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Question Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 6:34 am

alright well my boyfriend and i have been getting very serious about our relationship. and we havent FULLY had sex yet but i mean hes gotten to my downstairs with his without a condom. he knows how to control his cum so i trusted him. my cherry hasnt been popped yet either..so i guess im still pretty virgin...but what i was wondering was like do you think even though my cherry has not been popped (atleast i dont think so because i havent bled like everyone says you do) something could happen?

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Melody answered Saturday August 5 2006, 10:34 am:
When you say "do you think something could happen"
do you mean pregnancy or STDs? If so, yes something could happen. You can get pregnant by precum and it doesn't matter if he can 'control is cum' or not. If there hasn't been any penetration, the chance of you being pregnant is very low, but also possible. So be careful.

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helpfromhavco answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 7:02 pm:
Hey, my names haven...

first of all, your boyfriends a liar beacuse you CANNOT control cum ok. thats ridiculous thing to say. and Yea, your not a virgin. And yes, something could happen. Having your cherry popped doesnt mean that nothing could happen. Once u get your period, anyting could happen. Juse be careful

love always,

..:havco:..

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kristen22 answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 5:40 pm:
You can't "control" your cum. Maybe you ment to word it differently? Also, he's gotten to your downstairs with his? And that means? Yall had sex? JUST BECAUSE YOU DIDNT BLEED DOESNT MEAN YOUR STILL A VIRGIN. Sex is sex is sex. blood or lack there of has nothing to do with being a virgin or not.

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sweetascandy7364 answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 4:18 pm:
Sorry but you can't control your cum its physically impossible, and be careful you have a good chance at getting pregnet.

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ReginaNGretchen answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 1:12 pm:
Sorry hun, you're not a virgin. Also there is no way to control the "cum." There are a million other ways for sperm to enter and if you haven't been using a condem....well lets hope you're not pregnant and if you are, maybe next time you'll be a little more sensible!

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tjam106 answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 12:48 pm:
Hi,

Just because your cherry hasn't popped, that does not mean you are a virgin. Sorry honey, but not everyone has that cherry popping experience. If his penis has physically entered your vagina, you are not a virgin. And even though your boyfriend thinks he can control his cum, there is a such thing as pre-ejaculation. That means he can cum inside of you without knowing it. You absolutely CAN get pregnant doing what you are doing. Be careful! You need to wear a condom each and every time, and if I were you I would talk to my parents and if that is not an option go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood and get myself some birth control. Good luck and take care!

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XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday August 2 2006, 12:48 pm:
Yes something could happen. You two could get carried away, and even if he thinks he can control his <u>ejaculations</u> there could be a time, when he cant, which probably might happen. Always always always, practice safe sex. Evidently, theres no telling you now that you shouldnt because you could get pregnant and such. But, you can start right now, practicing safe sex by using a condom, birth control, etc. Your probably not a virgin. Your "cherry" doesnt need to pop to be unvirginized. If you had intercourse with him, then your not a virgin. Sometimes women don't bleed after having intercourse. I suggest, have your boyfriend start using a condom. Its not too late to practice abstinence. Hope I helped. Happy Summer :)


-Brina

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