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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

About two weeks ago my boy friend and i were fooling around and he starting fingering me..before that he had fingered me he had been handeling his dick very briefly, is it possible that there was enough cum on his hand to get me pregnant? Thanks. *i'm almost positive that he didn't have any on his hands though, but just in case*

There is a very rare posibility that you are pregnant. There wasn't enough sperm to cause that. Don't worry though. Just make sure he washes his hands next time.

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Aw, I freaking love that picture! But the one in your cammar and u have your hair all down is my fav. I cant freakin wait till you get your batteries or w.e lol, And tonight`s gonna be a blasT !! Don`t worry, I`m going.. where ever I got the party starts . FREAK YEAH! Hahahah lmao, well love ya lots, my hommie gee! PEACE!

Selma, you're such a kidder. I told you this was my worst picture, but that one that you like.. haha I hate it! I was so mad when my camera went dead. =( I have to get new batteries for tonight anyways. Can't wait until tonight eather. You better behave =) Love ya!! Peace out mah g.

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Ok. If ANY of you guys have been paying attention you might have ehrd a similar question. But I am asking this again because I didn't get alot of responces. Ok...

Ok I still LOVE my ex boyfriend. Yeah he is single and I 'sorta' think he likes me. Here is why.. When we talk he jokes with me, he will make stupid remarks to make me laugh, when I was at the ball game the other night (he plays basketball) he kept starin at me and showing off. And when It was over he came up to me and Sais "are you cold?" and I was like "yeah" and he smiled and left. soooo.....

Those are signs that he still likes you. It's very common to like your ex. I think you should talk to him a lot more and then if you guys are ever on that subject, just ask him. He defenetlly likes you and still cares about you.

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I guess you could say that i am prude...but I have made out with a guy and he has felt me up, but I am really scared to be in a situation where he wants to finger me or he wants me to give him a handjob,or do anything else for that matter.(he is my boyfriend) I just think it would be awkward and i dont know what im doing when it comes to sexual stuff. can u jus give me advice on what to do if the times comes? Sorry so long...i rate high

Being scared & not ready is normal. If you ever don't want to do anything, make sure you feel comftrable saying no. I'll tell you how to do these things but if you don't want to do them don't.

Making out- You already know how. Since you're still young, I'd stop right there.

Fingering- You don't really have to do anything, it's all on him. Make sure you're comftrable with it though.

Blowjob/head- This should be something you do after you guys have been going out for a while. I'm sure you know that all you do is suck his dick. First you rub & then grab his penis and began going faster. Then put your mouth around it and swirl your tounge around the tip of the head and start deep throating it while still sucking and rubbing in circular motions ( If you play with his balls, he would enjoy that as well. It may sound complicated but once you get it, its fine! That's just hot to do it.

The last step would be sex. If I were you, I wouldn't go there just yet.

Good luck with everything.

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ok so i have liked this guy at school for like ever and earlier this week he asked me out and i said yes of course! Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out. He is really starting to confuse me what should I do?

So he told evryone you were going out? If he did then that's good. He is glad to be with you. Guys are unpredictable, so you never know why they are doing the things they do. I mean it's only been a little while since he asked you out, so give it some time. You guys have to get comftrable with each other first. If it's really starting to bother you, ask him what's going on. I don't think it's anything serious though, so just talk to him.

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whats a diaphram? or how ever you spell them.

Do you mean diaphragm? I know 2 meanings of it, but I'm not sure which one you need. It's a thin disk and it also means separation.

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guys are always whispering to each others "those are so fake" everytime i walk by them.. they all think im hot.. but are they just saying my boobs are fake cause they really do think that or just because they want me to prove to them that they are real??

The guys that say that do think they are but they also want you to proove to them they aren't. They also might like them, but don't worry about what they think. At least you know they aren't. ;)

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im a 14/f ok, theres this guy that i like and that likes me. but...my freind also likes him and he likes her too but she has a bf so they dont have a chance of hooking up. would it be wrong if me and him hooked up..i mean with my freind liking him and all even tho she has a bf. i need advice fast. all thoughts are appreciated. thnx p.s. (( ill rate 5))

Before you get together with him, you need to talk to her. Ask her if she would be mad if you and him went out? After all, she does have a boyfriend and you deserve to be happy. Do whatever you think is right. If you think it will mess your friendship with her, don't do it because friends come first. Good luck!! ♥

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Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?

I don't think it's weird at all. A lot of girls have a different style. Boy clothes are just more comftrable and there is nothing wrong with that. ♥

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im wanting to help my partner lose weight because i'm worried about his health.
I'm not a cook so i need some simple recipes that i can cook and that are healthy.
if you know of any please can you give me the ingredients and method. thank you

http://www.foodfit.com/search/advanced_recipe_search.asp

Go to that website. Check all the things you want in the recepie and it will give you tons.

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well i love changing my hair up and i have 2 ideas... i wanted to know which coloring style you all think is cuter~ the first one is having like a lighter color with lowlights. i have naturally reddish hair, so i'm thinking probably having the top layer a light strawberry blondish color, and having the bottom layer and auburn color. ~ the second idea is to do it kind of like aubrey's from making the band 3 on mtv (for those of you who know what i'm talking about) except with the other colors in the first idea so that it would be mostly auburn with a light strawberry blondish streak or whatever you want to call it in front. i can't decide which idea would be better... please give me any advice you got! thanks!

My opinion would be the first one. I think it would look really adorable in your hair. I also love the second choice, but you should do whichever one you feel like you LOVE and then do it. If you don't like it, you can always change it back. ;) Eather way, I'm sure you will look gorgeous. ♥

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Their are these two guys and their constantly fighting over me and their really good friends with me and my friends and also good friends with each other and it's always justc been a joke to me and my friends how they act around me but now it's gone to far they got into a fight over me and ever since they havn't been friends and I feel so bad that I caused it. They got suspended because of the fight but when they got back both of them tryed even harder to get me and started flirting way more with me and I dont know what to do because I like both of them more than friends and I know they wont be okay with me dating both of them.

Even though you think you like them both more then a friend, deep down you like one more then another. ;) You have to figure that out though. To make it easier, make a list of things you like about them. It might sound cheesy or stupid, but sometimes it comes to that point where you have to do it. Write down qualities, personality traits.. thing like that. Not to sound mean, but they are being very immature and stupid about this. They are acting like it's some kind of competition to see who will get you first. They both like you and that's fine, but having them fighting and trying to kill each other had gotten out of hand. You need to talk to them. Like seriously. They need you to tell them that they need to stop and that whatever they are doing is not right. You don't like it and you want them to stop. Tell them that if you do go out with one, that they shouldn't be mad or anything because it's really up to you. For now try to make them be friends. If they don't want to be, there isn't anything else I could say. It's really their problem and they will learn to grow up.

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I'm not fat but I would feel much better about myself and more confident if I was skinnier, what are some good ways to lose weight, i'm already in soccer and bearly eating anything, but i'm not losing weight.

The key to loosing weight = exercise & eating healthy.

You might think it's really hard, but if you put your mind to it, trust me you'll get the hang of it.

Do not starve yourself. If you don't eat for a while and then take a sandwich you will actually gain weight. You can eat foods that are good for you, but low in fat. Such as, fruits & vegtables. I know what everyone thinks of when people say that. Yuck! But seriously, if you make dishes that you think are yummy then yay! When you want to eat fruits, you can make a smoothie. Without sugar of course.

You can still eat normal food, but don't eat when you're not hungry and eat 3 meals a day. When you want to snack, choose health over fat. ;)

Go to this site. http://www.toneteen.com

There are a bunch of exercises you can do. It tells you what exercises to do for each part of the body.

You have to stick to this to get some results. If you don't, don't be surprised you didn't loose weight. If you are really commited to this talk to your mom about going to a nutritionist.

Good luck ♥

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There are these girls on my soccer team and their really popular and i'm a lot like them but I only started on this soccer team this year but it seems like they just wanna keep the clique their in and dont wanna let anyone else in although if they got to know me I think we could be really good friends what can I do to make them see that?

I'm just like that. I have a hard time letting people into my group of friends. The best thing to do is try to talk to them. When you guys are playing just ask them stuff. Talk to them about things that both of you are interested in. The more you guys see each other and talk, the more comftrable you will be around each other. Give it some time, and I'm sure you guys will become friends.

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i have had one period (in july) and it was at the end of the month. like the very end carrying over into the begining of the next month. i haven't had it since then and now my discharge is kinda brown-ish (gross, right?) and it kinda burns/stings when i wipe... whats wrong w/me???

That's a long time for missing your period. The brownish discharge is your period. Most girls get that at the end of their periods but I'm really not sure why you have it. Do you eat healthy and exercise? Stress, depressing, sickness can also cause people to not get their periods. Talk to your mom and ask if you can go see a doctor. They are the only ones who can tell you exactly what is going on.

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O.k Well my best friend is a total whore... i mean like shes the type like if you have a dick .. shell suck it like after an hour of knowing you.. i confronted her about it like.. why have you changed so much (because she was never like this)The Other night i said some
things to her i maybe shouldnt have said..

but i meant them she told me i was never on her side, and i never helped her through anything meanwhile when she broke uph with her boyfriend i was there, through everything and when other people called her a whore i was there through it allll!!!

Well I Told Her i hoped she got pregnant and, shes a f****** whore, and a slut, and guys only want you for a#$ soo yea, i was pretty mean she was probably crying...

But today i was thinking am i just jealous of her. I mean shes a whore and she gets all the guys she wants, i always thought that if you havent done a lot of stuff with guys they'd want you more, am i wrong... AM I JEALOUS?

I don't think you are jelous at all. Why be jelous of that.

If you think about it, the guys that want her probably want her for what she has to give them. I think you're much better than her. The things you said to her were very truthful even though they seemed harsh.

She is your best friend after all, so I think you should apologize for yelling at her. Just tell her you meant what you said but you defenetly didn't mean to hurt her feelings. Tell her that you miss the old her and you wish things were the same. Good luck with everything!!

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Ok Well theres this Amazingly Gorgeous kid in my 6th period lunch named, Joe and hes soo amazing like i almost passed out the first day i saw him.. no jokee!! and belive me if i think a guy is hitt hes majorly hottt.. because i dont think many r hott.. but moving on...

My friend chelsea is obsessed over himm... and hes always looking over to me and my (girl) friends tables.. soo like yea i looked at him and he looked at me and it was almost like we had a staring contest (laugh out loud) and than his friend like tapped him on the shoulder soo he turned his head..

but my friend Chelsea totally thinks he stares at her all the time.. but hes nott.. and hes in 11th grade and were in 9th soo its like were 14 hes 17 but what ever (laugh Out Loud) we got one of our 11th grade friends to talk to him..For chelsea and the 11th grade friend who was a girl.. never told chelsea what he said but she told me..

She said Chelsea was gross and wear way to much make-up and he'd only go out with her for some "booty".

So Chelseas always tlaking about how hot he was.. yesterday she said she was in love.. i feel soo badd.. i wanna get her mind off this kid because hes not interested.. what do i sayy to her?

You telling her would be a good thing to do and you will be a good friend, but if you tell her that he doesn't like her, she might not belive you and she would probably think that you are jelous.

The best thing to do is have him tell her. He needs to tell her he isn't interested before she gets really attached. Trust me, you never want a friend to be attached to the same guy you like.

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ok 2 questions.. i have guys who stares at me and look away when i look at them... what does that mean.. and i have guys who stare at me and keep on staring when i look at them. what does that one mean.. kthanx ♥

When guys stare at you, they are basicly just checking you out. The guys who look away, they're shy and they don't want to freak you out by staring. The guys who don't look away, aren't shy. Just stare back at `em. ♥

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why do guys think when girls wear sweatpants its hott (at least thats what ive heard)

Some guys do find it hot. It's just their taste. Some guys like it because some girls look decent in them. Makes their butts look bigger, shows tummy, those things. It's weird but it's their personal taste. ♥ ;)

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umm .. ok .. umm .. alot of people have been saying "freakin A" , but i want to avoid looking like a retard and asking what it means .. so could you help??
thankkss

I hear it at my school a lot since all the teachers are soo strict! It's just a slang word for fuc`ing asshole. ♥

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