my boyfriends bestfriend and i was hanging out yeaterday, and my boyfriend does not even know and i want to keep it that way any ways we were flirting all day and i know it's really wrong to and he does too but when we flirt it's like we're donig the right thing but it's wrong. im going to hang out with him again and i wondering would i be wrong if i break up with him on his birthday and flirt with his best friend
Miss_Jvl_2005 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 5:48 pm: ok if i was you i WOULD NOT break up with him on his birthday because i mean would you like that if somebody did that to you? I dont think you would i know i wouldnt...so wait a few days after his birthday and then break up with him (IF THATS WHAT YOU REALLY WANT) but sit down and take the time to think about this and make sure this is what you want and make sure you're going to be happy this way because if not then its a waiste of time...I think that it is wrong for you to be hanging out with his bestfriend without him knowing it to...talking on the phone with him would be ok i guess but going out and flirting with him and stuff thats kinda wrong...but if you're wanting to go out with his bestfriend then wait awhile before you date him because that would hurt your boyfriends feelings BAD so wait alittle bit...hope this helps you out
your friend,
Jess [ Miss_Jvl_2005's advice column | Ask Miss_Jvl_2005 A Question ]
xjUiCyx answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:53 pm: aw yeah that would be so mean to break up with your bf on his birthday and then go after his best friend! you obviously dont like your bf very much if your flirting with his best friend and lying to him. and i dont think you should hang out with his best friend while ur going out with him cause its rong especially since he doesnt know. if you dont like your bf then yes you should dump him cause its not fair to him but dont do it on his birthday! and dont go after his best friend right away you should wate a little while atleast [ xjUiCyx's advice column | Ask xjUiCyx A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:28 pm: It's okay to like someone else, but I mean come on. Would you like if someone you liked broke up with you on your birthday?? I don't think you would like that very much. If you did that to him it would hurt his feelings and it's really mean and I don't think that you are like that. Make sure that you really want to break up with him because you might regret it. Do you even know if his best friend likes you? Sometimes best friends won't go out with their ex's but you never know. Eather break up with him after his birthday or before. Good luck with everything. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:10 pm: Hey hun!
I don't think you should break up with him on his birthday. He'd hate that, it'd make him really upset. If your going to break up with him, just do it before his birthday if you can at all, or after his birthday. You wanna be able to stay friends with him right? If you broke up with him on his birthday, he most likely wouldn't wanna talk to you anymore. Wait a while to break up with him, and when you do be completely honest with him. It should be alright. As for flirting with his best friend, you shouldn't really do that until you break up with your boyfriend. If your boyfriend saw you two flirting, that'd get him very pissed since that is his best friend. Everyone flirts though, so if you'd like to go ahead!!!! It should be okay to do that. Just don't flirt with him in front of your boyfriend right now. Alright, I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. <3 KiMmY [ PrEtTyKiTtY0428's advice column | Ask PrEtTyKiTtY0428 A Question ]
rainbowNsunshine91 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:03 pm: Come on now, on his BIRTHDAY?!?!?! On his SPECIAL DAY? Have a heart! At least wait a few weeks AFTER his birthday and then find a reason to break up with him other than I LIKE TO FLIRT WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND!!!!!!! If you don't like my advice, o well... What you are thinking about doing is wrong! Keeping stuff from your BF and then flirting with his BFF.... [ rainbowNsunshine91's advice column | Ask rainbowNsunshine91 A Question ]
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