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my ex and my wanna be boyfriend
me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago and i found a new guy but i dont no if he likes me or wants to be with me. should i ask or should i go back to my ex who is like heartbroken because of the break up? help me i dont no what the right thing to do is?
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The "Right thing to do"
is what makes YOU happy. You can't make someone else happy at your expensense. Don't worry, everyone has they're feelings hurt more than once in this lifetime! But what it really comes down to, is what you know in your heart. Don't go back to your ex becuase you feel bad or because your comfortable around him..Venture out. Do what you need to do to be happy for YOU!
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The right thing to do is what's in your heart. There must be a reason why you and your boyfriend broke up, and if you have found a new guy, it sounds like you may be ready to move on. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I encourage it if you are done with your previous relationship. Do not go back to your ex because he is upset, unfortunately, that is a part of the dating world and we all have to feel the pain. At least this way, if you are ready to move on, you are not leading him on in any way and you have broken things off. Which is the right thing to do if you are ready to move on and there is nothing wrong with that, so go ahead with this other guy or just enjoy being you and being single for awhile. :)
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Well, first of all, going back to your ex depends on why did you break up in the first place, and whose fault was it, and if it was a major problem or not.
While about the other guy, you don't really know him, and you don't know anything about him, he might like you and he might not, and even if he did, maybe when you know him, you wouldn't like him so much, and you wouldn't want to be with him as a date, maybe you would just rather wanna be with him as a friend. So if you want, you could get to know him and take a step as being just friends with him first.
Other than that, if your still inlove with your ex and you think that you could work things out, then why not, it depends how you feel about him and if you still like him and want to be with him. You didn't really mention why you even broke up, so i can't say anything at that part.
Just try taking a break to think things over to be able to make the right decision, and hey, sometimes being single is not that bad :P
Hope i helped, if you need anything else, please be free to contact me.Best of luck
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well, you obviously broke up with your boyfriend for a reason.. and getting back together with him because he is heartbroken would not be a good idea. I mean, think about it. would you REALLY be happy with him because he's guilting you into going back to him ? .. thats not fair to you.
ask yourself this question: if your ex wasnt heartbroken would you still think of getting back together with him or would you try to get with the new guy who you seem to be very interested in ?
its all how you look at it. and youve really got to think about it. in the end, its up to you to decide what you want to do. if you never try to get with the new guy, you may never know if he likes you or not or how he would treat you and such. the what if would always be there. but just follow your heart, make a list of pros and cons and dont just be with someone because they are upset. heartbreaks dont kill you, and they dont last forever. remember that :]
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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My only advice for that is:
Don't settle for your ex. If you can do better, you should. Don't feel tied down because he is upset. I'm sure that you and your boyfriend broke up for a reson. Think long and hard about that reason. If you feel like you REALLY still want to be with him, then go back. If you don't, then don't go back to him. Listen to what you're head and heart are telling you to do.
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