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Question Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 2:55 pm

Okay well my ex boyfriend Elvis..I like him still. But we still talk and i just wanted to be friends. My other ex before him had naked pictures of me and so he got mad and put them up on facebook, everyone saw them,So elvis was like i want to see them, i was just kidding arouned with him and i was like ill show you. Then he was like will you have sex with me? I said yes cuz well i like him. He is not telling me i HAVE to do it and he is such a great guy. BUt im not sure if i should have sex or not.Im only 14 and i feel like I want to but then again i dont want to.You get what im saying.

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karenR answered Wednesday October 15 2008, 2:03 pm:
Using sex or naked pictures is not the way
to get a guy to like you. At 14 they are
all about taking you out for a little sex.
But are they interested in you as a person,
or as a girlfriend? Probably not. They want
easy sex. GREAT guys wouldn't even ask.

So don't have sex with any guy just to be
having sex or to get his attention. He will
just see you as easy. Not a girl he would
want to be seen with in public or to take
home to meet his family.

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Mystique23 answered Tuesday October 14 2008, 10:49 pm:
Well first of all you can get that guy arrested for posting naked pictures of you. Second do not have sex if you are not sure. You are 14 years old and have enough time to be sexually active, just not now. Take pride in your self, and have enough respect for your body. This guy is not that sweet of a guy if he knows that you are 14 and still wants sex. Empower yourself honey, say NO!!!! be a young and beautiful teenager. ( I know that you are smart because you asked this question. I know that you know that the answer is no ) Hope that you do the right thing. :)

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Hitoast answered Tuesday October 14 2008, 9:43 pm:
Well first off, I'm pretty sure it's illegal to have sex at age unless you live in Canada or something. Second, if you're having any doubt in your mind at all, don't do it. In my opinion, 14 is waaaayyy to young to have sex. If you start now, it won't be as special as when you get older. It'll just be like "oh, I've already done it... it's nothing new." Wouldn't you rather your first time be special? Anyways, goodluck, and I hope you make the right choice!

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sml111992 answered Tuesday October 14 2008, 8:14 pm:
if your having any doubt in your mind that you dont want to have sex then DONT becuase deep down your going to regret it dont do it cuz you LIKE him do it becuase you LOVE him!!!!

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