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i invited my friends over for a special one night and they couldn't all of a sudden attend so basically they ditched my they said they had excuses and were really sorry ... my friend wants me to order pizza this time at my house and hang out! should i bother making another night for us to hang out? and what if they ditch me what should i say??

i don't think you should. i think that you shouldn't make plans with them since they ditched you the first time. OR you could ditch them like they ditched you... thats if you're into revenge...

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Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.?

i heard that the doctors do tell your parents everything you tell them (because they are your parents and have the right to know)... WHILE i heard other times that no, they keep all the information confidential. so im not sure which is correct. i can see why you dont want your mom to know if you are sexually active, i woudlnt either. maybe each doctor does a different thing, im not sure? i think you should find out if they do tell your parents or not. but if they do, hey you have no choice! let me know how it went... im nervous for when i go! =)

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does anyone know how to fade freckles?
.:~*I rate 5's*~:.

you cant fade them but you can prevent them by wearing sunscreen on your face every day. EVERY DAY. whether you go outside or not.

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Ok well I've been sbnowboarding for 2 years now, I'm 14/M. I'm doing ski club at school for the third year now, and I've been renting eqiupment. but this year i want to get my own gear. I definately want to go with burton though. I'm not that good at snowboarding,but I can get down the hill and stuff, I might try doin some tricks this year (nuthin big though). I want soemthing decent for my money. But not too expensive. I was wondering if anybody has any experience witht Burton, I was looking at the Canyon board (I wear a size 12, so i need a wide board, and I don't really want to use elevators), The new Cartel bindings, and the hail boots, if u have any advice on these, or any other suggestions of boards. Please help me out here. Thank u


-Sirna

shaun white snowboards for burton. chYEAAAAH!

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My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help!

that's very nice of you! well my cousin did it and it had to be 10 inches

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Hey im the chick that needed advise on to go over my X's house or not..well i did go over yesterday..he told me he misses me..then he kissed me..well we were making out and i started to feel it wasnt rite..i dont like him anymore but i still wanna be friends with himm..hes like been my bestfriend since we broke up i dont want that to change but i dont like him ne more i dont kno wut i should do? help

you led him on by making out with him. if you feel that its not right, then its not. you need to take a break from him! call him or talk to him online or something.

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im going out with this girl but nothing really seems the same from what we started outwith.who do i know if she still likes me? because i really like her. sometimes she acts cold she sometimes dosent want to talk to me and durring our conversations online i ask 2 many questions and she getts annoyed really fast and i think that she is starting to not like me bacouse woe used to talk every night she'd call me but now she dosent and i dont want to call her bacouse the past 2 weeks shes been really sick and i think that thats the problem can you help me and tell me if she is acting like that bacouse she is sick or beacouse she dont like me anymore

i know this might upset you, but she doesn't seem like she's treating you well. she gets annoyed with you? she never talks to you? she acts cold towards you? i think you should ask her straighforward if she likes you or not, because you guys might need to take a break or something.

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me and my boyfriend...well ex-boyfriend...broke up sunday. he broke up with me, i didn't break up with him. well the first two days after that were really awkward because we were always real good friends. well now he's starting to flirt again and do the same stuff he did right before i found out that he liked me. do you think it's him still having at least a little bit of feelings for me...or flirting to like make me feel bad or something...

yeah, he probably still has feelings for you, but doesn't want a commited relationship. you are really lucky that you guys are still friends, it hardly works out like that!

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Ok, I've had this really annoying virus for like 5 months now.It changed my password to my msn messenger and hotmail and now I can't get into them at all!!I can't even use my anti-virus because it disabled it.Does anyone know how I can get rid of it?

i think theres a way to like wipe out your entire operating system (whatever that means, my friends dad is a computer guy) so i suggest finding someone you know who can clear your entire computer and basically start it over. plus its good to do that anyway to get rid of any other junk on there.

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This is a question for guys..im not redheaded but my friend is..and it seems like she cant get ne guys. Shes real pretty in the face but i was jw..do guys not like red hair or somethin?

i have red hair. and when guys like me, i think they like me for my personality because i think that people think red hair is ugly. and sometimes i get made fun of. so yeah it might be the hair.

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I HAVE THIS WRITING ASSIGNMENT DUE ON TUESDAY & IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT I GET A GOOD GRADE I HAVE TO WRITE A 400 WORD PAPER ABOUT ANYTHING I WUNT PREFERABLY AN ESSAY BUT BASICLLY I NEED A TOPIC CAN ANY1 HELP ME?
~AnThOnY~ M/13

I suggest writing about yourself because YOU know the most. and it's the easiest.

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AriiElLa*

dude just tell your friend to go out with the guy. i know sneaking behind her mom's back is WRONG, but if the mom thinks they're just "friends" they can still hang out right? and if you guys go on group dates no one's gonna know. you guys are 13 just chillax theres gonna be tons of people that you'll be dating in the future and her nazi parents (no offence) are probably gonna hate them all anyway.

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When was 13 i made a terriable mistake...i got pregnant by a 16 year old boy....i though that the boy and i had true fellings together that i could share my bodyh with him....but you see what thatg leed to...i was afraid to tell my mother but i told my sister and she paid for tol get and abortion she still hasnt told my mom and i am paying herf almost all of my allowences to pay her back...ever since thatg day of my abortion i feel like a killer...am i?????pleases help...

i don't support abortion. but at the same time, it's better than bringing a baby into the world to have a bad life. even though i am catholic, i sometimes do support abortion, but if it IS made legal then people will just abuse it and have an abortion every time they get pregnant. it's kind of sad, and i do think of it as murder, but it's better than brining the baby into the world with no stable family.

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i like this boy that goes to my school but one of my went out with him but she is just now tellin me..... i think it is because he is always nice to me and stuff like that but ever time i say something about him she is always like that was my ex-boo and i be gettin mad because i think that she don't want me to go out with him what should i do...............someone please help me..

the world is not gonna stop just because YOU are sick of hearing it.

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Bare with me, this could be long. Ok well it starts off about 3 years ago, I was involved in a roll over car accident and it knocked out 2 of my teeth because i wasn't wearing a seat belt, and I was partially ejected from the car and i was stuck and yadda yadda yadda, it was horrible, and it screwed up my knee so now i've had 2 sugerys no my knee, the last one puts me in a leg brace. Anywho, Then earlier this year, i was involved in another accident(yea i know, if i didn't have bad luck i'd have no luck at all) where the driver and I and all the other passengers were looking at a murder scene when we smashed into the back of a cadillac and the airbags were deployed, and my foot was screwd up so i missed like 3 days of school, blah blah blah, so now it being early october and all this happend 3 years ago and the other one happend near the end of last year, like a year ago. So now we get to my problem. Now whenever I get into a car, I start freaking out because i think what would happen if the driver were not paying attention, so every time I see brake lights, I grab onto something and start to make noises, not quite a scream, and stuff like that, so i was wondering if that was normal after things like that have happend to me?, oh yea, by the way, my dad like to scare the crap at me by going full speed towards a wall, then my whole family laughs as i try to keep the tears in, but i dont want u guys to feel sorry for me, anywho, i was wondering if you guys think i sould seek therapy or something to get over this problem? Because these incedents have made me never want to drive. Should i try to get over my fear by seeking therapy, that is what im asking, if you could help me it would mean alot to me and i will rate you high if i like your advice, thanks in advance

i'm so sorry about your accident. well my friend's brother got in a car accident, he survived, but his 2 friends in the car died. of course he needed therapy because that's pretty serious. i'm pretty sure he's doing so much better with it and i don't even think he goes anymore. so i think therapy is the way to go. especially if you feel you might need to, all the more reason why you should give it a try!

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I don't love my boyfriend but I do like him alot and we're good together. The thing is, we've been together for a month and there have been a few problems to do with kissing. We both want to, properly like full on but before I didn't want to. Now I do and he knows, it's never the right time, we don't see each other out of school a lot and it's hard when other people are there. I really want to kiss him, what should I do?

why don't you see him outside of school? it looks to me like you guys don't have any communication. you need to make plans with him outside of school so you can get what you want. you actually need to talk to him about kissing him. but since you probably want it to just "happen at the right time" just do it when you are hanging out. don't make the first move necessarily but just make it known that you want to kiss him.

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ok heres my story...

My boyfriend and i just broke up on Saturday. I talked to his brother and he told me that he doesnt want to be with me and he doesnt like me. Yesterday io tried calling his mom and no one answered. Well i found out y. They have caller ID and knew i was calling. No one answered. What dod i do? He doesnt even want to be friends with me or talk to me. All weekend i knew something was going to go wrong. Well something did go wrong. I lost my baby. I seriously can Not live without him. I miss him so much. I tried talking to him about it but he said just recently he stopped liking me. He didnt dump me becuause he didnt want to hurt me. Grrr... What am i supposed to do? Yesterday i went spotting with my friend and when i ccame home everyone IMed me on aol and told me they were pissed at me. I have no clue y tho. Can you plz help me??

well don't even bother trying to win him back. he's made the decision that he doesn't like you anymore. don't ask him why, don't call, don't IM him, don't talk to him at school. just ignore him (i know its hard) but just don't worry about it. you annoying him is only gonna make it so much worse. and he's obviously trying to get people to hate you, which a typical guy would do, (i'm not saying its right) but HE'S and ass, not you. take my advice by ignoring him. it will eventually pass.

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I have heard about the 5 small meals a day diet. I'm not sure about what would be good to eat for it. I really only want to do this to stay healthy. I am also trying to be more healthy by stretching, walking for about 30 minutes a day, and doing other exercises. Do you think I should do any of this? I am 13, 5'2 and 115 lbs.
xxAmyxx

i say go for it. there's nothing wrong with exercising every day. and studies have shown that eating 5-6 small meals a day instead of 3 large, keeps your metabolism moving a lot faster and constantly keeps food in your stomach as fuel.

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Ok i have a problem there is this girl that i like well i should say that i basically fell for and shes going out with someone already. She still treats me as a very good friend and everything and we are kinda close but it just sucks cause she has a boyfriend and she doesnt realize that he does things to annoy her and a lot of other things that make her mad but she doesnt want to accept it. Im not sure if it is just me talking or what but i need to ask am i just jealous of the guy or am i looking out for her? and also what should i do about this?

girls are weird. when there's a great guy who will treat her well, she'll still go out with the wrong guy for her. does she know that you like her alot? if not, you should tell her because... it's weird, like sometimes if you find out that someone likes you, you almost usually start to like them back. especially if you're friends already. keep looking out for her, you're doing the right thing.

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Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni

i'm really sorry. your friends are jerks. stop being friends with them because they could take advantage of you one minute and be mean to you next. whenever they do these mean things to you, DONT let them know that it bothers you because then they will know they succeeded in what they were trying to do. i just wouldnt say anything, until it gets worse. if they keep doing it, and you want to do something about it just tell someone else who can handle it.

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