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im in love with this kid who ive lost my virginity to and i just started going out with him like 3 days ago and we got into a fight because my friend wanted them to leave her house so he went outside to sit so i followed him and he was really being mean and told me to leave and that he wasnt gonna come see me anymore (he lives in another town) so i went upstaries and started crying and my mom picked me up to take them home and i just got out of the car cuz i couldnt take it anymore. i love him so much and hes being so mean to me and i dont wanna call him and he hasnt called me, i dont know what to do. im so confused. i love him

i rate 5s

Sweetie, this might be hard to hear, but it sounds like he was just using you. Once he actually got sex he started being mean to you and that's not right. You don't need a guy like that in your life, at all. You should be with someone who won't treat you like trash and will actually love you for you and not want you just because of sex. This guys sounds like a totally ass and I think you really need to get over him. I know it might be hard, but you have to. He's putting you though so much pain and you don't need that. You need a man that will stick by you and won't make you cry!
♥ Krissy

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how do i make it so that it shows the rating in my advice column?

You have to be rated 5 times for it to show up in your calumn. Just answer a lot of questions and get some ratings and it'll show up.
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I wasn't sure what to put this under.. My bestest guy friend told me the other day that he liked me since the day he saw me... I don't know if I could see him that way cuz he is like my best friend and i dont want to hurt our friendship.. All I see him as is a friend... but I dont want to hurt his feelings or make him mad... could someone give me some advice on what i should do?? Thanks in advance!

Simply tell him that you don't really like him that way. You just think of him as a best friend and nothing more. Explain to him that you don't want to go out because you're scared it'll ruin the relationship you guys already have. Since he's your best friend, I'm sure he's going to understand. And tell him if you guys are ment to be, the feelings for both, you and him, will come back some other day.
♥ Krissy

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ok thers this guy that i like so we will call him joey. ok so i like joey a lot and he liked me for a while but then stopped liking me and we became really good friends now he is like in love with my best friend. im so jealous and mad. but my friend told me that she doesnt like him, but i think she is starting to. but she doesnt no that i like him. but like how do i get him to like me again and not her? please help me i really like him and if he does go out with my best frined i dont no what i would do!! thanks love ya!!

You should talk to your friend about this. Tell her you have really strong feelings for Joey. If you explain to her everything you feel about this guy, she should back off and understand what your saying. If she doesn't like him, you should trust her when she tells you that. If Joey ever did ask your best friend out, she should say no. Best friend's shouldn't be going out with other best friend's crushes. So if she's a true friend and he did ask her, she'll say no. You could always get Joey liking you again by, flirting a lot, always being there for him, being yourself, laughing at all his jokes, being sweet, etc.
♥ Krissy

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ok well i broke up with my girlfriend and i really miss her. and i dont know why. she's really pretty, the sweetest girl i ever met, and the only reason we broke up was because i thought she liked me best friend nicky. i dont know how to tell her, and really she's been a mess, but i really want her back because i care about her more than anything in the world.

You really have to tell this girl how you feel about her. Explain to her that dumping her was a huge mistake and that you really want her back. Tell her that she's really pretty and she's the sweetest girl you ever met. Ask her for a second chance and explain to her that the only reason you broke up with her was because, you though she liked your best friend, Nicky. But you have to tell her you want her back. She's probably been missing you like crazy too.
♥ Krissy

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Here it goes>> My bestfriend Alex (girl)and I have gotten really close over the time we have know each other. Well something happened and know she wont talk to me and acts as if she hates me. We have gone to each other for everything. What could i do or say or to her without losing her. She means the world to me

You should ask her why she's not talking to you and acting like she hates you. Tell her that whatever she might be going through that your here for her. Maybe she's having a bad day or week and doesn't want to be bothered with people. But even though you have to find out what is wrong. Ask if it's anything you did, because you don't want her being mad at you. If it is something you did, explain to her that she means the world to you and you don't want to lose her. Tell her that without her, you don't know what you would do and you want to keep her as a best friends. Just talk to her and I'm sure you'll get whatever is bothering her out of her system.
♥ Krissy

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ok so me and my boyfriend went out for 6 months... and then things started to change. so i broke up with him. then the next day he asked me back out and i said yes. and then after like a week i broke up with him again because it was different then before and i didnt like it. and he keeps calling me when hes in tears and i dont know what to do.. if i went back out with him ide be doin it because i feel bad for him and i dont wanna hurt him. more and more people are telling me "he'll change for you... he'll be different" and its all retarted and i dont wannna go back out with him.
any suggestions on what to do next???
thanks in advance
13/f

Sweetie, your right. You shouldn't go back out with him just because you feel bad for him. You gave him a second chance and things really didn't work out. What makes you think things would work out again? Just because he's in tears when he talks to you, doesn't mean that's a good reason to take him back. You don't like him or have any feelings for him, so the best thing would be to have nothing to do with him; besides talking to him as friends and such. These people that are telling you he'll change if you guys get back together, ignoring them. They should understand your feelings and when you said you don't want to get back with this guy, they should drop it. If they keep bugging you about him. Tell them you don't have feelings for this guy anymore. Say to them if you actually did go back out with him, it would just be wrong because you'd only be with him cause you feel bad. They should understand were your coming from and should drop bugging you about this boy. Try finding a new crush or boyfriend. That way they'll stop bugging you and your ex will back off.
♥ Krissy

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hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life.

You really have to tell her what you feel. Since it was a stupid reason for breaking up, she probably still has feelings for you. I think you should either, call her up or talk to her face to face about your feelings. You're going to have to tell her someday. You'll feel so much better once you tell her everything and why you like her so much. Just leave all your feelings out. If she feels the same way, work something out so you guys can get back together. If she doesn't feel the same way, you'll have to find someone new. You have to take the chance of telling her though. I know everything good might not come out of this, but that's the chance you should be willing to take for this girl. But in the end, if it's meant to be, it'll find a way.
♥ Krissy

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I want to know if guys like to be touched..in general? Like, arms, stomach, etc. Is that like..a turn on for them?

Guys like to be touched anywhere really. They do like to be touched in general, if your being flirty with them. Either by touching their arms, stomach, etc. My boyfriend like's that and he's say it's a turn on if you just run your fingers along his stomach.
♥ Krissy

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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused

Girls think it's cool to have sex at the age of 14. They just want to feel wanted and like they actually fit in. They probably do this because they always see it in movies or music videos. It just leaves them wondering what it's like to actually have sex. It's really their problem, because once they hit highschool they have a name and it will stick with them. Then guys will only want them for sex and nothing else. I was 15 when I lost my virginity, but I was in love with the person and I wouldn't trade that moment for the world.
♥ Krissy

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Okay I really love to swim and cheelead but next year I will be a freshman and I will need to chose.. I love both.. but which one would be better for me?? I am 14 and I have a pretty busy life.. my sister is also a cheerleader and she quit swimming.. plz help me out.. but now i got to go to 7th hour in school.. thank you..

Kaydee

I'd choose cheerleading. It's a lot of fun and gives you great work outs. You meet a lot of new people and become friends with everyone. A lot of younger people start looking up to you and always want to be like that girl who cheerleads. Since your sister cheerleads, you could always cheerlead together around the house. She could even teach you new things and stuff that could make you a better cheerleader. It would even make you and your sisters bond better!
♥ Krissy

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Hey,
well ive liked this guy for a long time now, and i heard he likes me to but hes gone out with a couple of girls...
now its like hes been ignoring me and i told my friend and she asked him and he said its cuz i was ignoring him...
but he said that he likes this girl danielle.
so what should i do?
i realli like him...

Since you like this boy and he likes you, don't give up on him. I think you should tell him yourself that you like him. When you tell a boy you like him yourself, it shows them that you really do mean it. Once you tell him you like him, ask him if he feels the same way. Explain to him how he makes you feel and ask if he'd like to go on a date with you sometime.
♥ Krissy

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one of my friends asked the guy i like if he likes me and he said he doesn't know and he likes a lot of people. so when he says he doesn't kno...does that really mean "No but i'm not gonna say it"?? thanx! i rate high

It depends on the guy. But since he does like other girls, it could be meaning no, but he won't say it. You never know though. He could really not know because he doesn't really know you that good. Maybe you should try talking to him yourself and asking him about this all. Since you really like him, you should find out for yourself. He does sound like a little player, just because he's crushing on a lot of girls at once. You should try finding a new crush, one that will like you back and won't be liking other girls at the same time.
♥ Krissy

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How do u get a girl to kiss you? Or find out if she wants you to kiss her? or let her know that u want her to kiss you or be kissed by u?

Thnx 4 da help!

You'll know if she wants to kiss you by her body language. If she tends to lean close to you a lot and she's giving you a lot of eye contact, that could mean someone. You could always just lean in and kiss her, or you could do it a cuter way. Just take her by the hand and ask if you could kiss her.
♥ Krissy

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i was rated a 5 like 4 times in a row and my rating stayed at 4.86 What happened?

It takes a lot more 5's to put your rating up. It could also be that you haven't been rated in the last 30 days, so your rating stays the same or goes down. Or other ratings could have got knocked off, so your rating would go down a little bit. If you want your rating to be up there again, give loads of good advice and people will rate you!
♥ Krissy

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what are some good yearbook signatures? its gettin to that time of year and i dont wanna just sign my name!

Tell the person how nice they are and how great it was getting to know them. Write down everything that you enjoy about this person. Maybe write some funny times you both had together, so it will make her/him laugh. Then put your phone number and tell them to give you a call. End it with a little heart, or love you and your name.
♥ Krissy

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OK, im 15, and I am sexually active. OK, dont lecture me about it I know its wrong. Trust me, I get enough of it from my friends. But I accidently cummed on my favorite shirt.... dont ask... and my mom keeps asking why i dont wear it anymore. I dont know how to get it off... and I cant tell her. And the laundry guy only accepts from 18 yr olds and older. What should I do?


I have no clue how you can get cum out of a shirt. Maybe you could try washing it while your mom is gone out somewhere. Take it to the bathroom with you while your having a shower and rub soap on it and wash it off. Then just leave it air dry in your room. Or you could always go buy the same shirt and burn the other one.
♥ Krissy

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does photobucket eventually delete your pitures or your account after a certain amount of time if you dont pay?

Yes, they do delete your pictures if you don't log in or update in a month or so. This happened to my account and it's really annoying. You should always have a back up account.
♥ Krissy

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does anyone have any quotes about life or things like that to put in infos?

http://www.holliesquotes.com/ it's an awesome site, with loads of quotes. Lots of life ones also.
♥ Krissy

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s.

Yes, it's alright to have sex while your on your period, even though it's a little messy and gross. If you have sex while on your period there's no chance of getting pregnant. So I guess it has it's pros and cons.
♥ Krissy

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