I haD been dating the same guy for over two years. recently in december we broke it off because we had a terrible thing going. we loved each other more than anything but we fought like crazy. The biggest thing for him was that i danced with another guy on spring break, but the only reason i did is because he broke up with me over facebook, dumb right. anyways we have restarted our relationship and he said we are starting on a new limb, like nothing from the past will get to us etc. But today he brought up that guy that i danced with on spring break and he was talking about it and getting all mad and showing off in front of his friend. Now i really love him more than anything like i could marry this guy and we have something i have never felt and hes the greatest boyfriend, just minus that. what do i do? i want to tell him that he needs to stop talking about that or i cant do it anymore.... I love him so much i just wish this part could change, this is a serious dilemma, i can't lose this again, i would be heart broken
For one, It is disrespectful one some level of him to go around telling and showing all of his buddies what you did with another guy while you two weren't dating. It's over and done with and this guy needs to move on. Stop dwelling over the past and focus on the future. If he is so hung up on the past and one little thing that you did with someone when you two WEREN'T together well hun he sounds like an immature ass. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
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