My boyfriend and i just broke up on Saturday. I talked to his brother and he told me that he doesnt want to be with me and he doesnt like me. Yesterday io tried calling his mom and no one answered. Well i found out y. They have caller ID and knew i was calling. No one answered. What dod i do? He doesnt even want to be friends with me or talk to me. All weekend i knew something was going to go wrong. Well something did go wrong. I lost my baby. I seriously can Not live without him. I miss him so much. I tried talking to him about it but he said just recently he stopped liking me. He didnt dump me becuause he didnt want to hurt me. Grrr... What am i supposed to do? Yesterday i went spotting with my friend and when i ccame home everyone IMed me on aol and told me they were pissed at me. I have no clue y tho. Can you plz help me??
xxxxxx answered Monday October 4 2004, 3:00 pm: well don't even bother trying to win him back. he's made the decision that he doesn't like you anymore. don't ask him why, don't call, don't IM him, don't talk to him at school. just ignore him (i know its hard) but just don't worry about it. you annoying him is only gonna make it so much worse. and he's obviously trying to get people to hate you, which a typical guy would do, (i'm not saying its right) but HE'S and ass, not you. take my advice by ignoring him. it will eventually pass. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
hailebop answered Monday October 4 2004, 2:32 pm: Do you really want to be with somebody who doesn't want to be with you? It's never going to go anywhere if he doesn't feel the same way as you do. As sad as that is when you still have strong feelings for him, you shouldn't dwell on it. Leave him be and concentrate on yourself and enjoying yourself without him. Maybe at some point he'll change his mind, but unless that happens there really isn't anything you can do. Even if you could somehow manipulate him into getting back together, such a relationship would be shallow and meaningless if he didn't have real feelings for you. There are much better guys out there who will be ready to treat you with more respect - I suggest you try and find one of those instead of concentrating so much on your ex. Good luck. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
LiDdLeLoveXO0H answered Monday October 4 2004, 1:50 pm: well if every1's mad at u, u definetly should figure out y..nd if ur ex-b/f doesnt wanna be with u then maybe u should find sum1 else cuz u cnt MAKE sum1 be with u it just wouldnt be fair for that person even tho itz probably not fair for u..but if u find sum1 else u might lik them better u never kno but just give ur ex sumtime nd then maybe he'll find u bak again -XO0H JENN [ LiDdLeLoveXO0H's advice column | Ask LiDdLeLoveXO0H A Question ]
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