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...help..again
Hey im the chick that needed advise on to go over my X's house or not..well i did go over yesterday..he told me he misses me..then he kissed me..well we were making out and i started to feel it wasnt rite..i dont like him anymore but i still wanna be friends with himm..hes like been my bestfriend since we broke up i dont want that to change but i dont like him ne more i dont kno wut i should do? help
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you should just tell him that you want to be friends
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you led him on by making out with him. if you feel that its not right, then its not. you need to take a break from him! call him or talk to him online or something.
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You should tell him you don't like him that way anymore and you just want to be friends with him.
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just tell him wat u think calmly be sensitive take it slow tell him that u really want to be friends just friends because i feel no strong passion between us anymore tell him how u really feel but don't be to constant about it once u mention it to him and tell him how u feel drop it and move on
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I think you need to tell him the truth. I told you earlier that youd feel guilty if you didnt go there. But i no that making out with him doesnt fell right. I feel the same thing. expecially if your not going out with him. Just talk to him and tellhim how you really feel. You'll feel right after you talk to him.
Christine
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Well, first off, you should not have let him kiss you knowing how you feel about him and the situation. That only causes him to have false hope and elevate his feelings. You need to stand your ground and not let that happen again, else you're only damaging your friendship further. Once you inform him that the romance cannot continue, you can expect your frienship with him to be impaired for at least a little while. But letting things, like him kissing you, happen will only make the eventual hardship worse. Tell him, tell him now, and start on trying to maintain your friendship with him.
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be honest wid him. that's all u can do. tell him how u feel.
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Tell him you're not interested anymore make sure he is really clear on that or he'll live in hope and thats no way to go, but when he is ready and got over you, possibly you'll able to be friends...try very hard not to do anything that'll make him think he has a chance or he'll never get over you
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