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Ok here it goes. Me and my bff have been bestfriends for a little over a year. Yes we have our fights and such but one of us apologizes and we get over it. Well the other day i was having a crappy day and kind of took it out on her because usually i can trust her to not take it to the extreme or freak out. Well later on i had realized what i did and apologized for it and she went off saying i take her for granted and im selfish and all these other things. Well we didnt talk for the rest of the day and for most of today. But then she randomly IMed me like nothing had happend and like she hadnt said anything. I read her online journal and she said that she wasnt going to apologize because she didnt do or say anything wrong. But i think she did. maybe not as much what she said but how she said it. I dont know if i should tell her how i feel and talk with her about it risking her getting mad about it. or should i just hold it in and forget about it?
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I think you should talk about it. Holding it in won't make anything better. In fact, it will build up and then one day like explode, making the matter worse. Soo, talk to her! Good luck.
-Brianna
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what are some topics to talk about with a boy you just met besides the basics? it's getting kind of boring talking to him. (link)
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Ask him about his family, past relationships, friends, cars, fav. movies, things like that!
-Brianna
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I am soo confused I cant figure it out...how would you know if ur bi or straight bc i thought i was straight but now im trying to find out bc i dont think its wrong to be bi and theirs nothing wrong w kissing another girl to me that is so please answer back ill rate also (link)
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You know what your sexual preference is when you aren't questioning whether you are straight or bi or whatever. You might just be having mixed feelings right now. Follow your heart.
-Brianna
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hey this is nikki okay my best friend is mad at me and i dont know why she wont talk to me or look at me and i dont know what i did to make her mad. well anyways she was all happy yesterday at school but when she got back from the feild trip i called her and i was talking to her and she said who is this and i said nikki she goes what i aked her what was the matter and she said nothing and then she was like call me back later so i fell asleep anyways she got on the bus and was pissed for some reason i tried to talk to her but she kept telling me that nothing was wrong with her so i dont know what to do. i mean how can i get her to talk to me she wont even look at me or anything can you plz help (link)
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That sucks. Maybe someone told her that you were talking about her or some shit like that. Just talk to her and try to find out what you did. Obviously, something is wrong with her if she is acting like that. Apologize for whatver it is too. Sorry hunnie and good luck!
-Brianna
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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
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Sounds like you a little bit jealous. If she says you are her best friend, then you are. Take her word for it. If it is bothering you that much, talk to her about how you feel. Good luck.
-Brianna
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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate! (link)
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They are just stretch marks. Put Palmers Cocoa Butter on them!
-Brianna
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It's my new roommates birthday tomorrow. She's going to turn 23, and she's been living with us for the past 2 months. She rents out a room in our house and goes to school in San Francisco. My mother, her and I have become really close and it feels like she's just like a sister to me now. We are going out to dinner tomorrow for her birthday because she has no family that lives around here. I have no idea what an appropriate gift could be to get her. I was thinking maybe I could make her a simple card or something. Any ideas? Thanks! (link)
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Get her a gift certificate to somewhere she likes.
-Brianna
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Lately at night I've been having this weird problem. Like all of a sudden my chest hurts like in the middle and it gets harder to breath. It feels like I can't take a deep breath. Then I get this weird whistling noise in my nose when I exhale. Sometimes this happens for a little bit during the day too. It isn't really that bad but it's pretty annoying. At home I can usually try not to panic until it goes away because I feel more comfortable. The problem is Wednesday-Friday my grade is going to Washington DC. I'm not sure what I should do if I start feeling bad or begin to panic. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Hey, I just got back from D.C with my grade. Lol, but anyways, tell your mom or whoever your guardian is. They can give you some nasal stuff. If that doesn't help then go to the doctor, you could have like a respiratory infection. Good luck.
-Brianna
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My bestfriend(15) , this guy(15), and I(14) all go to that same church. Now my bestfriend and this guy are going out and their parents dont know about itand are completely against them being friends. There hole relation ship is based on rebelion and she realizes it but says she doesnt care at least not right now. He has hurt her a couple of times and she still refuses to see it. She won't listen to any of her friends including me. What the heck am i supposed to do, just sit back and watch??? (link)
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Ugh, that sucks. You are in the same situation as I was a few months ago. Just try telling her. Chances are, she won't listen to you. She will just have to learn the hard way. There is nothing else you really can do. Sorry.
-Brianna
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I like this girl and we used to go out.
we had something really special before but some shit happened and the relationship went sour.
She had a b/f when we were dating. She doesn't have the some feeling for me anymore but i still like her. I think she borke up with her b/f now and going out with other guy.
I really like her but i don't think i should still thinking about her.
Anyone knows how can i forget about a girl who i like a lot??? (link)
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It will be hard, but try to go out and meet new people. Think of what she has done that was wrong to you in the past. Think of all the negatives about her (if there are any, I'm sure there are) and just think about different things throughout the day.
-Brianna
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My cat has no cat fod and shes really really hungry..i loooked for some tuna at least for her but no, and teh pet store is closed, and i found some sardines..can i give my cat some sardines?? there was sardines in mustard, tomato sause, and soybean oil, should i give her the one in soybean oil or will it make her sick?? i need an answer quick cuz she needs her dinner!! thanks! (link)
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I think you should give her sardines, you can give her chicken if you have any left overs or whatever. I think she will live one day without food if you don't even feed her.
-Brianna
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Ok, I've been seeing this guy for almost 4 years (I know, quite a long time!) I met him at uni and now I am in my final year at uni and he is working miles away. We have never been apart like this before as we were always together at uni.
I have mixed feelings about how much longer I want the relationship to go on for. Whenever we speak on the phone he says something stupid or puts me in a bad mood and makes me unhappy.
I feel I want some time to be young free and single especially as I have been witht the same guy for such a long time. Surely these signs mean it won't last??
Also, I went for dinner with some friends of my flatmate and I met this guy who I found really attractive.
I would never ever cheat on my boyfriend but why am I thinking of this other guy all the time when I should be thinking about my boyfriend?
We all went out last night to a club and he was there. He walked me home. Nothing happened but it was so nice to have some attention from someone else and for some reason he made me feel more wanted than my boyfriend does.
Help!! I am so frustrated I don't know what to do! Even if anything did happen, this guy goes back to Australia at the end of May.
Thank you so much if u do reply - i really appreciate it and will give you all 5's! x (link)
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It seems like you are getting sick of your boyfriend because you guys have been together soo long. You are soo used to how he treats you. I think, if you have feelings for this guy, then go for him. It is obvious that he makes you happier!
-Brianna
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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
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Don't worry, your period is irregular for a while. That means, you won't know when you'll get it and for how many days. It can be that you are skipping this one. Lucky you! Lol, nothing to be worried about.
-Brianna
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Well this is what happens:
[PLEASE READ RATE 5 ***** BIT LONG LOL]
Me and my mates say to our mate Hannah, your voice sounds like a mans voice, we say it in a kind of nice way, jokey if you get what i mean. Then the head of year comes intoday to our form room while in PSE and calls my name out and a group of my friends the 5 of us including the head of year go down to the inclussion zone, where the bad kids go and miss there lunch/break etc. We went in and she accsorted us to sit down they have a desk and a chair then a blue screening where you stick posters/displays on, then another desk and chair and a screen its like that so you have no comunication with any1. She called us in to a little room 1 by 1 and asked us about the name calling thing. I went in and told her that we were joking about and stuff but ovboiusly she took it seriously.. i felt so let down by one of my OWN friends. Also this other girl called grace ive apparently been "bullying" just by saying, "look at your selfs before you critizize others," becuase she and her mate elli were taking the piss out of my chubby mate sal calling her fat and ugly n stuff. So that is 2 reports in the last 24 hours so it got put on my system "BULLY" hannah was ment to be my friend but dobbed me in our group joke. im not sure weather to be her friend after this? I mean if i be or get reported again then it gets even seriouser, and i could do this by ignoring her, touching her, giving her dirt looks like evils and stuff. But im pissed off with her so of course im going to do that and grace and elli do it to me so im not gonna let them so i stick up for myself.. but then i get told off badly again. So yeah my so called friend dobbed me in our joke.. should i trust her again?
SORRY ITS LONG RATE 5 *****
xx lush meh xx (link)
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Even though you were only joking with your friend, you could have still hurt her feelings. I mean think about it, if someone told you that you sounded like a man, would you laugh? Second thing, talk to her and apologize. Try hard not to dirty look the other girl or whatever and talk to them. Good luck.
-Brianna
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I have hair that is medium length (about 4 inches past shoulder length), medium brown, and have sideswept bangs. I have paleish skin and brown eyes and dark eyebrows...I want to dye my hair red. What shade of red would be best (I want a store kit). I don't want the color to make me look ruddy. Help! (link)
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Deff. get a darker red. You don't want a light red with dark eyebrows. Good luck.
-Brianna
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my friend and i where always good friends but lately when i started to seem to like a guy she starts to like them to. like a few days ago i started to like a guy but then asked her if she liked him she said yeah. i dont want to sound mean but if i get to like someone and he meets her she wont notice but shell steal him. and th other day shes says ill leave him 4 u but then a week later she said i think ill ask him out. what can i do to make myself happier and not end our friend ship. 13/f (link)
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That sucks. Tell her how you feel about the situation and that you really like him. Also, tell her that you would do the same for her if she liked a guy first. Remind her that she said she will leave him for you!
-Brianna
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i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help! (link)
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Some people are blessed with great hear. Aussie has great styling products that will reduce frizz so does John Freida and Garnier Frutice. I also like Pantene Pro V. They all work well, depending on your hair!
-Brianna
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I'm going to camp in the summer for the first time in my life. (I'm 14) I've known my friends for 3 years and they've never known me without makeout. I don't use alot but a little bit of eyeliner makes a hugeee difference! Anyways, I don't know what I should do because I don't want my friends to see me makeup-less...I mean, with makeup, I look "decent" but without, you won't even recognize me on the street. I look horrible! Please don't say..your friends should love you for you..I'm very self concious about myself and I really want to know what to do. Thanks in advance-I rate! (link)
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Then wear make up. Simple as that. Lol...
-Brianna
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is there anyway i can get a guy to know that i like him without being obnoxiously flirty? im really shy so flirting isnt really an option for me. i rate high! i dont want to just come out and say that i do like him because he could just be like "i dont like you that way" and i couldnt handle something like that (link)
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Well, you can have a friend ask him if he likes you or have a friend tell him that you like him. Flirt with him in moderations, like hint to him that you like him. I have never heard of an obnoxious flirt. Lol, but anyways good luck!
-Brianna
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well i got certain dri on tuesday,it worked amazing,but on friday i started to use it everyother day.then on saturday i used it again and on sunday i used it again.but it seems to be not working.is there something wrong.please help.thanks (link)
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Go to the doctor?
-Brianna
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