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Shes wreckin me.
hi, yea ok let me tell you how one of my best friends so and so is hooking up with sombody i really like...and its not like she doesnt know it, she does no how i feel about him and hes keeps like making out with him infront of me and everything....and it hurts me SO much. i really dont no what to say to her. She keeps saying, "o yea jus tell me anything and ill do wat i can to stop it." so yea what should i do?
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Your best-friends is "hooking up" with a guy she KNOWS you have feelings for? (I'm 24, so hooking up still means fu*king right? lol) Her little comments about I'll do what I can to stop it? Yea she aint even trying! I would let her know that was the end of our friendship. If she cared so much about you, yall's friendship and most of all, YOUR FEELINGS, she wouldn't of done this in the first place. Tell her she can have him, but you hope it was worth it.
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As I always say, I think it is important to be honest in your relationships. That means ALL relationships. Boyfriends, friends, parents, etc.
You need to tell her straight out how you feel about what she's doing to you. Let her know how it hurts you that she's dating someone you like. If you already told her, be sure to say, "Hey, don't do that crap in front of me. It isn't cool at all that you are smearing this right in my face."
If she is a real friend, she will stop blatantly hurting you. If she does change the way she goes about her display of affection with this guy, then let it go. Because if she's friend enough to respect how you feel, it's not worth letting a guy come between your friendship.
Also, you have to take into consideration her feelings. Maybe she really likes him and he really likes her. If she stops throwing it in your face out of respect for your feelings, you got to give her the same respect.
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wow you dont need her as a friend, if she was your real friend she wouldnt do that to you. She a backstabber i would suggest you stop being friends with her now before you get hurt even more.
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I understand what youu meann! You can't really blame her for going out with someone you likee! Honestly, you might have done the samee. Go out with someone your friends likes! Don't worry about it, they'll break up! I completely understand what you mean when they're kissing. That's simple, just ask her to stop doing it in front of youu. You could ask one of your friends to ask herr and they could sayy, "I wouldn't get physical in front of (your name here), it might make her feel uncomfortable."
*Hope I Helped*
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