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kissing/making out
13/f..
ive never hooked up, and im kinda afraid i might mess up (if thats possible) or make a fool of myself.
any tips or ideas that will make me relax or make it seem not a big deal?
help is appreciated.
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Don't worry about it being perfect.
It's kind of hard to mess up a kiss.
It should be a fun experience, not something you have to worry about.
Don't force anything.
Let it all come naturally.(and i know your probably thinking, "how can i let it come naturally when i've never kissed?", but trust me, once it starts you know what to do.)
DO NOT stick your tounge in his mouth.
Trust me, thats gross.
Make sure your breath is minty and fresh, but i wouldn't reccomend gum because it causes your mouth to create alot of saliva.
Act as if you know what your doing.
Don't try out any special tricks to make it better. wait before doing that. Just kiss and get it over with, then you can experiment.:]]
First kisses are amazing.
Good luck with yours!
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Basically, you just need to relax. The only worries that you might want to have a concern about is having bad breath, literally jamming your tongue down his throat, and otherwise, I don't think there's anything else. Like Tina said, everything does just come naturally.
Jess♥
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might sound like a bad answer.
but really it comes naturally.
esp. if hes done it before.
my first time.
i told the guy later it was my first.
and he didnt even believe me.
just go with the flow ;)
and to relax.
if youre ready to do it.
you wont be very nervous.
and even if you are.
after the first milisecond,it goes away :]
hope this helps :]
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Just go along with it and you'll catch on.
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If you think of it as a date then you will get really nervous. The best thing is to tell yourself i am just going out with a friend. If you tell yourself it is no big deal then it won't be. If you don't feel confortable about the situation then go to place where you don't have to worry about it. Like resturants or movies. The best idea would be to double date or go in a crowd just until you are confortable enough to where you won't get so nervous then when you finally go out alone then it won't even be a big deal when you start making out. This way it is completely natural and you will be your best.
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Everything just comes natural.
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