about

Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

advice

My bestfriend asked me if she could go out wit my ex-boyfriend whom i had dated 4 about 10 months before we broke up. I wondered why she would take interest in someone she barely knew. Later i found out that she had been talking to him behind my back. So i told her we couldnt be friends anymore and i haven't talked 2 her 4 about a year and my ex-boyfriend, whom i still remained friends with after the breakup, is not apart of my circle of friends any longer. So my question is "Did I Do The Right Thing By Cutting Them Both Off?"

i mean, 10 months IS a long time. so you had a right to be mad, and you felt like she betrayed you.. which she did.
she was talking to him behind your back and then when the opportunity came to be in a relatonship with him, she THEN asked you if she could be his girlfriend .. like, thats low. if she wanted to keep the both of you in her life, she would have told you right off the bat that she was talking to him BEFORE she wanted more.
and its kind of an unspoken rule for your best friends to NOT go out with your exboyfriends of like, 10 months. its just not right and obviously, its going to be awkward and make you mad/upset.
so in my oppinion, yes, you did do the right thing by cutting them both off. never second guess yourself. you followed your heart and cut them off so you could feel better. but my opinion doesnt matter, the only thing that matters is if YOU think you did the right thing. but again, yes, i think you did the right thing. i believe that anyone in your situation would have done exactly what you did .. including me.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] xxo.

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soo me and my ex havent talked in about a month in a half.
and i decided id be nice and text him and ask him how he is and stuff. but i thought he wouldnt text me back but he did. so heres are whollllle conversation.

me: hey youu. how have you been?
him: good how bout you?
me: im goood (: ive been in florida for about a week and im really sunburned so its hurts haha
him:haha that sucks im sorry
me: its all good. what have you been up to?
Him: nothing but working it sucks what about you
Me. Haha you always work but nothing on spring break so ive been down here with my auntt
Him: so do you have a boyfriend?
Me: welll hes not my boyfriend but were kinda together I guess. Do you have a gf?
Him: yeah same girl
Me: that’s cuteee.
Him: yeah do you still miss me
Me: of coursee. Do you?
Him: yeah so are you still coming down here soon
ME: in the summer probably
Him: sounds fun. We should hangout
Me: we should (:
Him: for sure. So are you still really cute?
Me: hahah i dont knoww.
Him: you should send me a picture
Me: I don’t think your girlfreind would like thattt.
Him: well do you promise not to say anything
ME: hahah who would I tell..
Him: true so send me one
ME: if I get one
Him: after work
Me: alrightt
Him: can I have any good ones?
Me: no not having what happened last time
Him: I said sorry so many times bri. I swear its me. Im at work till 1.
ME: I believe youu. Im still not gonna do it though.
Him: fine but can I have a pic
( I sent one)
Him: damn I wish you would of never cheated on me
Me: yeah me too :[
Him: so I say you owe me a good pic for that
Me: hah I sent you plenty that one night and you have a gf. Im sure you were just like this to other girls when we were together
Him: no I really liked you I wasn’t going to mess you up
Me: suree
Him: I swear I was good to you there was something about you I didn’t know what it was
Me: what do you mean?
Him: like I liked you so much treated you so good never cheated on you there was something about you that made me always think about you
Me: yeah same here. It fucking sucks. Ive been doing so good this past month and now im gonna fucking cry.
Him: im not trying to be mean but it was your fault you did mess up
Me: yeah I know :/
Him:well don’t cry we can get back together when you come down if youre not with anyone
Me: no don’t tell me that cuase I know that’s not gonna happen. You have a gf. Youre just not gonna break up with her for me. And im not sure if im gonna go down there yet/
Him: for you yeah I would and try your hardest
Me:well whats that point of being with her if youre just gonna leave her in a couple months anyways
Him: well if you come down and we hangout maybe I will change my mind and forgive you
Me: :[
Him: so you should really try and come down
Me: I will but i dont know if it will happen . Or in the summer ill drive a couple hours and you can too and we can meet somewhere cause I really wanna see you and miss you.
Him: well if you do it I will do it. Wil lyou really do it?
Me: yeah if im not gonna come down there in the summer and I mean all this so you better not be bullshitting me.
Him: im not. I swear. I don’t lie to you. But have you had sex with anyone else.
Me: nope (:
Him: swear?
Me: I swear
Him: ok well can I have a good pic please
Me: nooo
Him: the only way you will get a pic of me is if I get a good one/
Me: ugh fine. But its an old one.
Him: who all do you send pics too?
Me: no one.
( I sent it)
Him: back up. I cant see.
Me: seriously?
Him: yeah/
(I did)
Him: you suck at taking pics.
ME: im pretty sure its your phone cause you can see on my phone.
Him: can I have one more. Thsts really good
Me: no.
Him: fine.
Me: do you really miss me or are you just saying htat?
Him: why would I just say it. that’s stupid
Me: i dont know…
Him: do you still love me?
Me: I always will.
Him: ok good
Me: do you still love me?
Him: I guess you will have to find out
Me: and how am I suppose to do that?
Him:wait till we see eachtoher
Me: finee :[
Him: so what you doing
Me: laying in bed crying hah. You?
Him: y you crying
Me: causee.
Him: cause why. Tell me.
Me: cause I fucking miss you. And I hate how some other girl has you. You were always suppose to be mine.
Him: yeah well I didn’t do it
Me: I know.
Him: so have you met any guys down there.
Me: yeah some.
Him: so do you like them?
Me: haha noo.
Me: so are you happy I texted you.
Him: yeah are you.
Me: I iguess so. But im a total mess now.
Him: why./
Me:: you know why. I honeslty didn’t think you wre gonna text me back.
Him: why
Me: cause we havent talked in forever so I thought you wre just fine without me
Him: well that’s not true. But im going to sleep
Me: yeah I am tooo. Text me tomorrow if you want. Goodnight.
Him: night.
He never text me that day and I texted him like three times. And he finnaly said ill text you tomorrow. He never did that either.

my question is waht should i do? do you think he wa lying to me?

yes, i think he was lying to you. actually, i KNOW he was lying to you. hun, all he wanted from you were pictures so he could get off. his girlfriend probably doesnt do that for him and he knew you would, so he told you what you wanted to hear to get you to give them to him.
i am so sorry. he is such a d-bag. what he did to you was horrible and just for that, you should tell his girlfriend what happened.
but thats only if you want to get even. my motto is .. "dont get mad. get even."
but then again, if you want to take the higher approach, then dont stoop to his level and rat him out. just let him know that what he did to you was horrible and cut him out of your life. i am advising you to never talk to him again. he most definetly is a smooth talker and does this often.. if he really did miss you and want to see you, he would have texted you or talked to you earlier. and did you notice that by the end of you two texting he got short with you and a bit cold ? that was because he didnt need anything else from you and got what he wanted.
he. is. scum.
i am fuming. i hate guys like that. i am so sorry he did that to you. just dont talk to him anymore. you dont want someone like that in your life, you deserve better. dont go up and see him this summer, and delete his number from your phone. cut off all communication with this a-hole. youre so much better than him and just be thankful that youre not his girlfriend.
good luck, and im so sorry :[ if you need anything at all, inbox me. i really hope i helped and im so sorry

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My friend is a senior in high school and im not even a freshman yet. We been talking for about 4 years now. We're not together but we really love each other. The only we aren't together is because of what we kno everyone will say. My mother knows I talk to him and how i feel about him. She likes him and things he's very nice. He's graduating this year and plans on going away 2 college. I think that's great but im going to miss him. So my question is "Is it best for us to just stop talking now ?"

no ! dont stop talking to him now ! listen to me, just because he is going to college and such is no reason for you both to just cut ties. yes, there is a huge age difference between the two of you, but 10 years from now, that age difference probably is not going to matter.
if you both really love eachother, then dont just stop talking because of school or age or what people might say. you both dont have to be together as a couple to love eachother.. you can still be in eachothers lives and love eachother still.
and i know youre going to miss him, he is going to miss you just as much, im sure of it. and if you guys just stop talking, youll miss eachother EVEN more. and do you want to be a stranger to him and him a stranger to you ? .. i dont think so. however, i think you should talk to him about this and how you feel. communication is key.
but if you think it will be easier to just stop talking to him, then do it. whatever is best for you. but im just asking you to consider how it will affect you in the long run hun.
good luck ! everything will be okay, whatever you decide to do. i hope i helped, and if you need anything else, you know where to reach me :] xxo.

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So, back in november. (i know this is wrong) i was reading his IM conversations. and i saw this...

"My boyfriend (8:39:29 PM): if i tell you something you promise not to tell
The girl he was talking to (8:39:42 PM): you know me im good with secrets
My boyfriend (8:39:46 PM): honestly i havnt told anyone this so if i hear it from soemone else i know you told lol
The girl he was talking to (8:39:59 PM): hahah i wont tell (his name) you knwo me
My boyfriend (8:41:16 PM): next year itll be 4 years from my old girlfriend. and i can still say to this day i still ..."like/love" her . its hard to say love because i love laura . im not sayin id rather be with her over laura its just like one of those things that just never went away. ever. no matter who iget with or go out . no matter how many people im with it never fades . you just gota live with it
The girl he was talking to (8:42:07 PM): wow.... im sorry thats like that... it must drive you crazy
My boyfriend (8:42:16 PM): sometimes it does
My boyfriend (8:42:44 PM): and its not like its the same old story wher she was the first girl i fucked or some shit
My boyfriend (8:42:49 PM): shes just an old gf u kno"

so i ignored it. i figured i shouldnt let his past get in the way of our relationship. well, the other day i see "my boyfriend" and "his ex girlfriend" became friends on facebook. so, that brought all my anger from reading that honestybox back and i called him and went off on him. he thinks the girl he was talking to sent me the convo..
he denies that he means it. he said he said it to get something out of the girl he was talking to.
i dont know what to believe. do you tihnk that in that im is a lie? he kind of really went into detail about it, and even mentioned me... i dont know what to do ugh please help me.

i know how it feels to know that LOGICALLY you should break up with him, but your heart is screaming no, dont. i have been through that soo many times with my boyfriend.
but im telling you right now, whatever you do, follow your own heart, not everyone elses. this is YOUR life, not your friends and not your family. what you do is up to you and nobody else. if you had everyone influencing your decisions everyday, then you would not be your own person or have your own life.
if your heart is telling you to stay with him, then dont let him go, but if you can trust him, then there is no point in staying in the relationship. think about it, no trust = no relationship. there is NO WAY anyone can have a healthy relationship withhout trust.
make a pro and cons list.. it always helps me. then evaluate it and see which side has more.. pros or cons.
and just because he became friends with his ex on facebook does not mean that he is planning on talking to her or dong anything with her .. maybe SHE was the one who added HIM. and maybe his story is true, maybe he did say all of that to get information out of that girl .. but then why didnt he tell you sooner, why did he keep it from you ? .. its questions like that which have to come into your mind. i dont know if he answered those questions for you, but if he didnt, you should ask. we both know that you wont feel better unless you get some legitamate answers, wo why not talk to the girl that he was talking to ? or his ex for that matter.
if you really want to find out the truth, you might have to investigate, or you can trust what your boyfriend has to say and leave it at that.
but he does love you. he never said that he didnt. and his ex, who im guessing was his first love, will ALWAYS be his first love. those things just dont go away. everyone remembers who they gave their heart to first, it doesnt mean that they didnt get it back and give it to someone else, but the memory of how they felt about that person will always remain, no matter what. and thats normal. i hope that makes you feel better, because im sure he loves you.. im sure he IS in love with you and you had every right to flip out on him, but talk to him about this, maybe even give him the benefit of the doubt, and then if he messes up again, or you cant trust him and you just cant deal with it, then end it.
but communication is key. and i wouldnt want anyone, including me, telling you what to do.. whther its breaking up with him or staying with him, i want this to be entirely up to you, so you can look back and say to yourself, "I was the one who made MY own decision." yuh know ?
and if you break up with him, you may not think its the right decision, but thats how everyone feels at first, and youll miss him, but sometimes you need to let go and find someone else who wont hurt you or do things behind your back.
but sweet heart, do what YOU feel is right. listen to some music, write, and most importantly.. think. take some time for yourself and just think. you'll make the right decision for yourself, i KNOW that you will.
good luck ! i know how you feel, and you are going through a really hard and confusing time. it will all be okay in the end, if its not okay, then its not the end. if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo. :]

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What does it mean if a boy smiles every time he hears your name? I'm 15/f and he is 16/m.

It most likely means that he likes you :] just think about it .. when someone says or has said the name of a person and you heard it an smiled, it means that you like them and have happy thoughts about them.
same thing goes for guys. talk to him :] see what happens, if hes smiling just by hearing your name, he'll be GLOWING when you talk to him. i guarentee it.
good luck, hope i helped and if you need anything else, let me know ! xxo. have fun.

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Thank you so much. i believed this is 100% true. am just going to let her be . am not even going to connfront her or any of that . Thats not going to fix anything.. since she has anger problems ..what i aslo think is that she is hardly in school and she does bad in classes,and she is a senior, i really dont think she is going to graduate..so since this is happening she probably wants to fight me so then people could think she is not graduating because she fought..which is really pathetic. !

exactly ! and thats clearly so not you to start a fight, you're better than that, so good for you. i give you alot of credit for letting this go. obviously just stay stellar :] and im glad to help anytime, xxo.

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what's the best way to get rid of bad breath BESIDES brushing your teeth 3 times a day & using mouth wash?

you can chew gum or suck on a mint ! that always helps alot of people. and if you're going to drink orange juice or something that leaves a sour-y taste in your mouth afterwards, try to eat maybe a piece of celery or bread to wash it down.. if you really dont want to brush your teeth.
flossing also helps, and gets rid of the extra bacteria left behind in your mouth. but alot of different spices and foods can leave a [bad] lasting impression on your breath for a day or two such as garlic. stay awaaaay from garlic, far away from it hahaa. and onions.
also, drink lots of water. that always helps so that your mouth wont become dry which also causes bad breath. you can also eat bananas or apples. and you can take a metal [silver] spoon, turn it over so that you can scrape your tongue with it [not like scrape it so your tongue bleeds] and that will also help get rid of the bad breath germs and such. [make sure its clean before you use it and you thoroughly wash it aterwards !]
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo :]

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So today I got asked to prom. I don't know the guy who asked me that well, but we're kind of in the same friend "circle"

Well anyway, when he asked me it was reallyyyy awkward, and that just got me thinking, how awkward will it be on prom night??
I'm really scared!! I mean I have to dance with him and everything, and I already act dumb enough around guys on a typical day, so I cannot imagine how embarrassing I will act.

So do you guys have any tips? Like how I can calm my nerves, or maybe get to know him better?
ANYTHING is appreciated! Thank you so much! :]

awww :] okay well, first of all, take a deep breath and let it out. you are going to be fine, and it will only be awkward if you THINK it will be. [mind over matter]
and also know that you will be with ALOT of other people.. all of your classmates and friends. you're not going to be alone with him and you wont have to dance with him or be with just him the whole time. most people venture off with their friends for a while and chill with them, just becase you were asked by him does not, by any means, make you obligated to be glued to him the entire night.
with that said, dont think about it so much. youre going to drive yourself insane. i mean, im sure he is just as nervous as you, even though your probably think that hes not. these things can be nerver racking for both people, but you have to just go with the flow. he asked YOU because he wants to go with you and obviously get to know you better. so just chill out for now :]
but you can get to know him better by now until prom. just talk to him alot ! get his number, e-mail, facebook.. anything like that and just talk to him :] find him in school, and walk around together. the longer you talk to him, the more at ease you will be when the time comes. and by the way, when guys ask girls to the prom, it is usually really awkward for both people; he had a lot of guts to ask you so if he could do that, prom will be a piece of cake :]
dont be scared, i promise that everything will be okay. at first it might be a little awkward [as everything usually is] but dont let that get you nervous.. it wont stay that way for long. before you know it, the conversation between the two of you will be flowing.. i mean, something you could do is play 20 questions with him and ask him random stuff about himself. "favorite color, favorite sport, coolest place to go on vacation, what is one thing you want to do before you die,.. ?" just things like that are fun and can really take the awkward out of any situation. you'll be fine, trust me :]
good luck ! have fun [which you will, dont worry] hoep i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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hey! am sorry if this is too long..i just need some help! ok am a girl and there is this girl that hates me so much. ok this is how it all started. we were in school in algebra and before algebra we have lunch. when we come back from lunch this girl is always late to class. the door of the classroom is always locked. she always comes late and expect somebody to opened the door for her. well me and my friend always sit next to the door but we dont open it for people because they should get to class in time. well when somebody opened the door for her she came in and started saying this "stupid B****** dont open the F***** door . they are so R*******"..she just kept on arguing. we just ignored her. this all happened on november of 2009. now she always stares at me in class,and sometimes when am walking down the hallway she looks at me or when am sitting down and she comes inside the classrrom she stares at me..and i herd her talked about me..i really dont know what is her problem seriously..i dont want to go up to her because i know something will ahppen because she has anger issues and so do i..so can you please tell me a good advice because this girl is getting on my nerves :(

wow. people can be so immature. you're totally right though, everyone should get to class on time.. its not your fault she was late, so her problem with you is basically just because she just cannot admit that she was wrong. just because you sit by the door doesnt mean that you are the one who has to open it. this girl is outta control.
my advice would be to ignore her and be the bigger person. all she wants you to do is feed into her anger so she can get a rise out of you. trust me, she WANTS this to bother you, but if you dont let her get to you.. she loses once again and you come out on top. dont stoop to her level or confront her or any of that. let her stare at you. let her talk about you. people will just get tired of hearing about it and she'll get a bad repuatation.. if she doesnt already have one.
just be yourself, and thats all anyone can ask for. if you let it bother you, she wins and this is obviously a game for her.. dont play along. im telling you, just smiling and not letting her glares or crap talking get to you will kill her more than anything. but if things get really bad, and she either gets physical or is harassing you, tell an adult like a school counselor or your guardians.. because bullying is NOT okay, on any terms, and thats when action should be taken.
good luck ! if you need anything else, you know how to reach me :] hope i helped, xxo.

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So there's this guy that i've had a crush on for forever. He moved and I got a boyfriend (together 9 months) and i forgot about him. But he moved back and my feelings for him returned too, but i also love my boyfriend. The other guy likes me too so he asked me to hang out with him. I wasn't going to because i didn't want to hurt my bf, but i decided i would just to see if i felt anything. So we were hanging out and i let him put his arm around me, he tried to kiss me but i didn't let him. We didn't do anything else. It turns out im not as crazy about him as i thought. Anyways, would this be considered cheating? Should i tell my boyfriend about it? Am i a bad person for doing this?

Thanks

first off; no. you are not a bad person.
second; if you believe it was cheating, then it was. if you believe it wasnt, then it wasnt. everyone has a different view on what is considered cheating, and what is not. i think that in your case, you were just curious, as many people are, and you acted upon your curiosity. but you didnt do anything like hook up with him.. which would DEFINETLY be seen as cheating.
however, did your boyfriend know that you hung out with him ? does your boyfriend know the history between you and this guy ?
.. if you didnt tell him those things, you should tell him before he finds out on his own. its always better to come clean then wait it out. it was good that you didnt let him kiss you. and its good that you realized that you still love your boyfriend.. and that youve maybe found that you love him more than you think you do. and when you tell him what happened, let him know what you have discovered.
but its your choice if you want to tell him what went on. if he did what you did, would you want him to tell you about it ? .. put yourself in his shoes and really consider his feelings. but dont be so hard on yourself. you didnt hang out with that guy with the notion that you were going to cheat on your boyfriend. its okay.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo. :]

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me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago and i found a new guy but i dont no if he likes me or wants to be with me. should i ask or should i go back to my ex who is like heartbroken because of the break up? help me i dont no what the right thing to do is?

well, you obviously broke up with your boyfriend for a reason.. and getting back together with him because he is heartbroken would not be a good idea. I mean, think about it. would you REALLY be happy with him because he's guilting you into going back to him ? .. thats not fair to you.
ask yourself this question: if your ex wasnt heartbroken would you still think of getting back together with him or would you try to get with the new guy who you seem to be very interested in ?
its all how you look at it. and youve really got to think about it. in the end, its up to you to decide what you want to do. if you never try to get with the new guy, you may never know if he likes you or not or how he would treat you and such. the what if would always be there. but just follow your heart, make a list of pros and cons and dont just be with someone because they are upset. heartbreaks dont kill you, and they dont last forever. remember that :]
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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im 13 i weigh 94 pounds and im 4'11 am i over weight?

no ! you're not over weight at all.. far from it. dont even worry about it :] if you were 200 pounds, 13 years old, and 4'11, youd then have something to worry abuout. but youre fine.
good luck ! hope i helped, xxo.

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my friend keeps trying to make me drink but i dont want to. what do i do?

she cant make you do anything you dont want to do, so just stand your ground. if shes pressuring you to drink tell her NO. [bluntly, she'll get the point and stop]
and bring a bottled water wherever you go, and just be like, "im good thanks :]"
you dont need to get drunk to have a good time. and i give you a lot of credit for not giving in to her peer pressure. just dont give in :] keep being awesome and stay alcohol-free !
good luck, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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today, i was hanging out with my new friend, we get along real well and i was telling her my life story and all the pain and struggles that i went through and my friend starts crying and telling me that i dont deserve any of this, i dont know about that but i am really insecure person and i have a low self esteem i really dont know why she cried because she didnt go through any of this, any clue on why?

some people are very emotional and what you told her effected her in a HUGE way. even though she didnt go through what you went through.. she still cares about you so it hurt her to think that such a good person like you had to go through all of that.
its like, if one of your family members or pet or friend gets hurt and needs to be taken to the ermengency room or needs to have surgery.. some peoples first reaction is to cry because its SAD and they feel helpless and wish they could have done something or prevented it.
basically, thats why your friend cried when you told her your life story.
hope i helped, and good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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if a girl likes me how would i know

you would know if a girl likes you if she..
- asks for you number. thats a HUGE sign.. i mean, if you dont ask for hers first or if you dont already have it. it just means she wants to talk to you more and thats a very good sign. but if she already has your number and calls you or texts you alot, then she may be into you :]
- she'll flirt with you alot. she might even bat her eyelashes at you, or laugh at basically everything you say.
- she'll tease you playfully :] usually make fun of you or something and then be like, awww im just kidding and smile.
- she will smile alot. and blush when shes around you. [lots of giggling]
- shell touch your arm or sit next to you.. just so she can be close to you.
- she'll ask you about yourself and not just talk about herself the entire time.
- youll catch her staring at you or looking at you.
- she'll hug you.
- she'll ask you to hang out with her, or IMPLY that she wants to hang out with you.. alone.

... and thats basically the basis :] simple and easy. a lot of people think its hard to figure girls out but its really not that hard, trust me. well, good luck ! have fun, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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so i am dating a boy who has a lot of female friends. hes a great guy and im in love with him but i get so jealous wen he goes out sumtimes, even if its wit grils who are my friends to..... is there anyway to overcom the jealousy?

i so know how you feel.
but you just have to trust him. and i know its so hard to do because he SHOULD only want to hang out with you.. like, you should be the only girl he wants to be around all of the time, but they're his friends, so what can you do ? you kind of have to just suck it up and let him be. if you try to control him, it will make matters worse and people will start to dislike you.. maybe even him.. if it comes to that.
i mean, how would you feel if he told you he didnt want you hanging out with any guys.. whether they were his firend or not because he was jealous ? .. see ? i mean, its healthy to be jealous. it means you care about him alot. which is really good. but just occupy yourself with your friends and hang out with them while hes out with his friends. the only way you can get over your jealousy somewhat is to know that he is with YOU not those other girls. he chose to be with you for a reason and not them, and its because he loves you and wants to be with you.
if you just think about that.. youll feel better. but also, if you want to talk to guys [not in a flirting manner] then go ahead. it might make you feel less jealous too.
oh and, definetley tell him how you feel about all of this. he will reassure you and make you feel more at ease. and if you keep these feelings of jealousy bottled up inside, at some point, youre going to explode and you guys might even have a fight. so try to avoid it and talk to him about this. be honest and he'll be truthful with you.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me because i really do know how you feel and went through this myself. xxo.

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i have been single for to long and i dont no who to like

its okay if you don't know who to like, you dont have to rush it. and i know it sucks that you feel so lonely, but it wont be that way forever.
start talking to more people; broaden your horizons and make new connections. if you dont get out there and flirt.. youll be lonely for quite some time.
and dont just like someonet to like them. like someone who you can see yourself being in a relationship with. someone who makes you laugh and smile. plus, someone who you find attractive is always good, but i know looks arent everything.. even though physical attraction can help in the long run.
but like whoever you are drawn to. someone that interests you and someone that you find mysterious or intriguing. getting to know someone is only half the fun ;]
good luck ! have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped. oh and dont worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so just go swimming ;]

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hello my name is britany and i like a kid who i know likes me but two days ago my best frined asked him out i don't think he likes her all that much but wat should i do because she knows i like him and last time he hit on me i didn't like him soooo i told him that and now she asked him out uh-oh

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:/ tough situation.
okay heres what i think you should do, talk to the guy first because you already told your friend how you felt about him and she asked him out.. even though she knew how you felt about him [which was totally wrong of her.]
if you talk to the guy, dont just tell him to not go out with the girl, or youll be called a homewrecker and such. just ask him how he feels and tell him that you want to be really honest.. after telling him that, maybe tell him how much you like him and that you care about him alot.
after you tell the guy this, see what he says, and then make sure your friend knows that you're talking to him. youre the bigger person here, always remember that.
from then on, just see how it goes and let it play out. if he likes your friend, wait it out. see if he changes his mind. but if he likes you, then yaaay :]
good luck ! have fun, hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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What should I name my fish?

well, it depends on the fish ;] haha. and gender.. ! but anyways, here are some ideas..
- atlas
- barney
- bubbles
- bitsy
- bait
- dory
- nemo
- finley
- frosty
- jaws
- gypsy
- marble
- otto
- spud
- squirt
- tigger
- sulley
- rocket
- aqua
- hydra
- gilbert

theres sooo many you could do, but inbox me if you want anymore unique ones :] hope i helped, good luck and have fun ! xxo.

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I know this sounds stupid, but when people say they got "felt up" what exactly does that mean? Thank you.

it could mean multiple things..
the guy could have felt her up over her cloths on her chest, or he could have gone under her clothes and felt her chest [like touching] but it could also mean he touched her butt on the outside or inside of her clothes [also touching and feeling up.] usually, when people say that, they mean that they guy touched her breasts [underneath clothes or over]
good luck, hope i helped xxo. :]

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