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pool party
Tomorrow night my friend is having a pool party, and i really dont want to go swimming because im not comfortable being in a bathing suit. I dont know what to do. When peeople ask me why im not swimming im obviously not going to be like im insecure about the way i look in a bathing suit.Any ideas?
also im nervous becasue my friend hangs out with a different group of friends than me but since were close friends she obviously invited me and im only friends with like 7 people that are going . out of like 30. What should i do ?
Thanks
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you could say you have your period? ;]
or just wear your bathing suit with a tank top over it, and maybe some shorts, too.
but you don't have to swim.
you could just hang out instead.
also,
talk to the 7 people you know
and just talk to somebody new.
just say like, "i like your bathing suit."
or something and start making small talk.
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Swim anyways, who cares? Plus, it's at night! Even better, right? You could always put a t-shirt on over your suit, but that'll get annoying. Just swim, why not?
As for people, talk to everyone! It's a perfect opportunity to meet new people. Plus it's a party, so everyone'll just be chillaxing [haha I love that word] and stuff, so you can just walk over and start a casual conversation [oh hey! you know _____? She goes to my school.. etc]
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You could say that you dont feel well, or its not the right time of the month! Or you could just have fun and go swimming!! But umm if you really dont want to swim then just use those excuses..you could also just like swim in a t-shirt and shorts. Good Luck!!
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