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Dearest Nerissa, I have no idea why, but I have never had a serious relationship my entire life. It's not like I want to be single, it's just that guys never give me the chance to show them what I have to offer. What is even worse is the fact that I'm gay, so it's hard to pick em out you know what I mean? It's literally the most awkward situation when you hit on a straight guy and they try to be sweet and sincere but have this totally confused look on their face. help! (link)
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dearest anonymous(;
i cant say that i completely know what your feeling. i have never been in a similar situation and i cannot imagine how it must be.
you were made this way for a reason. So there must be a solution. you cannot hide the fact that you are gay. or even be ashamed of it. are you positive of your sexuality? have you ever thought of becoming bi? you should think about these questions before you think theres no hope.
Also if you think you are positive with what you want, Have you ever considered a dating site with only males in your area?. it sounds lame and cheap
but who knows. there are probably a lot of guys who feel the EXACT same way as you. and are waiting for a guy to find them on there.
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What are some ballet and jazz dance dvds where you can teach yourself moves like:
double pirouettes
Standard fouette turns
Toe Touch/Russian
Grand Jete
Switch leap
Stuff like that, were it's step by step?
I want to continue training but I don't have the money for classes right now.
Thank You (link)
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i am a dancer. and i know this is going to sound lame but the easiest and CHEAPEST way to learn those techniques is surprisingly youtube. there are a lot of tutorials that coaches and intructors put up. it would definitly just be easier to get enrolled in a class and take a class where someone can hands on show you. but if you are just looking to do this in your room and not worry about paying any money then you should look it up. :]
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Ok this might be long but last year i liked this guy and he had gf but i couldnt help myself.So when he found i liked him he started flirting with me and i was head over heels for him and when his gf found outi liked him she freaked out and started talking behind my back and all her friends hated me too but in front of my friends she was all nice and polite.And then like 2 weeks after he had to leave to go to another school he said i was acting like his girlfriend and i wouldnt leave him alone.So now 11 months later im here and i cant let him go .next year i have to go to the same school he went to and then i have to see him everyday.ive tried everything to let him go but i cant. plz help me (link)
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it is high school and your still young. i know this must be hard, we have all encountered similar situations. but the best thing i can say is to leave your options more open. you never know. when you go into this other school you might meet someone new. you should be open into talking and meeting new guys. it seems like this guy has alot of drama behind him. and you dont need that. so new school, new boys, dont chase your old feelings again. you can start over. new new new:]]
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I just met this boy a week ago and know we're sort of dating, not really official, but I guess we are? But anyways,the other night, I was with him and my friends were joking with his friends that he should get a condom so we could go have sex. It was a joke. But then, he pulls a condom out of his pocket. Like I have no idea how i'm supposed to feel abot that... And then he got drunk and asked me to sleep over. Should this ever happen again, how do I say I'm not intrested in having sex with him after knowing him for only a week? (link)
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Everybody is different in situations like this. but i would probably say that if he was even remotely interested in you for more than just sex then he wouldnt even be joking around about it. because he would have more respect for who you are as a person. its only been a week. some guys are just imature and cant help themselves.
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thanks! i have contact solution, but im not sure if its salene solution because it doesnt say that it is.. it says multi-purpose solution on the bottle.. and its cvs brand.. is that the same thing as salene? what exactly is salene?? (link)
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haha yes that is the same thing. its just the store brand of it. saline solution is just salt in sterile water. its purpose is for cleaning/rinsing.
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i pierced my own belly button a few days ago with a really thick, steralized needle, and i took it out and immediately put a normal gaged ring in.. the ring was my friends from when she went to get her belly button pierced, and i steralized it..
please dont yell at me, i already know its bad to pierce your own belly button..
ive been putting peroxide on it, and triple anti bacterial ointment on it. mostly peroxide though, and ive been cleaning it a lot. the first two days it was like oozing yellow/ whitish stuff, and it dried up as crust.. but i kept cleaning it and it went away...
now it just hurts. It is SOOOOOOO SOAR. like litterally, i cant even sit up straight in my seat at school, i know its supposed to be soar for a few weeks, but i feel like mine is unbelieveably painfuler than all my friends..
also, it looks better but it looks like the skin around the hole is peeling a little bit.. is that normal?
i want to know if i am cleaning it out right, and is there anything i can do to ease some of this pain?? like, anything i can put on it?? i just basically dont know how to handle it.. so if someone could help me learn how to take care of it and what to do and not to do with it, thatd be great :) thanks...
oh also, my mom doesnt know, and she was gonna take me in december to get it done for my birthday.. but i REEEALLY wanted it for the summer.. so i was wondering.. if i take it out after summer in like september, will it close up for me to get it repierced by december?? tthanksss =) (link)
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i have my belly button pierced as well. the best advice i can give is to clean it with saline solution. harsh ointments and the peroxides will clean it but it will keep the soar open. its hard to explain. i used saline solution. thats what the people from the tattoo shops recommended. it sounds weird since it is mainly used for contact leanses. but believe me. it works the best. hope i helped :)
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ok like you ive been through alot n done alot...1 question though. why do girls cheat when they got a good guy by their side. is it because they r tired of them?
temptation??
n then if they do cheat y hide it?
why not b real and talk about it...i mean face the person you did wrong.
can you give me one reason a really good reason? (link)
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really. it doesnt take much for someone to cheat these days. its so easy. i mean we've got myspace and texting and everything else. And the reason could be one or many things put together.
temptation, yes. but you would have to be really heartless to be that easy. most of the time when your comfortable in a relationship and you get to the point when you start arguing, you get upset really easily and more often. those are the times when you or your partner get tired of it. and out of anger or carelessness, cheat.
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I was a virgina nd me and m boyfriend had sex on the 23. I took plan b 75 hours after we had un protected sex. I am really nervouse becuase 5 days after taking plan B {wich is today 12/1/08} i had blood in my undewear. I have been having cramps, hotflashes, and moode swings. Is this suppose to be my period or is tis just an effect of plan b? Also could tis be implantation bleeding? ow soon should I take a pregnancy test? I am a 16. (link)
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this is normal. i have taken plan b a few times before and glad to say im still alive. lol
hopefully you read the side effects, like nausea and about the changes in your period. here is some facts :]
http://www.go2planb.com/plan-b-faq.aspx#2
the same thing happened to me. The pattern of your menstrual cycle is now altered. your body reacted to pills that it didnt recognize.
keep in touch, you can always ask me anything:)
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OK, I have a problem. I have long nails (well, used to) but I a have a habit of picking them off. Is there anything that you can recommend me to or give me tips to stop?
Thanks!! (link)
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hahaa i used to do that too.
if you really want the look of long nails
i would get acrylic nails. they are thick and hard to bite off. also expensive. so if u bite one off you'd be pretty pissed. lol
the only thing is that if you have pretty long natural nails, they might get ruined from fake nails.
ive moved onto fake nails. that way they are always long and sexy;]
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i know how to lose weight, i exercise and all that.
but whenever i have a really good day i always end up eating crap food at the end, and can never seem to stay determined.
any ideas to help me stay focused, like things to think?
thanks. (link)
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its good to have a mind set that you CAN have whatever you want. its unhealthy to tell yourself what you cannot have because sooner or later you could over indulge on it from not having it. and that wouldn't be good, right? Just keep in mind to stay balanced with eating healthy and know when your eating unhealthy. think moderation and not elimination.
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Okay so my boyfriend wants to buy me like lingerie..not like bra's and underwear but like those sexy babydoll stuff or the teddy's or whatever..but all the websites we go to only have like huge sizes. I'm small so does anyone know of a good website or store that has small sizes but still have sexy stuff? (link)
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easy. victorias secret.
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hello! :)
well, i want to get my nose pierced but im on danceline for school, and we cant have any facial piercing while we do performances. so my question is how ong does it take for it to heal, and within what time pierod can you change your stud thingy?!!
thank you! (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. im a performer and i have a lot of piercings i have to disguise.
its definitely not a good idea to take your piercing out when u need to dance because of the time it needs to heal.
i would say
cut off a piece of a band aid.. like the sticky tannish color. and put it over the stud. then apply make up all over to blend in the tiny piece of band aid even more. its hardly noticeable :]
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ok im 15 female and im not on birth control yet but i am sexually active..i just got past a pregnancy scare and me and my bf had sex last night and he was wearing a condom when we started but at the end we dont know what hapend to it...should i be worried bout it? like if it is in me what should i be doing about it? should i be worried about getting pregnant again? please help i do not want to go through all the worry again... (link)
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definitly check inside of you.
anything inside the condom is in your system and you should be aware. if u want to have sex without scares like that you should tell your partner to buy you plan B.
its a pill u take only twice and it kills any sperm that enters your body. but only with in 72 hours.
(3 days) after sex. if its past that, hope for the best and take a preg test.
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is it weird that a guy wanted me to lick his finger after he fingered me? (link)
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umm, well it probably wasnt weird to him. becuase he most likely thought it was hot. if you think its weird then your unconfortable with it. simply just ask him not to do it.
afnext time when he wants you to lick it off, stop him and make him lick it off.
thats hot
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i'm in highschool and i met this guy. ok and then we started talking, i don't know if it was like "talking". but he would always be sweet. all my friends said that it seemed like he did like me. but then after he ended school he just stopped talking to me. i'm still trying to figure out what happened! and then i barley figured out that he wasn't even "talking" at all. so i dont know what to do.should i jsut stop liking him or what?
thank you. (link)
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this is the hardest thing to do, especially if you like a guy. maybe there was something wrong, like with a close friend or family member. but just give him space and try not to ask too many questions. if anything be a friend. tell him that you are there for him. if he always used to talk to you before then im sure he will answer. dont stop liking him unless you are sure he just isnt for you. TRY again. and if its the same. tell me about it. message me =]
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sorry if its the wrong category
how can you get rid of split ends?
how can you prevent them?
THANKS
=] (link)
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there are so many ways of getting them. its like almost impossible to not have them. but you can make your hair healthy looking by getting your hair trimmed every other month. also if you straighten your hair, try using heat protectant things to prevent heat damage on your hair. =]
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aaaaaaaayyyyyyyaaaaahhhhhhhhhh
i don't know if you got that or not but i don't know any of the works. It's the one in shrek 3 where snow white is singing if that helps. (link)
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led zeppelin: immigrant song =]
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okay so this guy really likes me but were both sorta shy and we both finally talked to eachother and he always follows me around.sorta scary i no right?well i really like him and i can tell he is into me and then all of a sudden he starts to ignore me n just flirt with other girls then i figure hes over me so i do the same and i now have a boyfriend and i was really happy... then again he starts to flirt with me and all this.what do you think hes trying to do?need help.! (link)
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well if he does this flirting stuff with alot of girls, then watch out. you might not want to fall for his games. from what your saying, it seems like this guy isn't in for a relationship. and if he is playing with your mind, then choose what you are going to do. you have a boyfriend and you said you are happy. so just be his friend. tell him you have a bf if he doesnt already know.
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well my gf asked my if ive fingered a girl and i said yes because i didnt want to sound inexpeirenced so my question is how do you finger a girl??? please help (link)
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its simple. but if your not ready then maybe you should wait. but honestly its just what you are into. It really depends on how the girl is feeling. like if both of you are in the "moment" i guess you could say. then just start to touch her legs, and if she pulls away then she probably isnt wanting much further then that.
if you get to then slowly go into it. do what you think is right. and then slowly make your way. and look at her face if it hurts, then ur not in the right spot...just ask her how many fingers. and dont assume. whatever happens. happens. =] have fun
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what is the perfect bf? (link)
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i am a girl.. so i can only tell u my opinion.
i have probably said this to just about everyone
but BE YOURSELF
try and overcome fears that stop you from being who you are and most important, showing "her" who you are.
us girls,.. we want guys who are real with us.
real as in... they dont cover up their flaws with lies.
and if they make mistakes, to just handle it like someone who is mature for a relationship.
Everyone makes mistakes.. and there deffinitly is no such thing as perfect.
so all im saying to you is to be honest, and realistic.
..i couldnt ask for much more. and MUCH more will come with that.
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