I had sex with someone I liked a long time ago
and we both lost our virginity to eachother.
I havent done anything sexual with anyone since then, and I know for a fact he hasnt either.
I still think about it all the time, literally all the time and I want to do it again.
It drives me crazy because I think about it so much.
Do you think he thinks about it too?
twistedlover69 answered Thursday March 1 2007, 12:37 pm: he will always remeber you because you were his first you were something special to him weather he wants to admitt it or not and it sounds to me like you guys still talk and if thats the case than im sure he thinks about it and since you said that he knows he hasnt done anything sexual with anybody else so likley that hes thinking about you also just a word of intrest if you still talk to him and him you and you feel you guys are still into eachother maybe you could take it slow and try to rekindle the fire that once burned i hope ihelped goodluck my inbox is always open if you have anyother questions [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
Xenolan answered Thursday March 1 2007, 11:47 am: I'd be willing to bet he thinks about it almost constantly, especially if it HAS been his only time.
However, I can't help but wonder why the two of you haven't been communicating since then - or if you have, then why this rather important topic hasn't come up. Are you still in contact? If so, I think that a deep conversation is in order, about what it meant to both of you and whether there is a relationship in your future.
You aren't giving a lot of details - for instance, you say that you think about it all the time, but are you thinking about him as a person, or just the great sex part? Do you want him as a boyfriend or do you just want to have sex again? While it is possible to have a relationship based primarily on sex, it is usually unsatisfying after a short while and they don't tend to end well.
The best advice I can give you is to get together with him (while dressed)and explore whatever feelings you may have. Hopefully, you can make an emotional connection as well as a physical one. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
xcheerbabex108 answered Thursday March 1 2007, 11:43 am: There's a good chance he might, because honestly, if you two were the first ones that had sex together, it's your first. And you never forget it. Now, I'm not sure if he'd want to have sex with you again, though. That you'd probably have to bring up with him.
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