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Question Posted Sunday December 21 2008, 1:31 pm

ok im 15 female and im not on birth control yet but i am sexually active..i just got past a pregnancy scare and me and my bf had sex last night and he was wearing a condom when we started but at the end we dont know what hapend to it...should i be worried bout it? like if it is in me what should i be doing about it? should i be worried about getting pregnant again? please help i do not want to go through all the worry again...

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nerissa answered Thursday December 25 2008, 12:31 am:
definitly check inside of you.
anything inside the condom is in your system and you should be aware. if u want to have sex without scares like that you should tell your partner to buy you plan B.
its a pill u take only twice and it kills any sperm that enters your body. but only with in 72 hours.
(3 days) after sex. if its past that, hope for the best and take a preg test.

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sml111992 answered Tuesday December 23 2008, 11:01 pm:
ok like the other two have said i would say go to a doctor perhaps if you dont want any one finding out I.E. your parents then go to a plan parent hood idk if they could help you but what they can do is hand you birth control but my best bet would to either talk to your mom or who ever you live with that your planning on having sex or you can be honost and say you have been having sex and want to be put on the pill if they say no then you can say its beter then getting prego its smart that your being smart about it protection all the way... for the condom thing i dont really expeirence in that department sorry but i would say look around the room first to try and find it if not then try going to a doctor so you deff know that that needs to go down as fast as possible!!!

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thelaura answered Monday December 22 2008, 12:21 pm:
Well if the condom wasn't around.. it could be inside you. They don't just disappear!
Try not to panic and just see a doctor. They'll know if it's inside you and will get it out easily and safely.
and about being pregnant - remember, there's always a chance, even if you do use protection. but since the condom may be inside you, you're at a bigger risk.
Visit a doc ASAP. They will be able to help you with the morning after pill, too. Since you had sex last night, it's effective for up to 72 hours, although the sooner you take it, the better it is.
Best of luck.

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queenhearts answered Monday December 22 2008, 11:18 am:
Okay this has happened to me before. The condom slipped off inside me and it's best to go to a health clinic to check it out. Do not attempt to get it out yourself or with someone else. My boyfriend ended up pushing it inside more and it was already in too deep, it hurt quite a bit for him to grab it. You need to get it out if you haven't. Go with your friend or boyfriend if you have to.

You need to go on the pill. You may be pregnant if the condom broke or is in you still.

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