im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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I'm 14,i jus turned 14 actually and at school im basically the biggest slut ever,but ive been trying to change that,well ever since i found out im pregnant.i used protection.i was on the pill,but i guess somehow i got pregnant but the worst part is i dont know who the father is and honestly it could be like 10 guys.no joke.im tryin to determine if i should just get an abortion and not tell my parents or tell them then get an abortion or tell them and have it or just have and dont tell them till its ready to come out!its such a difficult decision and lately my mom has been getting mad at me cause ive been eating so much food.please someone help me! (link)
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what you need to do is tell your parents yes they might be angry with you but your in a difficult situation and need help. talk to them about how your not sure you want the baby beacuse you dont know who the father is. personally i think you should keep the baby and find out who the father is beacause you need a father on the birth cirtificut and he needs to pay child support. its like the law i think lol im not sure really but if i was you i would make damn sure someones helping to pay. take all the guys that you had sex with in the last month or two and tell them that you think that they might be the father and want them tested to see if they are.
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I'll be 16 in a month and I haven't hit puberty yet. Never had a period, flat chest, no crazy sexual day dreams, and I only get the occassional random makeout dream.
So, what gives? When is it my turn to become a woman? =P Not that I mind not having a period, but come on, I want some kind of curvage.
OH andddd, I have one more thing to ask, can you get pregnant if you've never had a period? (No I'm not considering sex, I was just wondering) and, can sex cause you to start having a period? (a friend said it could LOL and I don't think it can) (link)
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everyones different when they go through puberty so thats why you not so sexualy driven probally im not totally sure but it all clicks together. in the next year or so you should be noticing a difference in your body! and as far as im concerned you cant get prego when you havnt had your period. and i dont think it helps you getting your period if you have sex.
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okay my problem is i masturbate but i masturbate with a little back massager thing that vibrates on my clitoris. and im really worried because things have been going quickly with this guy and not only him but ive been in many situations where a guy wanted to finger me but i said no because i was worried i wouldnt be able to orgasm for it. basically im just worried, idk if i would orgasm from just fingering inside. (link)
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you might not and thats totally fine but if you think to hard about it when hes doing it your really not going to get an orgasm so perhaps try for yourself first or if you cant then fake it.
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I'm writing an essay in English concerning the different life styles of teenagers in high school. If you guys could answer a few questions just to give me a few ideas, I'd totally appreciate it. :)
1. What kind of things do you do? (Sports, clubs etc.)
2. Do you have 1 best friend that you spend a lot of time with or a group of friends you spend all your time with?
3. Does your school have lockers outside? Anything cool about your school-block schedule? Stuff like that.
4. Are drugs and drinking big concerns at your school?
5. Finally, is your high school life fun? Do you spend most of your time studying or hanging out with friends? Do you go out with friends every weekend? What kind of stuff do you do?
You can answer some or all of the questions, I'm just trying to get a few different ideas. Thanks! (link)
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1. i do out door Track
2. i dont have a group of friends i have a boyfriend that i consider my best friend because we were beofore so i mainly hang with him and no longer in a group im friends with many people and hang with who ever asks.
3.our lockers are inside because i live in upstate New York and its cold wet and snowy lol instead of 9 periods we have 4 blocks which are 80 minutes long but luch is only 40. and you dont go to the highschool until sophmore year so middle school runs off of 7th 8th and 9th
4. ya seems like everyones doing some kind of drugs its surprising who you would find out that does this stuff.
5. my highschool life i guess its fun i hate studying but i get decent grades not failing anything if i had the choice i would hang out with friends all the time. thats my hobby! i go out every weekend if i can sometimes out of the week but thats rare. i ususally go to the mall or hang at a friends house.
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well let's see i'm 14 years old and not to be conceited but i'm not ugly or fat, just really tall. i'm 59. mostly taller then EVERYONE, even most male adults. well anyways ive never been kissed once, or had one boyfriend. it sucks because my girl friends are like having sex and i've never even kissed a guy =[ ; i don't know what to do!? like honestly no guy has interest in me, well guys do if they see my myspace and flirt with me and blah but are unaware of my height and thats why i never end up hangingout with them becuase i will be taller and it'll be akward. well i don't really know what i need advice on. just i don't know, someone help? =[ (link)
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ok i know your young but if i was in your situation then i wouldnt go for the guys that are in my grade i would go for the guys in like HIGHSCHOOL your tall enough that no one would know your age unless you tell them so sure your friends are having sex with little childish boys but you can have MEN. so look at it like that its possible that you might not want that but just so you know that it is ok that you have never been kissed and your 14 doesnt mean it wont ever happen it means your special and not a whore so good for you!!! be proud for who you are tall and beautiful what ever your looks are be proud about them becuse people can tell weather or not your confident and theres nothing more attractive then a girl being confident!!! besides sex shouldnt be a factor for you right now have fun now worry about sexual stuff later your still a kid no need to grow up besides sex just brings bad rep and emotional damamges not to mention other damages who needs a streched out vage at 15 anyhow so your whory friends can have fun now but they will be hanging low later trust it!!! :]
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okayy i really like this guy and he knows i liek him but some people say that he does liek me and some people say he doesnt.... and i reaaly want to find out if he doesn or dosent i know everyone thinks that i should just go up to him in person and ask him but i cant do that...... what do i do?
thanks
loveboys (link)
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ok so last year when i liked my boyfriend i wanted to know if he liked me or not and i wasnt totally sure becuase well people would be like he likes you but then they would say he didnt now just to let you know when a guy hears over and over and over again if you like this certain girl they could get very frusterated and just flip out in a way. so i know you dont want to go up to him but the only way to find out if he likes you or not is to ask him yourself either if its over texting or IMing which could be easier but what does show that you have more confidence is if you ask him in person yourself but dont just go out and ask if he does or not cuz remember that he could be frusterated with people just asking so hearing it one more time is annoying so be like talking about something else like the funny times you heard in class or just a casul talk.
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A few monthes ago me and my ex had sex. It was both of our first time and it only happened once. (I wasn't sleeping with him to get him back or anything). The whole thing just kind of happened, but I felt good about it.
A few nights ago I was talking to him and he said sleeping with me meant nothing to him and I got really depressed about it, and started regretting the whole thing.
How can I make myself feel better about this whole thing? (link)
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ok this is just one of the great affects of having sex i guess what you can do is just talk about your situation with someone close to you or a councler i know it sounds dumb but it could work theres nothing really you can do to fix the emotions or regret becuase you cant go back in time to change what you have done. whats done is done at the time you did it becuase well you wanted to and it felt right so i guess you can look at it everytime you feel regretful.
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bottom line:
he calls or texts me maybe twice a week if im lucky
we hang out once a month
and i only see him at school between classes for two minutes once a day
we have been together almost 3 months
but liked each other for over a year
every time i talk to him about how we arent close he gets mad and tells me to end it
what should i do?
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well if i were you i would say that you guys need to either talk again weather he lies it or not if he cant handle that then its time to break up with him not worth your time or energy find somone else simple as that.
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I am 14 years old and i am 3 months pregnant...as if that isn't a big enough problem i have another big one. I am pregnant but not with my current boyfriend. How do I tell him that im pregnant? (link)
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its very responsible of you to tell your current boyfriend that your prego so theres a bright side to your situation. i would say that you would have to sit him down in a private area and just go out and say it im pregnant im three months along but its not yours, you dont have to say that to him that its not his but it would be nice. i dont really know your situation so if you love him tell him that if you cheated and what not and you know you made the mistake but if its just a new boyfriend tell him that you hope he understands.
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how are babies made in very accurate complete instructions and details lol (link)
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ok well usualy its when two people really love eachother. thats how it really starts but sometimes there are skanky people who just do it for the hell of it. so what happends after that they get horny or at least one of them do. a mans penis erects to full extent and sticks it in the womens vagina this is located near the but hole its just another dark but wet hole. they then hump kinda in any form positions they like as long as the mans penis is in the womens vaginal hole after an hour or longer depends if they are enjoying it the man ejaculates or in other terms of slang spues, blows his load, ect. then the sperm that came from the penis goes up the vaginal hole to the uterus of the women and sticks to an egg nine montsh later a baby pops out of the same hole and totally ruins the mommy and daddy no longer wants to make more baby fun b.c her vage sucks and hangs low hope it was detailed enough for u :]
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ok im 15 female and im not on birth control yet but i am sexually active..i just got past a pregnancy scare and me and my bf had sex last night and he was wearing a condom when we started but at the end we dont know what hapend to it...should i be worried bout it? like if it is in me what should i be doing about it? should i be worried about getting pregnant again? please help i do not want to go through all the worry again... (link)
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ok like the other two have said i would say go to a doctor perhaps if you dont want any one finding out I.E. your parents then go to a plan parent hood idk if they could help you but what they can do is hand you birth control but my best bet would to either talk to your mom or who ever you live with that your planning on having sex or you can be honost and say you have been having sex and want to be put on the pill if they say no then you can say its beter then getting prego its smart that your being smart about it protection all the way... for the condom thing i dont really expeirence in that department sorry but i would say look around the room first to try and find it if not then try going to a doctor so you deff know that that needs to go down as fast as possible!!!
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this is really embarassing for me. this happened 6 months ago. i got super super drunk, to the point of not remembering the whole night. i guess that i said 'i haven't hooked up with anyone in so long. i need to hook up with someone' and i kept screaming it. this isn't embarassing to most people but i can't get over it. boys still make fun of me about it and i try not to act like it bothers me but i can't get over it.. how do i forget? (link)
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it is possible you should make wiser choices like perhaps that could have been someones BOYFRIEND ok and it totally screwed up everything if you feel you need to hook up with someone people are going to look at it as if your some well slut and thats not the rep you want at all!!!! so try masturbating or geting a boyfriend of your own. next time dont shout you need to hook up its not well polite i guess. w.e good luck with that! t
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My mother passed away 26 years ago. After her funeral, I gave her diamond engagement ring to my daughter, "Emma." Since then Emma has had two husbands and two more diamond rings, plus several others with various gemstones to match outfits. As far as I know, she has never worn my mother's ring.
I would like to spend my last years honoring my mother by wearing her ring. I am now 82. It would, of course, be returned to Emma when I die. Would it be all right to ask for that privilege? (link)
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of course it is!! just tell her that you feel comfortable if you get to wear YOUR mothers ring for some odd years and that she will get it back i dont see any big ordeal out of this she doesnt wear it and she has many sets of her own.
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so i got a new laptop yesterday. and when i go to myspace.com and i try to login , i type in my email address and my password and it just goes back to the login page like a refreshed it or something. its so annoying and im about to throw this laptop against the wall.
so any help you can gve me is appreciated.
thanks in advance, advicenators (link)
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go to prefrences and around there it says allow pop ups and click that to accept it.
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Well me and my gf our getting very stressed out and busy, and we dont know wut to do. do you? (link)
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you both need to chill either you need to really badly just hang out together alone or need to take a little alone time like just for a day no talking or calling and then talk sometimes people need alone time to help out other times its just that they want to see eachother so try that. try so hard to not be busy and take a day together it helps trust me.
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Can any of you advicenators share your stories of your first love that ended because of distance? Like, either one of you had to move away and thats the only reason why your first love ended. Do you regret it? Are you still in touch? please leave as much details, as well as how you dealt with the situation, because right now im finding it to be unbearable. (link)
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ok well i thought i was in love and i always see him as my first love but we were sorta distantly dating we were off and on for a year or close to a year and we liked eachother and all we saw each other at least twice a week and we saw that as distantly even though he was a town away.. it ended becuase he thoguht one he was a year older then me and two i cheated on him so thats why lol. it was hard your not as close and what not its confusing if you guys want it to work you will work it but it does get very hard and temptations rise and its just not fun. hoped i help
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Okay well my ex boyfriend Elvis..I like him still. But we still talk and i just wanted to be friends. My other ex before him had naked pictures of me and so he got mad and put them up on facebook, everyone saw them,So elvis was like i want to see them, i was just kidding arouned with him and i was like ill show you. Then he was like will you have sex with me? I said yes cuz well i like him. He is not telling me i HAVE to do it and he is such a great guy. BUt im not sure if i should have sex or not.Im only 14 and i feel like I want to but then again i dont want to.You get what im saying. (link)
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if your having any doubt in your mind that you dont want to have sex then DONT becuase deep down your going to regret it dont do it cuz you LIKE him do it becuase you LOVE him!!!!
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Ok i am 14 nd i have only had sex with one guy but 3 tmes 2 without a condom nd once with one i think i might be pregnat i have alot of the signs nd i am getting a prgnancy test in a couple days but what should i do ??? (link)
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ok i would first get that pregnancy test done if it says you are tell your parents rittteee away becasue not telling them can put you and or your baby at risk of anything. take a deep breath and be responisible for your actions be totally honost your going to have to tell the guy so he can get a job and pay for the baby. but really wait two weeks after you miss your period to get a pregnancy test done
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Okay i met this girl at the family party and we started talking and i asked her number and her screen name so she gave it to me, and after that we talk for 3-6 hours a day, we also talk and flirt on the phone,text and chat online. We've known each other for a month and half we hung out and we flirt too, and i know she likes me and i like her, she even cooked for me but the thing is i told her that i love her and she started acting different, i told her i wanna be with her and i love her and everything and when i told her she started picking fights and she told me that she doesn't believe in love, because it sounds too serious and she doesn't like it when i say i love you to her. She never had a bf and she says shes a flirt but i know she likes me, yet she didn't wanna go out with me, and i told her we could be friends, but she keeps getting mad or picking fights about it and she told me that we shouldn't talk for a while and so i agreed and told her to talk to me when shes ready but its been 2 weeks and shes still hasn't talked to me even when we see each other she ignores me and wont even look at me in the eye, and she wont reply my texts, and i didn't know why she wont talk to me if she likes me too, but i don't know now what do you think about this? we were doing REALLLY good and we liked eachother, but when i told her i how i love her and wanna be with her she started acting weird and we dont talk anymore, please help.. (link)
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a lot of people are different when it comes to love maybe she heard what guys do when they say this that they are looking for sex so she really liked you and then you said you loved her which made her think you wanted sex only and now shes mad at you and perhaps she cant belive that she let her self like you so much so that all you can just use her. i mean thats probally not the deal but its a posibility also maybe she has problems with love like maybe someone really broke her heart once even if it was a crush. if i was you i wouldnt talk to her give her space. rite now she needs to think. tell her on a message that you didnt mean it for to make you angry when you said that if thats the case then suggest you guys start over from scratch and wait a looonggg while before saying i love you to her again.
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i know this is a long raging battle that's been going on for a long time, but im deciding on which to buy. The most useful answers will obviousely be from people that use either one (you folk :D). Im thinking of buying a laptop, but not sure which one. It'll be used for school work mosly (essays etc) and surfing the internet. any ideas? (link)
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ok i have a mac computer and my sisters have a mac lap top and their in colloge and they say its the best computer to use. i personally think that macs are much easier to use unless u like to play games on your computer then use a PC but you can get games for your mac at the apple store or online macs dont get viruses and less complications they dont need like a mother board rite next it its just the computer screen the mouse and the keyboard. so if this didnt get you interested then i dont know what will!
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