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story of a lonely guy
ok, i am in love with a beautiful girl. but i love her for her personality and the way she asks and shes just perfect! i would like do anything she asked and would take a shot for her. but then comes the problem. i moved to africa about 6 weeks ago. i wake up at like 3 am every morning to talk to her but this move is still breakin my heart. i never actually go the chance to ask her out be for i moved cause i new it would make it all more painful for her. so my questions are, what should i do about this move because i'm goin to give her up and second, i wanna ask her how she feels about me but i dont wanna ask cause idk how she'ld react. i'll rate if u show me you gave this sum thought...
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If you choose to give her up, let her go slowly but you can always say that you just want to be friends because that can make it easier on you both.
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i heard africa has bad tasting food...... move back before you become anorexia from the food (we had a culture party in school about africa and people brought in food that tasted like shit) thats if your wondering
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Long distant relationships are hard. You're going to break her heart more if you keep telling her how much you like her. Just tell her you don't want anything with her, and that'll cause her to feel no pain. If you're in Africa and she's not, then there is going to be a lot of hurt on her part. So, I believe the thing to do is let her go. I know it'll hurt, and I know you love her, but probably keeping her as a friend would be best-for now. You never know if you'll move back or something, so just keep her as a friend, and let her know you'll always be there for her.
Megan
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well, I think you tell her that you would like to write her and see if she will write you back. Don't go telling her how much you love her or anything at this point. You are both to young for one thing and you will scare her off for another.If she's bright she will figure that out anyway through your letters.You may be able to talk online too.Remain friends but don't be obcessed about it,okay? Who knows what future holds....just keep in touch with each other and see what happens.
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So how would she react? You say you know but it may help us give you advice if you clued us in as well.
OK, I'm not trying to be dismissive or anything but at 14, you shouldn't even be thinking about changing your plans or the country you live in because of this girl. You are in love and it seems like this is the one great love of your life. Trust me, it almost certainly isn't. Everyone feels like that about people they fall for when they are 14. But how many couples do you know that are in their 30's that started out when they were 14? Most people would expect to have a few significant relationships in their lives. So don't go turning your life upside down over the first one at 14. Just relax.
Besides, if things are really meant to be, you will bump into her somewhere 5 years from now and it will all work out. More likely you wont and both of you will have great lives with other people. Cest la vie.
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Why is every1 moving to Africa? l0l sorrie but anyways. Since you moved it is really hard for you guys to be in a relationship. Just keep talking to her everyday and then one day just let her know how you feel! Tell her that you really like her and that you miss her and stuff. Im sure she would feel he same way. Maybe on vacations you could go visit her or something. x0
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WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING IN AFRICA!?
dude, just wing it and speak from the heart. give her this web address and have her read it, she might like it that you are a dude who ask for help(its apparently a turn-on). try your luck, it just might work.
-hitler
-get back to me on what posessed you to move to africa. are you a missionary?
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you buy flowers, then a plane ticket. you fly down to where she lives and show up at her doorstep..you confess your love, tell her what you did, and then realize you havent given her the flowers. you then laugh at yourself (act embarassed) and say something corny like "i guess i bought them too early." did i mention you should either wear a tux and show up before like a school dance, or just show up in normal clothes when her parents arent home. its a long shot but if you can pull it off i bet shell not only sleep with you but shell marry you too.
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ummm well yeah africa is really far away. well its not your fault that you moved and well long distance relation ships don't work i should know i've had enough of them. yall sound more like best friends. i think you should ask her how she feels about you but if she likes you and you like her then what are you going to do? like i said long distance doesn't work for everyone but it may work for you. hope i helped. sorry if i didn't.
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You have to tell this girl that your crushing on her and you have to tell her everything your feeling. You never know, she could be feeling the same way and doesn't want to say anything because she think's it'll be hard on her. I think you should write her an e-mail explaining to her why you like her and what you like about her. Don't just pass feelings like this by. Then maybe once you get everything out in the open, she'll explain her feelings towards you. You never know what may happen!
♥ Krissy
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