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I'm Sarah, i'm 16. I'm a typical 16 year old girl. I'm a junior in high school. The thing thats gets on peoples nerves most about me is that i'm too sarcastic. But I can be serious...sometimes. I just got a car that I love but its already very messy...like me. I am not clean, or organized...sometimes I don't even know what the term means.

I just got a job and was late on my 3rd day. I am late to almost everything. As you can see I am far from perfect, but I accecpt myself as me. I'm not perfect in school, actually I am going to summer school this summer, but to me, it's not that big of a deal. Things don't phase me like they do other people...

I am a little spoiled. My dad lets me keep his credit card and gives me money on it that he doesn't even have. My mom gives me her debit card way to often and usually is to ditzy to notice what I do on it. I love my parents. My grandmother is pretty rich and gives me money to come visit her...and sent me money to buy stuff for work...she sent me way more than I needed and I love her very much too! =)

I lost my grandpa 2 years ago and i miss him to this day. He was one of those people that you can't forget and no matter how much pain it causes you to think of them, you never even want to forget them, becuase you feel somewhat empty. He was one of the greatest people to me and I love him and miss him very much and cant wait until we meet up again.

When i'm am not working or not in school...i sleep as late as possible and stay in my pj's all day. I am not one of those people that gets dress to sit at home. I will go out in my pjs if i have to. To me, what people think about me is not as important as what I think about myself.

Some of my favorite things:
tv, movies, summer, not having school, beach, vacations anywhere, music (country and alternative rock), my mom (she is hilarious and i couldnt live without her...shes one of my best friends), my job (i love making money), my car, my fanily.

I am very typical but unique in my own way. I can sing very good, by myself in my car or in the shower...thats it! When i get bored I love to color...but i am really 16...not 10.

I have been through so much...my parents were divorced when i was 2 and i lived with my mom...she has had many boyfriends, and we have lived with a few...she has been engaged and married once before. That was really hard on me, harder than she or anyone thinks.
1. i had to leave all my friends and move an hour away to somewhere i had never lived before and move in with people I bearly knew.
2. i am an only child and the man she married had 2 kids. peroid.
Dont get me wrong, I loved his kids but when you are an only child for 15 years then get mixed with a 13 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that are used to getting everything they want and never doing anything....cant be good.
Me and his daughter got really close and as much as I dont like to admit it, it really hurt me when we couldn't be step sisters anymore. and her brother, he and I were alike in some ways and not in others, he was very carcastic like me which isnt always a good thing but sometimes is. We got along but i was shy and he was a little to. But we had just gotten used to each other when my mom told me they were getting a divorce...i wasn't suprised.

There are many other things about me that I am not going to bore you with because I want you to get to the end without falling asleep...if you have even gotten this far...

Now if you have read this far already which i really dont think you have...then you can ask me a question. I like giving advice...it makes me feel wise, and people tell me i am not to bad at it...so go ahead...its its stupid...you will feel the warth of my sarcasim....but its serious...then i will be as serious as my sarcasim permits....so just find out.








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i have a best friend and i love her so much as a friend that i call her my sis and i always have to talk to her like every hour and always be around her! i think im obsessed about our friendship and ive tried everything to stop being so obsessed over a friendship by trying to call her less and stop having her spend the night all the time and trying to not be around her everywhere she walks but its really really hard and it doesnt work! WHAt CaN i dO? Please help me asAp!... and thanks you!!

try hanging out with some other friends...u can still hang out with her but also try 2 get with some other friends and when u feel like calling her...call another friend...hope this helps!!!

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can you help me find some books to read?i've read all the harry potters like 100 times, all the lemony snicket books,inkheart by cornelia funk,the traveling pants series,like all the books by louisa may alcott,chasing redbird,and mostly all the royal diary books, a lot of others too. could you please give me some advice on series and books to read?

i loved these books its a series of 4 (almost 5 i think) but they r the "Gossip Girl" books.
author: Cecily von Ziegesar

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does anyone know any really cute things they did with their room or ideas they have.. like with picture frames, furnature, poseters, umm and just plain wall decorations!

please helP!

as for wall deco. u cud hang some floating shelves (sp) and put like some decorative candles and get some like small plain lamps and go 2 a craft store and decorate the lamps and also some pic frames....hope this helps :]

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what are some really summer-ey and awesome smelling perfumes or body sprays?? and how much/where do you put on?

i like RL romance and estee lauder paradise i just spray i little on my neck like spray it in th air and walk through...lol :]

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hey sarah! ok i have a problem...i met this guy on a retreat a few weeks ago and liked him right away. he felt the same way and we hung out a lot. now all he does is call me and im me all the time and it gets REALLY annoying and i dont know how to tell him that im not interesting without breaking his heart.
*14/f/ga*

idk...lol...just dont answer his calls or politely tell u still wanna be friends but u will call him when u wanna talk or something...hope this helps :]

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ok, one of my bbf's and I are going 2 start a babysitting busniss together, because we don't think we could take care of kids alone, but together we would be perfect for the job. The thing is, we don't know what kind of advertisment a parent would get to hire a kid to babysit. so, what would parents go for?

p.s. we both took a course of red cross babysitting

make flyers and put on there that u took that course and ur ages and what u know how 2 do and stuff like that and just hang them up or hand them out 2 pple....:]

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whats a good and healthy way to weight loss?
( i only want to loose 20 lb.)

eating healthy and exercising a lot!!! hope it helps!!!

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You never know what someone means to you until their gone.
Those are good words to live by, and here’s why.
Once a day, everyday I talked to two girls that rode my bus.
They were twins, and also older than me, they were seventeen.
They were always nice, not even once were they mean.
We would talk about all sorts of things.
They even helped Kyla with one of her reports.
I remember Kim would always drop her books on the floor.
One time Kathy tripped walking out the door.
Soon school was out, I had no fear that I would see them next year.
But I was wrong.
I heard about the accident from a friend, I didn’t know what she meant.
She said it was a car accident and they went to the hospital.
But I didn’t think anything of it.
I got online to look up any information about the accident.
It took me a while, but I found an article.
It was named “Twin Disaster”.
I started reading slow and I got faster and faster.
I couldn’t believe what I had read.
The accident was really bad.
Their car was hit by a pick up truck
The car was so smashed that they were stuck.
The paramedics came and got them out.
There were five people involved in the accident.
They were all alive, but Kim and Kathy were barley living.
So they were rushed to the hospital.
The article said the other passengers would be all right.
The next day I got a phone call.
It was my friend she said Kim and Kathy had passed on.
She also asked if I wanted to go to the funeral.
I said no because it was more of a family thing.
I soon got off of the phone and started crying.
I later found out that they both had died around eleven.
I was happy that they were in heaven and didn’t have to suffer.
But it was so sad because they were so young.
I remember them telling me they were going to go to the Career Center.
But they never will.
I know the guy that had hit them didn’t go out that night to kill.
But he did, he ended two teenagers lives.
They didn’t get to get married, have a kid, and so much more.
I feel so sorry for their mother because she didn’t only loose one child.
She lost two; it must be so hard to live in the house without them there.
I think everyone should live their lives to the fullest,
And never take anything for granted.
Because you never know what something means to you until it’s gone.

thats so sad.. i think its good and also a great way to cope with a friend (or 2) dying....keep it up!!

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My bf and i are 17 and weve talked about having sex but he's a bit nervous about his penis size
i told him that it doesn't matter to me but he's
still a little nervous what can i do? What is the average penis size?

well there is no "average" penis size just tell him that it doesnt matter and its not u will stop loving him if its a litttle small or something...just tell him not 2 worry about it!!:)

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umm well im going to the beach, and my bathing suit is making me look fat? should i get another one? or look extra fat

signed: Big J-Fizz

i dont think it should matter...but if u really feel u dont like it and u have the money then get another one other wise u should always look beautiful no matter who u r or what ur wearing!! :]

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Im a 15 year old guy and my flowers died and im soo depressed now....I even named them....Bob..Fred...Jim....Joe....Sue.....Lee....and my favorite flower, Garfield... WAHHH







JK

ughh...i would miss them 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :\
((sarcasim))

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what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?


u need 2 call someone around her like her parents or a trusted adult that u both know that lives near her and can get her some help!!!!

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okay i am a 14 year old male. i met this girl over the internet and i think she likes me because she drops little hints like calls me babe, or calls me sexy, or said she has a dream about me. from what she says she seemed really nice.well we talk about three hours a day. today she asked me out. i like her but that seems a little wierd to go out on the internet. what do i say if i really like her

well if u really like her and dont have a girlfriend then go out with her.....maybe yall can arrange 2 meet...

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i like haven sex wit kids is that bad?!? liek 10 to 13 year olds and im 60

yeh.im gonna say thats bad...but i think this is a joke so im not taking it seriously!!!! but it is bad and illegal and just plain NASTY!!!!!!!!!!!

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im sorry but i have feelings for my pet cat. and last weekend i tried fucking it. can ig et pregnant? ((this is NO joke)) im not a pet molester or anything. i am regular 17-year-old girl.

i have a feeling tis is a joke but i will answer it anyway....first off...no u, a human, cannot get a cat pregnant...and u dont need 2 be doing this...cuz its gross and weird!!!!!!

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Back in January like January 10th, I met this really cute guy name dominique. We went out for a month and he broke up with me over the telephone. Then he im`s me one day in march saying sorry for everything I have done. He says he would like to be friends. So I agreed with him, thinking this was my moment If we stayed friends for a while, maybe him and me could get back together. See the thing is I really nva gave up on him. I cry for him every night. I still love him to death. He was my first real true love. Words cant even begin to express how I feel about him. I would love to tell him, but I am not to sure what he would say.PLZ help me!

i would be friends with him and when ur really good friends and he doesnt have a girlfriend tell him how u feel...good luck!!!

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I am starting to do 20 min workouts, but what whould is better to loose a fat from my tummy and thighs. I am only looking to loose 15 lbs.

1. 20 minutes of pilates where I really feel a burn, but no sweat.

2. 20 minutes in the workout room on cross trainer, bike and stair stepper. I sweat enough where I need a shower after, but the burn isn't as painful as with pilates.

Which workout is better to loose weight?

if ur wanting 2 lose weight u would want 2 do the cardiovascular exercise which is #2

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I'm a female, sexually active in about 2 days.
Ok, are you like supposed to shave it ALL off down there? Or leave a tiny bit?
I'm a bit too squeamish for a brazilian wax, so any help?

its really up 2 u some pple like 2 leave a little just becuz when ur vagina releases discharge the hair sometimes soaks it up...but its up 2 u but just a tip...DONT shave against the grain...it will leave big itchy bumps!!!..

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STUPID BUT SERIOUS QUESTION HERE. DOES IT HURT TO PUT A TAMPON IN FOR THE FIRST TIME?!? IF SO HOW BAD???

DOES IT FEEL WEIRD WALKING AROUND WITH IT IN OR ANYTHING FOR THE FIRST TIME?!?

THANKS GIRLEY

well as long as u do it right then it really shouldnt hurt...may hurt a little though.it depends how much of your hymen is still attached...some girls r born without one and some r born with a full one....but just make sure u put it in right and read the little paper thing that comes in the box and it will show u how 2 put it in....good luck...lol oh and as long as u put it in right u shouldnt even feel in when ur walking or sitting...hope this helped!!!:]

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i'm 14 and i've had sex 15 times with 16 different people(threesome) and 13 of them are members of my family(aunts, uncles, cousins, mom, dad, sister, brother, dog, etc.) and now i might be pregnant and i don't know who the father is(obviously not girls) what if it's like half dog? is that possible? HELP ASAP

thanx

write back asap

r u like mentally sick?!?!
1:u cant get prenant by a dog
2:u cant get prenant by females
3:if u r prenant by a family member thats incest and nasty
4:u should get a prenancy test and take it...do more than one
5:if u thought u might be able 2 get prenant by a dog..i dont think u r mature enough 2 be having sex with anyone...
6:if the father is a family member the baby could be end up not surviving or being mentally retarded...which is even harder 2 take care of....
7:i think u should only have sex when u r mature enoug and NEVER with a family member!!!!!

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