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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Okay my little sister asbolutely refuses to go to school she wants to drop out thing is shes not 16 is there anyway she can drop out before shes 16? My parents and I have tryed everything even bribing her to go to school and it doesnt work. So is there anyway she can drop out before shes 16? If so please explain in details. Im really worried for my sister and its hurting my parents bad because they dont want to get in trouble. Thanks!

She can't drop out at the age of 16 or below. People are only allowed to drop out on their own after the age of 16. It could be different where you live though. Maybe you could try researching about people that drop out of school when they're young. How they end up not going to college or having a good paying job and such. Maybe once she realizes that dropping out of school will screw up her life, she won't want to.
♥ Krissy

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ok, i am in love with a beautiful girl. but i love her for her personality and the way she asks and shes just perfect! i would like do anything she asked and would take a shot for her. but then comes the problem. i moved to africa about 6 weeks ago. i wake up at like 3 am every morning to talk to her but this move is still breakin my heart. i never actually go the chance to ask her out be for i moved cause i new it would make it all more painful for her. so my questions are, what should i do about this move because i'm goin to give her up and second, i wanna ask her how she feels about me but i dont wanna ask cause idk how she'ld react. i'll rate if u show me you gave this sum thought...

You have to tell this girl that your crushing on her and you have to tell her everything your feeling. You never know, she could be feeling the same way and doesn't want to say anything because she think's it'll be hard on her. I think you should write her an e-mail explaining to her why you like her and what you like about her. Don't just pass feelings like this by. Then maybe once you get everything out in the open, she'll explain her feelings towards you. You never know what may happen!
♥ Krissy

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the starlightmks one --- i have music and a cursor

For the music: Find the song you'd like to have. Copy the "Regular Code". You have to use a different way to copy these. It can be done by pressing the button that says "Ctrl" on your keyboared, while you are holding down the "C" and "X" button. For the cursor: Find the one that you'd like to have. Copy the code that is in the little box, below the picture of the cursor. How to add in your column: Click on "Profile Settings", scroll down and paste the code(s) into the "Describe yourself" section.
♥ Krissy

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im the one that asked that song ? but once you get it ... how do you put it on your column and also, how do you add cursors once you get them?

It depends on what website you took the song from. Tell me the website and I'll tell you how to do everything =)
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how do you get cool songs on your column?

Mod's really don't like it when people have music on their column. But you can get music from these sites: http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html, http://www.mididb.com/
♥ Krissy

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hey everyone i was just wondering, because this guy liked me before and now he doesn't. he says i'm boring. i think he only liked me before was because he didn't know me, now he kinda does and doesn't like you. how do i get him to want me/like me? he knows i like him and he told me he doesn't like me like that, but we could do stuff. i want for him to regret not asking me out. how do i do that? thanks in ad advance! i rate good. any tips are good!

You can't make someone like you. If he doesn't like you, it's his lost and I think you should try to forget about him and move on. He had the chance to be with you, but he gave it up. He moved on and so should you. Don't do anything with this boy. (Fooling around and such). It'll just make you fall more for this guy and you'll be heart broken. It looks like he just wants you for skin. Or he wouldn't have said he didn't like you anymore, but you guys could always fool around. He doesn't sound like a good guy to be with. Try to forget about him. You're worth so much more then this guy.
♥ Krissy

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well i like this guy people think hes a geek but i don't know why. well he is really smart like he loves to read and stuff hes not popular but i am and people have found out that i like him and there laughing at me. i really like him and i could really care less what people think but i just don't want to loose my friend over something like this( that is if we start to go out) i am 13 years old an i'm a girl. please tell me if i should go out with him or just try to forget about him and keep my reputation. thanks a lot!

Okay. Think about this. Is your friend really being a true friend? She should accept you for who you are and who you like. She shouldn't want to leave your friendship just because you like a "nerdy" guy that isn't popular, like yourself. If you like this guy, go for it. And if your friend leaves you because of this guy, she isn't really a good friend in the first place.
♥ Krissy

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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!!

No, this isn't wrong at all hun. A lot of girls your age go through the "experiment" stage where they want to try new things. It's perfectly fine.
♥ Krissy

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how long do you think me and my gf should start kissing? 2 monthes 3...?

It really depends on the person and how ready they are. Some people start kissing when they only be together for a week, while others only start kissing on the 1st or 2nd month of their relationship. You should really talk to your girlfriend about this and see when she'd be comfortable kissing you!
♥ Krissy

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MY friend ask me to have a sleepover with her this Friday. But my other friend is getting her tonsules out on friday and wants me to go over to her house on friday what do i do?

I think you should be there for your friend that is getting her tonsules out. She must be really scared and she'll feel much more safe having someone by her side. Just tell your other friend the truth about not sleeping over. I'm sure she'll understand. And don't worry, there will be more sleepovers to go to. Maybe she can change it till Saturday?
♥ Krissy

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what do you say to a guy when you want them to fall in love with you?.. irate 5s.

There's nothing you can do to make him fall in love with you, just like that. But there are ways that you can get him crushing on you and such. Number one thing is to be yourself. Never be someone your not. Always flirt with him and make loads of eye contact. Laugh at all his silly jokes and always be there for him. If you see him in the hallway at school or hanging around out side of school, smile and wave. Try getting his phone number or screen name. Talk to him on there and see where this takes you!
♥ Krissy

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Just got this email:

From : daniel soglo
Sent : Monday, March 7, 2005 7:08 AM
To : tinkerbell_7141@msn.com
Subject : I AWAITS YOUR URGENT RESPONSE.

FROM DR DANIEL SOGLO.
AUDITING AND ACCOUNTING UNIT.
FOREIGN OPERATIONS DEPARTMENT.
INTERNATIONAL COMMERCIAL BANK.
ACCRA-GHANA.
+233 243471860

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section of INTERNATIONAL COMMERCIAL BANK in ACCRA-BANK with due respect and regards.

I have decided to contact you on a business
transaction that will be very beneficial to both of us at the end of the transaction. We had a foreign client DR H. PAUL JACOBI who deposited a huge sum of money (US$2 million) with our bank. Eventually, this client was among the victims of EGYPT AIR BOEING 767 FLIGHT NO.990 that crashed on the 31-10-1999 in U.S.A but, since then we have not had any body coming for the claims as the next of kin. A sitaution I have monitored closely with my position in the bank.

Now, having monitored this deposit over the years
after his death, and hence nobody has showed up as the next of kin for the past three and half years, I have moved the file to my private volt. I now solicit for your assistance to present you as the next of kin as every other arrangement has being concluded by me and I am only waiting for a foreigner to enable me move the fund to his account. This does not have any risk attached to it as all the internal documentations will
be handled by me.

I therefore request you to confirm your interest by a return message and I will furnish you with details. Your interest will be negotiable before we commence the project.I look forward to hearing from you. Remain Bless.

Yours Faithfully.
DR DANIEL SOGLO.
+233 243471860


...What to do? I know it's a scam, but how should I reply?

Don't reply to this at all hun, it's a total scam. Delete this e-mail. If this girl/guy keeps e-mailing you stuff like this, keep deleteing it and don't open it. If he/she doesn't stop after a week or two, contact your local police.
♥ Krissy

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i was messaging my guy friend today and teasing him about liking this chick i know. (he used to like her) he's like "i dont like her. i like another girl but i know she doesn't like me." i was like "ooooh who is it? whats she like? how do you know she doesn't like you?" he wrote back "she's amazing and wonderful in every way. i know he doesn't like me... coz it's you, babe." i was like OMG i SO dont like him that way. what do i do???

Just tell him that you don't have any feelings for him. You just rather be friends right him right now. You don't want to hurt him but you can't make yourself like him. Tell him that you want to be friends for now. And if it's ment to be, it'll come around again. Boy you and him, liking eachother at the sametime.
♥ Krissy

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I was wanting to know if maybe anyone had a couple of websites that have music to provide for your own columns and websites. Thank you, fives will be rated to those who actually answer the question.

http://www.mididb.com/ , http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html
♥ Krissy

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how do you treat a nice boyfriend ..i never really liked any of my past bf's because they were all fags but this one i do and im like un prepared and don't know what too do.. could you help with that and also like to keep a relationship going.. and we havent done anythin much yet but how do you know when someone is only using you.. thanks

Treat your boyfriend like gold. Always be there for him when he wants to talk, cuddle with him, give him kisses and hugs, take him out places, go to the park with him, movies, parties, always tell him what a good boyfriend he is and how much he means to you, talk to him about your problems, always tell him cute things and how hot/sexy he looks, laugh at all his jokes, etc. You'll know he's using you when all he wants to do is stuff that is sexual, when he doesn't call you for weeks on end and when you finally do see him all he wants is to kiss you, etc. You don't have to worry about him using you if you haven't done anything with him yet, don't worry about that. Just have fun with him while he's your boyfriend. Enjoy the time your spending with him.
♥ Krissy

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There is this guy I met that doesnt go to my school but I know who he is, his name is Jordan. And well he is like the hottest guy on this planet and well. I don't think that he likes me, and I don't even know if he even knows me because I have never talked to him, I just seen him at my basketball tournament. ANd well I really like him and I want to ask him out. Do you think that I should get to know this guy and ask him out or just ask him out? And how would I ask him out?
Who ever answers my question I will give them a rating of 5. Thanks a lot.

I think you should get to know him a little better. Maybe try getting his phone number and asking him to a movie or something. Once you feel like you know him better then you have before, ask him out. Simply tell him how much you like him and how you really want to be there. Explain your feelings from there and see where it takes you.
♥ Krissy

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ok i saw hitch today and it made me think even more of him! i just can't stop thinking of him. its driving me insane too. what should i do... i mean i really like him but im shy, i think hes shy too but i mean is it crazy that i think of him like evey second?
PLZ HELP! i rate high
*me

It sounds like your mad crushing on this guy, to the point where you're going to fall in love. I think you should really do something about this. Since both you and him are shy, maybe try writing him an e-mail or letter explaining how much you like him. But hun, don't give up a chance like this. You never know. He might feel the same way about you and he's too shy to say something. So go for it and take the chance. He might be a really awesome guy to be with.
♥ Krissy

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Im 17 and this is really embarassing but, I havent had my period yet. I feel ashamed and worried that something is wrong ! Im a virgin, if that matters that much. Im so worried & i feel bad because I tell my friends I have it, and I even use pads hoping it will come. Whats wrong with me? I need to know what to do!

There's nothing wrong with you at all hun. My friend only started her period when she was 18. Give it time and it'll come. If you feel like something is wrong, go to the doctor.
♥ Krissy

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ok i have this boyfriend ( im a female and hes a male, im 13 he's 14) we have been together for 3 months now and when we first met it was like love at first site.. is it too young to be in love.. he always calls me and he isnt like one of those guys is totally in the relationship for sex or anything like that..he likes me for who i am and he always says i love you, he is so sweet and if finds out that some guy has been messin with me (sexually, phisically, ect.) he finds them and warns them that if it ever happens again that something will happen to them.. is it love? can u fall in love at this age?

It could be love hun. If you find yourself always thinking about him, missing him while he's not around, always wanting to be with him and getting them crazy butterflies when he looks/talks to you, then it's love. It's not too young to be in love at all. Love comes to people at different ages. You're lucky to find it and since you have it, hang on to this boy! He sounds like a great person.
♥ Krissy

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The most popular girl in school (i was O.K friends with her) moved to Arizona (i'm in Virginia) and I am happY! SOOO HAPPY! Cause i like being the center of attention. All my bestfriends are sad though, because they liked her! I didn't really though! Is it wrong to be glad???? Cause I feel really bad.

Since you weren't really good friends with this girl, then no it's not wrong that you're glad she's gone. It's not like she's died, so really there's no point in you being down. She only moved and I'm sure your best friends will get over it, sooner or later.
♥ Krissy

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