Hey, I'm Britty. My friend told me I should sign up this site and I figured, hey why not. I'm a junior in high school between homework and work, im online or with my friends. I'm hoping I can help you out, maybe meet some new people.
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Location: Niagara Falls NY
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(i'm a junior girl, the guy in question is a senior) Okay, so i went out with this guy for 3 months a while back, but i dumped him over the summer. I did it for lots of reasons- bc i didnt really like him nemore, it was getting too serious for me(mentally, emotionally, and i was a liitle worried taht it would become too much sexually although i know i could say "no" at any time and he would have totally been ok with it.) anyways, i also kinda did it bc there was this other guy i kinda liked. Afterwards, i totally regreted afterwards. He was so good to me especilly bc i was younger. We were both involved in the same extra-curricular activties. he has currently been flirting with me and recently broken up w. his g/f to try to win me back. idk what to do. i kinda want to go for it but at the same time i dont. hes not conventionally good looking but thats not important to me. he also used have a bad rep so ppl are kinda like what r u doing dating him? but thats why we worked! we were so different taht it worked! i never really trusted him fully tho. i just dont know what to do. we had so much fun.
help me!
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Hey, Im a junior too. I recently dated a sophmore in college who had a bad rep, and was completely different from me. Everyone told me it was a bad idea, but I stuck with it. I'll tell ya, he ended up hurting me in the end, but we had so much fun. So my advice to you is, he sounds like he likes you but make sure that you both want the same thing out of any sort of relationship you have. Forget what other people say, and it sounds like you want him also...so in my opinion, go for it...just be careful.
-britty
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Well, me and my ex broke up...I'm getting over it slowly, but he wants to be friends. I'm not ready to be friends with him yet. I want to make sure I'm over him, cuz if I go and hang out with him now, I'm sure I'm gonna want him back and miss him. i broke up with him cuz he cheated but didnt get very far cuz he felt really bad and i kno in my heart he luvs me cuz no one says or does tha sweeeeetest things like he does...so ne wayz i took him back but everythin was soo different, i couldnt trust him anymore and my luv for him was fading......he says he cant handle it if we're not friends, but i cant handle it if we're friends.....what should i do? i dont wanna hurt him but he really hurt me.. (link)
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Wow, I've been through this one, or something like it. I'll tell ya, the only way to get over him is to forget about him. Sounds like you realize that hes not worth your time, and once someone loses your trust, nothing is ever the same. My advice would be, tell him you cant be friends with him. He's hurt you, its time for you to take a stand for yourself. He didnt care when he hurt you, if he did, he wouldnt have done it.
-britty
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