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okay well i dont want any "you should always use a condom" answers because yeah, i know that. on july 26th me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. he pulled out both times before he came. then on the 28th we did it again. only this time he didnt ejaculate at all during sex. i got my period the 29th and usually it is heavy and lasts for about a week. but since the 2nd day it has been going a little from about 8 am to 6 pm and then completely stopping until the next day. and then i never got it today. i have went to the bathroom multiple times in the past 30 minutes and its been like that all day. ive been pretty exhausted lately and havent been feeling good. my mom noticed that my stomach was starting to putrude a little bit but i have been eating like a horse because im soo hungry lately. i have also been getting these really bad headaches. is it to early to have all these symptoms or should i go get a test soon?

The pull out method does NOT work. My 5 year old God-daughter can tell you that. Even if he doesn't cum, he still can pre-cum and that contains alot of sperm all by itself. Yea it is to early to be having these symptoms. You won't start to show till at the earliest, your 4th month. and most ppl don't even get pregnancy symptoms till the earliest, 2-3 months. In either way, go get a pregnancy test just to be sure.

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Hi i'm 15/f and me and my boyfriend are starting to have sex and are moving slow. I was wondering how to get birth control if you don't have a Plan Parent hood and you live in a small town wear everyone knows you. I want to make sure that everything is okay before trying again and I've done some research and I want to know if it is necsesary if I don't have sex really often maybe only once every couple of months or so? Thanks

You could only have sex one time a year and still get pregnant. You ovulate EVERY month. It's very simple for you to get on birth-control. Every city has a Health Department. Call and make your self an appointment. Because you are under the age of 18, the state will pay for everything, no bills, NOTHING. Another great thing about them is you don't have to have your parents know ANYTHING. They'll never call your house, mail anything there or nothing. My 17 year old sister's been going there for a year now and my mom still don't have a clue.

Google or yahoo search EX: North Carolina Health Department

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hi, yea ok let me tell you how one of my best friends so and so is hooking up with sombody i really like...and its not like she doesnt know it, she does no how i feel about him and hes keeps like making out with him infront of me and everything....and it hurts me SO much. i really dont no what to say to her. She keeps saying, "o yea jus tell me anything and ill do wat i can to stop it." so yea what should i do?

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Your best-friends is "hooking up" with a guy she KNOWS you have feelings for? (I'm 24, so hooking up still means fu*king right? lol) Her little comments about I'll do what I can to stop it? Yea she aint even trying! I would let her know that was the end of our friendship. If she cared so much about you, yall's friendship and most of all, YOUR FEELINGS, she wouldn't of done this in the first place. Tell her she can have him, but you hope it was worth it.

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i like a girl and she cant make out good how can i help her out with out herting her feelings?

Don't let her know she sucks in that department!
Like one day in yall's make~out session pull away and smile and say something funny/cute like, "Now, this is how I roll" and then lean in and show her how it's done.

Another option would be to take like a kissing survey online, print it out and show it to her and laugh about it. Let her see your Answers to the questions about drooling, and other things. This will clue her in on what you like and don't like without you having to actually tell her.

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Im 18y old im with my boyfrain a year now. i speand a lot of many when we go out cuz i have good job and he dont. He always ask me for money and he know the will give to him becouas i love him. But the think is the he tell me the i know he have bad jobb i know the paid when he had one. But ever one else tell me the he using me and the he just want my money but i fell it not try. But it just me.. I dont know what to do i just move away from him it 1 for him to get my hous he has a car and he dont come to see me he just want me to come. and tell me he love me but just he the first persone who i had sex with he the one who rely fole in love with. Help me i dont know what to do
becouas i rely love him.. it big problam.

I'm guessing whatever your good paying job is, it's not teaching English or Literature.

Yes it sound's like he's using you. Just talk to him about how you feel. That's the only way you'll ever get to the bottom of all this.

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exactly how do you grind with a guy?. like where do you put your hands...just tell me everything you know about grinding.. thanks

Ok all you have to do is well this is hard to explain..uhh ok so your dancing right? and all of a sudden a guy comes up from behind you and puts his hands on your hips…you can either move your hips (and hopefully that moves your a$$) and you push against his you kno..lol that area, and move your a$$ in slow (SLOW movements, really slow!!) circular motions. If you want you can reach around and put your hands on his neck..he’ll like that..lol believe me But if you wanna' grind from the front just almost straddle his leg..one of them and move in yet again, a circular motion and push the front of you (hopefully you know what part im talkin bout lol) against his hip..or his area..this is hard to explain..my advice is to watch Save The Last Dance…they show a lot of grinding in the club lol hope this helps you!! have fun!

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I really like the Virgin Mary tattoos. I think they look really good. Problem is, I'm a Christian and as you know, the Virgin Mary, is a Cathelect (sp) thing.

Do you think it would be wronge for me to get one even though I'm a Christian?


P.S;; I'm 26 and have other tattoos. So please, don't lecture me about them or anything.

Thanks. =]

I have nothing against tattoo's at all. Im 24 and have 5 of them myself.

Ok, so about your tattoo, I wouldn't get the Virgin Mary just for the simple fact that your not Catholic. A tattoo represents something that is dear to you, a part of you, something you believe in. So this would be a contradiction. How about a cross or something else that's related to religion? Here's a website that has thousands of tattoo's.. I know you didn't ask for it but sometimes when you get to looking at all of them, you happen to find one that you'll just die if you don't get...so you never know!
http://www.likemytattoo.com/

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i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/

There's not going to be a "EASY" way out of this. Break-up's are just horrible for everyone involved. If they were easy, I'm sure there's alot of ppl that would be filing for a divorce right now instead of staying UN-happily married. Think long and hard about your decesion before you act on it. Imagine your life without your current boyfriend in it. No phone calls, no Hey, whatcha doin? NOTHING. Not saying he would never speak to you again but 1 year is a long time and it's better to prepare yourself in knowing that quite possibly he'll be so hurt he want won't to talk to you again. Now, I'm not trying to play pitty-party here.. In no way should you stay with him if you don't want to. Ultimatley it's your life and your happiness were talking about here. You do what is going to make you happy. You deserve that-everyone does. Maybe write him a letter, that seems to be best as to where maybe if you said it in person, you wouldn't get up the nerve to say everything you wanted to say. Don't let him know you want another guy. That just makes the break-up hurt even worser knowing the woman you love is with some other dude. Just tell him you feel like you need some space at this point in your life and that you'll always love and care for him and hope that yall two can still be friends?
-Hope this helps.

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I have an 8 year old son who will be going into 3rd grade.

He played little league baseball this year and loved it.

He had his first football practice yesterday and he wasn't as thrilled about it. Today when it was time for practice he said he didn't want to go. Then when we got there, 1 hour into it he came off the field complaining that he felt like he was gonna throw up. I was concerned about the heat, it's really unusually hot here in upstate NY. But he looked ok, face color normal and he wasn't showing signs of heat exhaustion so I gave him a drink and made him go back out. Not even 5 minutes passed and he was complaining again. This time he refused to go back out and started crying.

So I took him home early and now he is just fine. I KNOW that he was faking it because he didn't want to play anymore.

My problem is, what should I do?

I don't want to push him into playing football if he really doesn't wanna play. But at the same time, he has only been to 2 practices and I feel like he should give it a fair chance before I let him quit. Plus we paid over $100 for him to be on this team.

Should I force him to play, for at least 2 weeks before letting him quit? Or should I just let him quit now?

Thanks for your help

How hot was it out there? Where I live (NC)...according to the news, it was 98 degrees with a heat index of 115. That 115 number is for the people that are actually outside not just standing around, but playing, running or working. It's letting you know to be very careful. Possibly his problem WAS that it was just to hot for him. *(If)* your going to insist that he play, make sure he stays hydrated. Being that you paid so much for him to play, I would try to make him go to a couple more practice's though. He need's to understand that $100.00 dollars is not a small amount of money and that yall could have used that to pay bills if he was just going to quit. Tell him he has to go to like 3 more practice's and maybe by then, he will of gotten use to it more, the heat, and the other players and hopefully want to stay. When he's not doing football, is he usually indoors with the AC? If other that football, he's indoors where it's nice and cool that's probably why he doesn't want to do it.. Not because he's going to pass out but because he thinks it's to hot outside.

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alright well my boyfriend and i have been getting very serious about our relationship. and we havent FULLY had sex yet but i mean hes gotten to my downstairs with his without a condom. he knows how to control his cum so i trusted him. my cherry hasnt been popped yet either..so i guess im still pretty virgin...but what i was wondering was like do you think even though my cherry has not been popped (atleast i dont think so because i havent bled like everyone says you do) something could happen?

You can't "control" your cum. Maybe you ment to word it differently? Also, he's gotten to your downstairs with his? And that means? Yall had sex? JUST BECAUSE YOU DIDNT BLEED DOESNT MEAN YOUR STILL A VIRGIN. Sex is sex is sex. blood or lack there of has nothing to do with being a virgin or not.

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I have been trying to find how to make a quiff on the ponytail like gwen stefani does. Ya know...like that little poof in the front. i have tried pinning it but my hair splits. I have looked alll over the internet and cannot find anything!!! does anyone have any directions for how to do it?

1. Blow-dry your hair straight or very loose long waves.
2. Take out the front section of your hair across your forehead from temple to temple, about 6cm deep.
3. It does not matter if you have a fringe as this can be incorporated into the look, but you may need to take the section slightly deeper if you do. Clip out of the way for now.
4. Draw the sides of your hair back off your face smoothly and either pin or ponytail using a covered band at the crown. Leave the back of your hair to fall loosely over your shoulders.
5. Now take the top section now backcomb heavily to give lots of support. Hairspray is invaluable when creating this look, spray it onto each section as you backcomb it to give extra hold. 6. If you have a fringe, some strands may be left out and the rest incorporated into the quiff.
7. Once you resemble someone who's just been given an electric shock, take a paddle brush and smooth the outer surface of this section, drawing back to the crown but leaving it looped forwards enough to form the quiff. The trick here is not to untangle the backcombed hair underneath.
8. Pin or wrap the ends of the hair around the hair already secured at the crown, and continue to smooth and fix your quiff into the desired effect using the hairspray.

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I know this might maybe sound stupid but how do you know when your boyfriend is cheating on you or like doesnt like you anymore or is getting board of you ????

Signs of Infidelity #1: New Friends, New Tastes in Music, Art, Movies, Books?

Signs of Infidelity #2: Avoids for no real/good reason mutual friends/acquaintances/Places you used to frequent?

Signs of Infidelity #3: Start arguments over small, petty reasons and leave the house when angry?

Signs of Infidelity #4: Change in sexual desires. Unusual Viagra usage?

Signs of Infidelity #5: Sudden interest in exercise and diet.

Signs of Infidelity #6: Appearance and Hygiene.

Signs of Infidelity #7: Suspicious Vehicle activities.

Signs of Infidelity #8: Change in Schedule and Work Schedule. Leaving work earlier, or coming home later? Is overtime on pay stubs?

Signs of Infidelity #9: Questions Your Schedule and Your Fidelity.

Signs of Infidelity #10: Suspicious Home Phone Activities.

Signs of Infidelity #11: Suspicious Cell Phone Activities.

Signs of Infidelity #12: Suspicious Computer Activities.

Signs of Infidelity #13: General Disinterest in Family Events.

Signs of Infidelity #14: Does he suddenly offer to run errands or do his own laundry?

Signs of Infidelity #15: Miscellanous Major Warning Signs.

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all of the clothes i own are 100% cotton which shrink in the dryer up to nothing. i cant find any shirts that arent like that. for that reason, i cant put any of my shirts in the dryer. because of that, my clothes are all wrinkled. my mom refuses to iron and i tried to iron and i burned a hole in my shirt. i dont know what i can do to not make my shirts so wrinkly. please help!!

You could buy a clothes drying rack at wal-mart or dry them in the dryer on the COOL setting. Putting them on HIGH heat is actually what makes it shrink. When I have something that don't need to be any more tighter- I just pop it in the dryer on the cool setting.

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my mom and i switched cameras but she still has pictures on her camera (now mine) and she wants them loaded to a CD because she needs them for work. its just a regular recordable CD. i cant use a floppy because my laptop cant take them but i dont know how to put pictures on a CD. does anybody know how to do this?

please? im not allowed to officially have her camera until i get her pix off!!

1. Load the pics on the computer.
2. On each pic, right click SEND TO:
3. Click DVD-RW Drive (E:)
4. After you've done that to 1 pic, a little bubble should pop up near where your clock is.
5. The message should say: You have files waiting to br written to the CD. To see the files now, click this balloon.
6. Go ahead and click on it, but keep it minimized till your through clicking on all the pictures you want.
7. When your done with all the picures you want, bring up that minimized window and In the left hand corner, click WRITE THESE FILES TO A CD.
8. Then you insert a CD and poof! your done.

P.S. Once the CD is done, you can play it in your DVD player just like a movie...it's pretty cool.

Hope this helps ya' :)

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okay so im a girl and people say that you should clean your "down there" but i dont have a douche is it safe to use like regular soap? or something like that??

Most doctors say that it is best to let your vagina clean itself. The vagina cleans itself naturally by producing mucous. Women do not need to douche to wash away blood, semen, or vaginal discharge. The vagina gets rid of it alone. Also, it is important to note that even healthy, clean vaginas may have a mild odor.

Regular washing with warm water and mild soap during baths and showers will keep the outside of the vagina clean and healthy.

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Alright, I realized shaving "down there" isn't that hard, you just have to be careful...But after I get out of the shower, I don't think it appears right away, but I get little bumps around the area. Like, razor burn I want to call it. How do I avoid this???? Do you put lotion around the area like you do on your legs? hellpppp

shanks.

Razor burn is caused by hair that is pushed back into the follicle. It can become inflamed and then develop into an ingrown hair. This is not to be confused with cuts and scrapes that can happen if your shave improperly. Both razor burn and skin scrapes can feel the same, but the cause is different. Razor burn develops a short time AFTER shaving, so you probably don't notice it right away. You KNOW when you've cut or scraped yourself - immediately when it happens.

Use a clean, sharp razor
Regardless of the advertising claims, razor blades get dull fairly quickly. The thicker the beard the quicker the blade dulls. I've found it best to use a new blade every two to three shaves. That may seem costly, but the same thing happens to electric razor blades. They start out sharp and stay that way longer than the manual razors, but they soon loose their edge

Use plenty of water when shaving - the hotter the better. If you use a quality shaving oil you can add water as you shave

Always shave in the direction of the hair growth
It seems more efficient to try cutting against the grain to get the most of the hair. That really isn't the case. If the hair is moistened well and you use a good shaving oil or gel you should be able to get a close shave by shaving in the direction the hair grows. If you are prone to razor burn shaving against the grain will make matters worse.

Use a a shaving oil or gel rather than a cream to help avoid clogging the pores
The Compounder's Total Shaving Solution is the best shaving product I've ever used. You wet the skin with hot water, apply just a few drops and start shaving. You can add more water anytime to keep things moving smoothly.

Avoid passing the razor over the same area of skin numerous times
If the hair isn't removed in a pass or two, more rubbing will just make matters worse for the razor burn and it won't cut the hair any better.

These tips can certainly help prevent razor burn in the future, but what can you do if yu already have it? Is there a home remedy for razor burn - once you already have it? Start by washing the area with a mild soap. Rinse with warm water and pat dry. This will soften the skin and allow the trapped hairs to grow without getting trapped beneath the skin.

If there is redness you may want to apply hydrocortisone cream. Only use this once or twice a day for just a couple of days. A more effective home remedy for razor burn would be a cream or gel that contains aloe vera. Apply it twice a day.

HOPE THIS HELPS!!~

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14/f

Hi, I was wondering if anyone knows of any stores that have clothes for people with bigger bodies, sort of like plus size clothes and stuff, but nice clothes. I know aeropostale has good clothes, but their shirts are short and I don't like them very much. All I'm really looking for are casual clothes stuff that goes good with jeans and shorts. Thanks guys = ]

Old Navy, Goody's, It's Fashion, Citi Trends, Wal-mart, Fashion Bug.

(-I don't know where your from so I apoligize if you dont' have these stores. There here in NC)

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if you took a pregnancy test and it came out positve can you still have your period every month or does it mean you lost the baby

A pregnancy test can give you a false positive. It "calculates" the pregnancy hormone levels in your body and that's how it know wether to give a positive or negative on the test. Did you get your pregnancy verified by a doctor? No you don't have periods while your pregnant but you can bleed while your pregnant. Alot of ppl mis-carriage so early on in there pregnancy that they never even knew they were pregnant. The utereus empties itself like a HEAVY period. Other reasons for bleeding during pregnancy is a hormonial imbalance or other neurological problems. Hope this helps you better understand.

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My bf always tells me to ask him questions, but i never have any, i know alot about him already. can sombody give me a list (as long as possible please)

HAVE YOU EVER...
Watched the stars?
Had stiches or broken bone?
Flashed someone?
Had Sex?
Dranced in the rain?
Kissed in the rain?
Done something you regret?
Been in love?
Skipped a class?

Name one person who has changed your life?
What are you best qualties?
What are your worst qualties?
What do you have low tolerance for?
Personality trait you find unattractive?
Do you go out in public in your Pjs?
What the best advice?
What do you look for in a friend?

What the person you love right nows name?
Who's your bestfriend?
Who were the last people you hung out with?
Who's two people you miss the most?
What do you hate about urself right now?
Wheres your x girlfriend right now?
What the last movie you saw?
Who died recently?
Do you care about your parents?
Do you get along with your parents?
The person you love now do they love you?
What are your plans for the day?
Have you ever moved?
If so when and where?
Do you want to run away?
Have you done drugs?
Have you ever been drunk?
How many times have you ran away?
Did you stay over night before?
Have the cops ever taken u home?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
If you went to a police station would they say Hi like you where family?
Do you tell people the truth if you think there Ugly?


LOL THIS TOOK ME A WHILE!! BUT...I'M SURE YOU'LL LOOK FORWARD TO HIS ANSWERS!! :)

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how do you have cyber sex? like what is it and where do you have it? also what is phone sex? i dont understand..

Cyber Sex: A encounter in which two or more persons connected remotely via a computer network send one another sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. It is a form of role-playing in which the participants pretend they are having actual sexual intercourse, by describing their actions and responding to their chat partners in a mostly written form designed to stimulate their own sexual feelings and fantasies. It sometimes includes masturbation.

Phone sex: Sexually explicit conversation between two or more persons via telephone, especially when at least one of the participants masturbates or engages in sexual fantasy. Phone sex conversation may take many forms, including sexual feelings or love; discussion of very personal and sensitive sexual topics; or just two people listening to each other masturbate.

Phone sex exists both in the context of intimate relationships, e.g. among distanced lovers, and as a commercial transaction between a paying customer and a paid professional.

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