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too soon??
13/f
ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and i want to tell him i love him, but my best friend says i should wait longer or wait for him to say it first... is she right??
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The best thing to do is wait until he says it first and if he doesnt, wait a little longer. You guys have been together for a month. That doesn't mean you don't love him, you really could, but it's just a little early in the relationship :) I would wait until he says it :)
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I would probally wait till He tells you. What is that YOU want? would you feel akward telling him now? I agree with your best friend. Guys can be confusing sometimes...if you tell him you love him now...he might not be sure about that. Give it time... dont wrry about it. If you feel its time to let him noe...trust urself and do it.
(watch out becuase some guys want space..BUT not too much. Like dont call him ALLL day just to see wut he's doingg . This might lead him to second thoughts. But dont let him TOO free either.)
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-MaRii
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Well, I'd probably wait until he says it. Because I know personally, I don't feel all that comfortable being the first one to say it.
Jess♥
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i think you should wait a little longer. your friends right. if you tell him now and he's not ready to tell you back you would probably feel awful and start second guessing your relationship. it might also scare him off if he thinks it's too soon. unless he's already told YOU he loves you and yoy're ready to return it, i would wait til you've been together longer.
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i've been going out with my boyfriend for about a little over month too; he is probably the only boy i have ever loved (i'm 16) and i truly truly care a lot about him.. but even though yes i love him. he doesn't know that. because i never told him. because see when you tell a guy you love them;; it sometimes pushes them away. you could try and throw hints out there to try and show him you love him.. but i agree with you friend.. i would wait. just so you don't push him away
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