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Just Friends???
Well, me and my ex broke up...I'm getting over it slowly, but he wants to be friends. I'm not ready to be friends with him yet. I want to make sure I'm over him, cuz if I go and hang out with him now, I'm sure I'm gonna want him back and miss him. i broke up with him cuz he cheated but didnt get very far cuz he felt really bad and i kno in my heart he luvs me cuz no one says or does tha sweeeeetest things like he does...so ne wayz i took him back but everythin was soo different, i couldnt trust him anymore and my luv for him was fading......he says he cant handle it if we're not friends, but i cant handle it if we're friends.....what should i do? i dont wanna hurt him but he really hurt me..
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Wow, I've been through this one, or something like it. I'll tell ya, the only way to get over him is to forget about him. Sounds like you realize that hes not worth your time, and once someone loses your trust, nothing is ever the same. My advice would be, tell him you cant be friends with him. He's hurt you, its time for you to take a stand for yourself. He didnt care when he hurt you, if he did, he wouldnt have done it.
-britty
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your heart hurts. The best thing is some space right now, maybe here and there an IM conversation but it's just going to be too miserable for you right now to be seeing him alot. And tell him you wanna be friends just right now its going to be hard to be close b/c you dont wanna have feelings and then have your heart stomped all over. For once in your life you just gotta think about you and not him. His feelings are gunna have to go on hold.
good luck
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You can be 'friends' without hanging out. If you see him in the hall or something say hi but that's it. More like aquaintences. Like you know each other but aren't the greatest of friends. That way you both win. he sees you as friends and you don't have much contact. **Kacie**
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