about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

I heard that gatorade is really bad for your teeth and like rots them or somthing is that true??

No it isn't. Soda is bad for your teeth because it has a lot of sugar. Gatorade doesn't have much sugar.

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I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :)

Since you guys haven't been going out for long, the best thing to get him would be cologne or just something he likes. A CD, DVD's. If he is into sports buy him something like that. I'm sure you'll think of something. Christmas is more than a month away.

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my friends and i alwayss hang out together. thing is, i kind of want to have some alone time with my one guy friend, if you know what im sayin. how could i go about hinting this to him?

Just tell your friend that. It's really not a big deal and I don't think she would mind it. I mean you guys always hang out, so just tell her that you'd like to spend some time with him.

♥

When you are talking to him just ask him " Heyy, wanna come over and watch a movie?" or just ask him to go somewhere with you and hang out.

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ok this is a riddle that most of my friends dont get, i do know the awncer and ill give it to you o the feed back! easy 5!

What get's wetter,
The more it dries?

Oh my gosh, I suck at these things lol but I like to figure them out.

Paper? Paper towel? Or just a bath towel??

hearts;

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I have asked one of the q's but see the prob is as some of you kno there is this guy who likes me but I dont kno If i like him or no
he is nice but sorta ugly and sorta cute.

Ah, I've been in your position before. I wasn't sure if I liked someone but I only thought that because I really liked him personality. The thing is, you really need to get to kno him better. Picture you being with him. Like boyfriend and girlfriend. How would you feel about him and that whole situation. Just ask yourself questions and question your feelings. Talk to him more and get to know him. Just because he doesn't look gorgeous, doesn't mean that his personality and his other qualities aren't good. Ask him to hang out, flirt with him. Sooner or later you will figure this whole time. There is no rush. Good luck hun!

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Hi!

I would like to know having sex how many times a day, is healthy...

Thanks.

With warm regards,

Udhay.

I wouldn't really say it "healthy" but you can do it as many times you want. I'd say 2 or 3 times a day is plenty. It burns calories and it makes you feel good so that's the good thing about sex.

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my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend

It's okay to like someone else, but I mean come on. Would you like if someone you liked broke up with you on your birthday?? I don't think you would like that very much. If you did that to him it would hurt his feelings and it's really mean and I don't think that you are like that. Make sure that you really want to break up with him because you might regret it. Do you even know if his best friend likes you? Sometimes best friends won't go out with their ex's but you never know. Eather break up with him after his birthday or before. Good luck with everything.

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Okay, I have this REALLY good riddle that 80% of kindergarteners got compared to 17% of senior COLLEGE students... I know the answer, too!!
(And they all have the same answer)

What is greater than God?
More evil than the devil?
The rich need it
The poor have it
And if you eat it, you'll die!!


Answer me, or guess, and I'll post the answer on your feedback!

I know people said nothing but that's what I thought. We tried this at school but I wasn't sure. Am I right???

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When someone says you are a push over...what do they mean?

It means that anyone can take advantige of you and you will easily do anything.

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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

Making love is the more proper way of saying it. It's basiclly when the 2 people are so in love and that is what they want to do. Sex is just sex. Basiclly with no meaning. ♥

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mmkay, you're problly thinking that i could answer this myself. and i thought i could as well, but.. lets start off by saying- everyday i keep thinking every second about what im going to eat.. im around 5'4 (it depends) and i weigh various.. sometimes its 150 and others its 158. i know im overweight but my friends (who are very supporitive) tell me im "skinny" and i know they have to be just saying that... i'd be SO much more happy w/ myself and be a lot more carefree if i were skinny. i thought i could work out everyday for an hour and a half and instead of snacking of junk- snack on fruits that i like... and also by doing 100 sit-ups a day... i have been wanting to do that for a month but i never have.. AHHH! im so frusterated.... please help.

I think that you might be addicted to food. The best thing to do is go to a nutritionist. They will figure everything out. Like what foods you need to cut out and they will give you a diet plan. Talk to your parents about it and ask if that would be okay. It's a really good idea though. You need to stick with this. The reason you aren't losing weight is because you get bored and you don't feel like doing it. Instead of drinking a soda, take water. When you want to snack, make a salad. You have to try and do that and once you get used to eating healthier it will be much easier. Excersising doesn't have to be boring or hard. Have a friend over and go out for a walk. Run around, play with your dog ( if you have one. ) Good luck with everything!

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My past relationship hurt me so bad, that all I want to do know is be cool with everyone. The only thing is a lot of boys want to go with me and I want to talk to them but everytime I think about the hurt that this last boy caused me that I don't want to go through it again. Can someone help me think of ways to get over it. Thank YOu

I know how that feels, because that's the same problem with me. You don't need to start dating again. At least not until you are ready for a new relationship. You will always be scared to get your heart broken and I think majority of girls feel that way. A lot of us go through bad break up's and are scared for a new relationship. You need to remember that not every guy will hurt you and not every guy can make it perfect. Right now, you shouldn't be looking for ways to get over it. You shouldn't have to. Whenever you are ready to go out with someone new then go for it. It's okay to be scared and worryed for yourself but you have to give these guys a chance. Make sure you know them before you go out with one. You'll be okay. Good luck =)

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I have a great boyfriend and all. But I have this one problem, I can't seem to hold a good conversation with him.. What could I talk about.

thnx. =)

You just have to keep thinking of sobject. Ask him what he is doing on the weekend & ask him things you don't know about. Guys love talking about sports but that might be boring to you. You should also tell him to start conversations and start to open up more.

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I see alot of people put theire e mail and IM stuff on theire collumn, but do these people realy like to get emails from people on this site?

I took my e-mail off because I hate getting questions there. I mean it you REALLY need to contact me, e-mail is not the best way. I hardly EVER check it lol.

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How do you get different backrounds on your page? what are the exact websites to go to and where do u put them from there like in your column settings or w/e ? thanx!!

I'm sorry but I don't have any websites. If you go to google and type in backgrounds, you will find plenty.

I get ALL of my backgrounds from xanga layouts. Then I put them in my photobucket and I get the URL. Go to Column Settings and then paste that code where it says Background. You can also use tiny pic. If you haven't signed up, it's free.

You should of read my bio because I wrote a specific thing about people asking me questions about backgrounds. I'm not trying to be mean, but I usually reject these questions.

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please help me! I am looking at my vaines right now and I just want to take a blade and trace them all the way up my arm! I am so depressed and I really need someone to talk to that im not afraid will judge me!
PLEASE HELP ME!
EMAIL ME ANYTHING OR LEAVE ME ADVICE PLEASE

email - pink_lip_gloss91@hotmail.com

Look, being depressed is the way you let yourself get. You should try to change that. You will only get one life so why waste it? Life it to the fullest even if you have some ups and downs. It's not worth hurting yourself and don't do it. It is a big regret in your life.

If you need to talk or anymore questions, leave them in my inbox or IM me on AIM.

Screen name; tRagIc gLamouR 3

tEza2565@yahoo.com is my e-mail but I usually talk on AIM.

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so me and my boyfreind have been going out about a month and i need some new ideas for things to do, i mean watching movies, going to the movies, and the mall are okay, but they get old. do you have any ideas for some fun creative things to do, especially becuase my school has a whole week off next week and over xmas break, i really just dont want him to get bored with me! thanks

Go ice skating or anything that has to do with skating, bowling, parties, lazor tag. Where ever you guys live and where ever you haven't been to yet just go there with your friends. It'll be fun when you guys are together.

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what are some exercises to help get rid of, or at least tone, love handles?

Go to this website

http://www.toneteen.com/pages/fitness.htm

It has all the exercises for every part of your body. It helps. Make sure you cut back on junk food and eat healthier. It will help you loose the extra fat.

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my 8th grade graduation is at the end of this year ...ive been looking for songs i found a few the class might like but if you have any you think fit to a 8th grade graduation that would be really helpful ill rate high for some good ones ...thanksss

They usually play a song called Friends Forever by Vitamin C at all graduations.

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I have fat thighs. My stomach is not TOTALLY overweighting with fat, but it's got a little above my belly button area. How can I work on getting my thighs skinner? And DO NOT tell me www.am-i-fat.com because I've already went there, and I am 130 pounds and 5'5 and it says im perfect. I just want my thighs to be skinnier

http://www.toneteen.com/exercises/legs.htm

Go there.

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