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exbf problem
soo me and my ex havent talked in about a month in a half.
and i decided id be nice and text him and ask him how he is and stuff. but i thought he wouldnt text me back but he did. so heres are whollllle conversation.
me: hey youu. how have you been?
him: good how bout you?
me: im goood (: ive been in florida for about a week and im really sunburned so its hurts haha
him:haha that sucks im sorry
me: its all good. what have you been up to?
Him: nothing but working it sucks what about you
Me. Haha you always work but nothing on spring break so ive been down here with my auntt
Him: so do you have a boyfriend?
Me: welll hes not my boyfriend but were kinda together I guess. Do you have a gf?
Him: yeah same girl
Me: that’s cuteee.
Him: yeah do you still miss me
Me: of coursee. Do you?
Him: yeah so are you still coming down here soon
ME: in the summer probably
Him: sounds fun. We should hangout
Me: we should (:
Him: for sure. So are you still really cute?
Me: hahah i dont knoww.
Him: you should send me a picture
Me: I don’t think your girlfreind would like thattt.
Him: well do you promise not to say anything
ME: hahah who would I tell..
Him: true so send me one
ME: if I get one
Him: after work
Me: alrightt
Him: can I have any good ones?
Me: no not having what happened last time
Him: I said sorry so many times bri. I swear its me. Im at work till 1.
ME: I believe youu. Im still not gonna do it though.
Him: fine but can I have a pic
( I sent one)
Him: damn I wish you would of never cheated on me
Me: yeah me too :[
Him: so I say you owe me a good pic for that
Me: hah I sent you plenty that one night and you have a gf. Im sure you were just like this to other girls when we were together
Him: no I really liked you I wasn’t going to mess you up
Me: suree
Him: I swear I was good to you there was something about you I didn’t know what it was
Me: what do you mean?
Him: like I liked you so much treated you so good never cheated on you there was something about you that made me always think about you
Me: yeah same here. It fucking sucks. Ive been doing so good this past month and now im gonna fucking cry.
Him: im not trying to be mean but it was your fault you did mess up
Me: yeah I know :/
Him:well don’t cry we can get back together when you come down if youre not with anyone
Me: no don’t tell me that cuase I know that’s not gonna happen. You have a gf. Youre just not gonna break up with her for me. And im not sure if im gonna go down there yet/
Him: for you yeah I would and try your hardest
Me:well whats that point of being with her if youre just gonna leave her in a couple months anyways
Him: well if you come down and we hangout maybe I will change my mind and forgive you
Me: :[
Him: so you should really try and come down
Me: I will but i dont know if it will happen . Or in the summer ill drive a couple hours and you can too and we can meet somewhere cause I really wanna see you and miss you.
Him: well if you do it I will do it. Wil lyou really do it?
Me: yeah if im not gonna come down there in the summer and I mean all this so you better not be bullshitting me.
Him: im not. I swear. I don’t lie to you. But have you had sex with anyone else.
Me: nope (:
Him: swear?
Me: I swear
Him: ok well can I have a good pic please
Me: nooo
Him: the only way you will get a pic of me is if I get a good one/
Me: ugh fine. But its an old one.
Him: who all do you send pics too?
Me: no one.
( I sent it)
Him: back up. I cant see.
Me: seriously?
Him: yeah/
(I did)
Him: you suck at taking pics.
ME: im pretty sure its your phone cause you can see on my phone.
Him: can I have one more. Thsts really good
Me: no.
Him: fine.
Me: do you really miss me or are you just saying htat?
Him: why would I just say it. that’s stupid
Me: i dont know…
Him: do you still love me?
Me: I always will.
Him: ok good
Me: do you still love me?
Him: I guess you will have to find out
Me: and how am I suppose to do that?
Him:wait till we see eachtoher
Me: finee :[
Him: so what you doing
Me: laying in bed crying hah. You?
Him: y you crying
Me: causee.
Him: cause why. Tell me.
Me: cause I fucking miss you. And I hate how some other girl has you. You were always suppose to be mine.
Him: yeah well I didn’t do it
Me: I know.
Him: so have you met any guys down there.
Me: yeah some.
Him: so do you like them?
Me: haha noo.
Me: so are you happy I texted you.
Him: yeah are you.
Me: I iguess so. But im a total mess now.
Him: why./
Me:: you know why. I honeslty didn’t think you wre gonna text me back.
Him: why
Me: cause we havent talked in forever so I thought you wre just fine without me
Him: well that’s not true. But im going to sleep
Me: yeah I am tooo. Text me tomorrow if you want. Goodnight.
Him: night.
He never text me that day and I texted him like three times. And he finnaly said ill text you tomorrow. He never did that either.
my question is waht should i do? do you think he wa lying to me?
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yes, i think he was lying to you. actually, i KNOW he was lying to you. hun, all he wanted from you were pictures so he could get off. his girlfriend probably doesnt do that for him and he knew you would, so he told you what you wanted to hear to get you to give them to him.
i am so sorry. he is such a d-bag. what he did to you was horrible and just for that, you should tell his girlfriend what happened.
but thats only if you want to get even. my motto is .. "dont get mad. get even."
but then again, if you want to take the higher approach, then dont stoop to his level and rat him out. just let him know that what he did to you was horrible and cut him out of your life. i am advising you to never talk to him again. he most definetly is a smooth talker and does this often.. if he really did miss you and want to see you, he would have texted you or talked to you earlier. and did you notice that by the end of you two texting he got short with you and a bit cold ? that was because he didnt need anything else from you and got what he wanted.
he. is. scum.
i am fuming. i hate guys like that. i am so sorry he did that to you. just dont talk to him anymore. you dont want someone like that in your life, you deserve better. dont go up and see him this summer, and delete his number from your phone. cut off all communication with this a-hole. youre so much better than him and just be thankful that youre not his girlfriend.
good luck, and im so sorry :[ if you need anything at all, inbox me. i really hope i helped and im so sorry <3 xxo.
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