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Q: what does viagra mean??
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It's a medication that men take for them to get erections.
Jess♥
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Q: What's the name of the title of the AFI song that starts like this "I cannot live here, I cannot stay Forever haunted more than afraid?" I've already tried google and it didn't help.
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Sing The Sorrow-AFI
Jess♥
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Q: does mastrobation stunt growth of the penis
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Q: do girls think its gross(or nething) if a guy gets horny whith the gurl in there lap or nething
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Not at all.
It's sexy.!
:D
Jess♥
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Q: f/15
okay so last week my boyfriend and I were fooling around and we actually had sexual contact.he didn't go inside, he was like at my opening. he says that he didn't ejacualate inside, but i want to know if there was any possible chance I COULD be pregnant.
thanks
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Q: i wanna get a t-mobile blackberry. what do you guys think of them? do you like them ? i dont like sidekicks because their "fat" lol and wide. this is the one i want: http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p122/CAMxWHOREx3/370x400.jpg
what are your opinions on this blackberry and other ones? :]
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I think the Blackberry's cute. Although I like the SideKick, too. But, it doesn't really matter I guess, it just depends on what your preference is.
Jess♥
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Q: One of my friends steals. Not from stores, but from us! (her friends) she wont admit it. She just recently stole my mac shadestick, and those arent that cheap. She will not confess to it and i KNOW she has it. She stole my friends iPod, and steals my other friends clothes a lot. I really want my shadestick back because its my fav one and i had it the morning before she came over then after she left it was gone. I dont know what to do to get her to confess? She also makes up a lot of lies and stuff .. what should i do?
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Well, I would keep pushing her for it to give it back. Otherwise, I would stay away from at all costs.
Jess♥
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Q: Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you like for me to do from a girl's perspective? Thanks
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Well, I think a guy that just comes off as someone respective and can just say "hey, what's up" is a perfect way to start a conversation. It's simple enough and easy. The one thing I wouldn't do though is (stating the obvious here) just go up and ask her out to dinner or a movie or something. Because like you said, you don't know whether she's in a relationship or not. But, it's understandable if a guy's shy, some girls think it's cute. :] But yea, I just think you should be yourself and just start a simple conversation. And go from there. :]
Good Luck,
Jess♥
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Q: what does sex with no strings attached mean? and please don't give me a link...
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Basically, it means almost like a platonic relationship. It could range from a one night stand, or something having to do with an affair, and even more. It's like when you have sex, and it's not with a serious relationship or feelings.
Jess♥
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Q: I'm getting my haircut this Saturday
And I STILL Don't know what to do.
I want to keep it the length it is [past my shoulders], but cut off the split ends.
I just had sidebangs & I didn't like them, AT ALL.
If it helps, I have a round face & somewhat big eyes.
...PLEASE HELP!!!
(PICTURES WOULD BE GREAAAAT!)
Thanksss. =D
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Well, you could always ask the beautician doing your hair for some suggestions. But, if that doesn't seem like something you'd be interested in, you could ask for the split ends cut off, and specify how short you want it, or what not. Then, ask for the sidebangs off. You could get full bangs across your foreheaad, if you'd like that. Or, you could keep your sidebangs, let them grow out a little, and until then, style them differently or the part in your hair. I honestly don't know how long your hair really is, so I can't say much more. If I can help with anything else, though, let me know.
Good Luck!
Jess♥
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Q: would wearing a high shirt and low pants turn guys on as much as wearing a low cut shirt?
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Well, your question is under the category 'sex'. So, if you just wondering in general, unless the guys are skeezbags, they want you to just show a subtle amount of cleavage, or of your legs, or something. They don't want you to look sleezy, because I know that from experience. But, if you're looking to strip for a guy or something, or whatever your thinking, it doesn't matter what you wear.
Jess♥
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Q: 13/f..
ive never hooked up, and im kinda afraid i might mess up (if thats possible) or make a fool of myself.
any tips or ideas that will make me relax or make it seem not a big deal?
help is appreciated.
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Basically, you just need to relax. The only worries that you might want to have a concern about is having bad breath, literally jamming your tongue down his throat, and otherwise, I don't think there's anything else. Like Tina said, everything does just come naturally.
Jess♥
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Q: Does anyone know what word is it when someone tries to tell you something when they talk to you mimicking your voice. doesn't anyone find that very insulting.
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I agree with the last two people. It could be sarcasm, or, indeed mocking you. If I'm not in the mood to deal with people, I just get pissed off, but not insulted. But, no matter what mood I'm in, if it's one of my friends who makes fun of me or whatever, I honestly don't care.
Jess♥
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Q: ughh i got braces today. they dont hurt because i dont have wires in yett, but they are soo annyoying! from others exceprience, how long till they feel normal? and what are some good foods to eat?
and any suggestions on how to make it look like your mouth isnt bleeding metal when you smile., if you know what i mean.
thanks in advance :)
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For me it took about a week or two to get used to them, and that's when I was actually able to eat solid foods. But, however your tolerance for pain may be different than mine. Now, if you've ever heard of the "braces diet", that's basically what you need to follow. For example, don't eat pizza like, the second day you have them. Just stay away from foods such as crunchy foods, sticky foods, and very solid foods.
And you could always smile without showing your teeth, but I'm pretty sure most people will understand, because one, braces aren't easy, and two, most people have all had them.
Good Luck,
Jess♥
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Q: hey okay
well my boyfriend fingered me straight after he masterbated im pretty sure he had cum on his fingers... could i b preganant?
please help im stressing really bad
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Well, there's a slight chance. If you're not sure, take a preganancy test, or, if you can, see a doctor. They couldn't tell your parents, because it's patient confidentiality policy. But like I said, there's a possibility, and another sign would be if you don't get your menstrual cycle.
Good Luck,
Jess♥
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Q: I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess.
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DON'T commit suicide. That's basically just cheating death. You sound like maybe you're depressed, you have a lot of symptoms. Trust me, suicide isn't the answer. The best way to get you feeling better is to seek medical help.
Jess♥
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Q: im a 130 pounds and im 5"6' and im 15 years old but im also all legs, my hips start about about less than a hand away from my boob. do i weigh too much?
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I don't think you do at all. To be honest, I wish I weighed what you weigh. You're decently tall, (for your age), and you're 130. You have a normal BMI (body mass index). If you're insecure about the way you look, start doing something to change that. It's always healthy to exercise. Try jogging/walking. And, you're not the only one. I've struggled with a fluctuating weight ever since I was about 10. So, I think you're perfectly fine, but, like most people say, if you're not happy with the way you look, do something to change that.
Hope I helped,
Jess♥
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Q: 13/f
ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and i want to tell him i love him, but my best friend says i should wait longer or wait for him to say it first... is she right??
thanks
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Well, I'd probably wait until he says it. Because I know personally, I don't feel all that comfortable being the first one to say it.
Jess♥
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Q: I had sex with someone I liked a long time ago
and we both lost our virginity to eachother.
I havent done anything sexual with anyone since then, and I know for a fact he hasnt either.
I still think about it all the time, literally all the time and I want to do it again.
It drives me crazy because I think about it so much.
Do you think he thinks about it too?
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There's a good chance he might, because honestly, if you two were the first ones that had sex together, it's your first. And you never forget it. Now, I'm not sure if he'd want to have sex with you again, though. That you'd probably have to bring up with him.
Jess♥
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Q: Okay, to start it off I'm 14 and I am a female.
I have had depression before, when I was in eigth grade, and during the end of that year it went away. Well now that I am in ninth grade, I am depressed again. I've got ADHD and I take Adderall for it. I have no self confidence, I am shy, and I'm not happy. I USE to be very confident and outgoing. Right now I am balling my eyes out, and I have no idea. I am very close with God and I've prayed about this a couple times and so has my family. I am balling my eyes out right now and I have no idea. Someone please help me, I can't stand being like this anymore.
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Yea, I agree with the other adice-givers. And it's true- depression doesn't go away. Antidepressants work well, and medical help would be helpful, also. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this, I know how tough it is. I used to be the same way. Depression can really affect you. I would seek medical attention.
Jess♥
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bio
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45705
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