow night my friend is having a pool party, and i really dont want to go swimming because im not comfortable being in a bathing suit. I dont know what to do. When peeople ask me why im not swimming im obviously not going to be like im insecure about the way i look in a bathing suit.Any ideas?


also im nervous becasue my friend hangs out with a different group of friends than me but since were close friends she obviously invited me and im only friends with like 7 people that are going . out of like 30. What should i do ?


Thanks

you could say you have your period? ;]

or just wear your bathing suit with a tank top over it, and maybe some shorts, too.
but you don't have to swim.

you could just hang out instead.

also,
talk to the 7 people you know
and just talk to somebody new.
just say like, "i like your bathing suit."
or something and start making small talk.

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How come on YouTube when people play and sing along to acoustic versions of a song with the guitar, the word "cover" is almost always in the title? What does this mean?

it means that they didn't write the song,
another band did
and they're just performing it.

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So, I just opened a bulletin that a contest site posted and they were advertising a layout site. Anyway, it has like a layout type background and a song playing. My question is how do you have a background and a song playing for a bulletin?

[body background="background url"] [/body]

but the ['s are

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I'm looking to buy one season of Kyle XY off of iTunes. But how much does it cost? Do they all cost the same amount?

I buy lost episodes
and all episodes cost the same so,

$1.99 an episode.

but I'd just buy the season,
it's probably cheaper and less time consumnig

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i want to get a piercing somewhere on my ear that is simple.

i like a certian spot, but im not sure if its pure carlige, or had bones or vessles

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g2/peta2piggy/DSCF1959.jpg

i circles the spot in red where i was wondering if thats all pure cartlage

PLEASE only amswer if you are 100% sure! =] thanx

my friend just got that exact spot pierced.
it's all cartiledge.

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where could you find black skinny jeans beside hot topic?

I got mine from wet seal.

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im 14/f and in the 8th grade
does anyone know any books that have like making out or sex in them without hinting that in the title? thanks soooo much!!
%% ;-)

gossip girls series.
i read it and it can get racy ;]
lol.
also the summer boys series.
the a list series.

if you go to the young adult section of a bookstore, and look at the books
alot fo them have that stuff in them. haha.

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with my makeup, i wondering how i could do it differently. I have very large blue eyes with VERY long eye lashes. All i do now is put on a little bit of foundation to even things out, and no blush or anything because my cheeks are already VERY red then I put VERY little eyeliner on my top eye lid along with mascara on the top and bottom lashes, and then eye liner on the bottom of my eye lids.

i want to still look presentable, but i want to change things up, any ideas?

thank you!

try eyeliner on only the bottom.
try light neutral eyeshadows.

maybe even different eyeliners colors.
I have blue eyes and I can pull off purple ;]
so that mgiht look cool.
and maybe don't put mascara on.
since you already have long lashes.

less is more.

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what else can i say to my girlfriend besides "i love you"? just wondering, because i'm just kind of tired of saying the same thing over and over. kinda wanna spice it up, ya know?

thanks

just think of something cute to say.

like along the lines of:
"you mean everything to me."
"you're my everything."
"I couldn't live without you."

tell her she's beautiful
and tell her what you love about her as well
as the fact that you do love her.

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hello

i'm 14/f. I am really mad now because whenever i talk to my mom about boys, she says i can't date for another 3 more years, (so that's when i would be 17) but i REALLY don't want to wait that long. All of my friends already have boyfriends and I really don't want to wait until 17 when i get my first kiss. that would be so akward. I've already had my 1st boyfriend (only lasted for a week) and I really liked having a guy around me saying that he cares about me and having someone hold hands with me... etc.

is there anyway i can change my mom's mind? How am i supposed to act if a guy asks me out and my mom doesn't approve? aghh i really need help

ugh my mom was kinda like this
and I had a guy friend whose mom was like this.

he at first, didn't tell her,
which you can try,
but then she might find out
which i guess his mom did.
but that actually worked in his favor.

they had a huge talk about it and now
he's alowwed to date and what not.

just explain to her,
if a guy asks you out, like mom,
"there's this guy I really like
and we're not gonig to be anything serious
but we wanna have a little more than a frienship."

tell her it won't be a huge thing.
let him come over and meet her and hang out and what not.

hope it helps

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im intrested in reading alot of sarah dessens books this summer. but which one is the best, or can you tell me which is the best from greatest to least? thank you so much

i've read this lullaby like 6 times
haha so thats number 1 for sure.
number 2 - someone like you which i've read aout 5 times. which i loveee.
number 3 - that summer.
number 4 - truth about forever.
number 5- keeping the moon.
number 6- dreamland.

and i haven't read just listen but it sounds sooo good :]

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is it bad or wrong that i still sleep with a stuffed animal? Its a white tiger named Snowball. even though i share a bed with my boyfriend, if i dont have snowball i have a hard time falling asleep. is there something wrong with me? btw im 19/f if that makes any difference

i'm 15 and i still sleep wit a stuffed animal.
i'm not even the bit msot embaressed to say it.

it's a comfort item.
have you ahd it for a while?
I have had mine for like 9-10 years.
I've just grown attatched and sue
to having it with me.

same probably goes for you.
and it isn't that big of a deal :]

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What did everyone think of the ending of the Sopranos?

it was lame squared. :]

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idk how to get more songs on my ddr game! someone no how to?

on my version
you have to play dance master mode.
then they're unlocked in the shop

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hey well i dont have mtv anymore so i cant see trl and catch up with my favorite bands. i was wondering like are there any bands that are similar to greenday, yellowcard, hellogoodbye, plain white t's? like just punk rock bands. i dont want scremo. thanks!

love them :]

try these:
this providence.
daphne loves derby.
paramore.
cobra starship.
the higher.
the red jumpsuit apparatus.
holiday parade.

tell me if they're good && you want more

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